Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

what do you do when you really really want to go to this party and your parents practically lock you in a closet? I Must have freedom!!!

2007-01-22 10:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by Josee G 2 in Friends

Married for two years and last year my wife went overseas to where she used to live in Europe. When she returned she was very distant with me and I just asked her a straight out question if she has been seeing anyone while away. She denies it but when I sked she bliked a lot as she looked very nervous about it. You think it may well be a good indication she is hiding something?

2007-01-22 10:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theirs this guy i really like, and he thinks i like him. Should i tell him i like him or keep it a secret and let him think what he wants. (even tho its true).

2007-01-22 10:23:05 · 24 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

1. statre at them and ask them for a candy cane
2. play hard to get and 1
3.tease him/she
4.talk to him/she
5. make him/she jeasulous

i would just like to see your opion thats all with all due respect - sammyo

2007-01-22 10:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Singles & Dating

6 years ago my sister in law was told she had altzimers,she has gone fron bieng a bisness woman to someone who cant walk she cant talk,she cant feed herself or even go to the toilet,i feel so sad when i go to see her rembering the way she used to be,does anyone know how worse it is going to get and what we can expect for the future

2007-01-22 10:22:19 · 9 answers · asked by bluebrancall 7 in Friends

My dad is 62 and my mom is 52. I'm 13. Is this bad? sometimes i wish my parents were younger. i also have two older siblings who are 19 and 17.

2007-01-22 10:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by damaster 2 in Family

I am having major problems with unresolved anger towards my husband of 6 years. When we married I was heavy, I gained a TON of wt and got to 270# after the last baby. 5 years ago, I began exercising and changing my diet and lost 130#. No one thought I could do it, but I lost the weight, by myself and became a trainer. No WL surgery, no nothing. I also got pretty fit. Last year, I got breast implants to fix my deflated boobs and a little tummy tuck to remove the leftover skin. I'm now pretty foxy. It's crazy but my husband never wants to have sex and stares at other women when we are out. I constantly get men flirting with me, I have always had boyfriends who were really obsessed with me, I cannot figure out what the HE** is wrong with him. He is good looking but not drop-dead gorgeous, skinny, very skinny. Women are friendly but don't hit on him. I don't get it?? Oh, and I'm really a livewire in bed, not a deadf*ck. He acts like an old lady in bed, cuddling etc. He says he is old (41).

2007-01-22 10:19:50 · 16 answers · asked by AM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy now for 10 days...not long I know but it feels like we have known eachother forever! We have spent almost everyday together over that time & we get along so so well. I really really like him, & he seems quite smitten with me aswell, however, I am just wondering if I should maybe slow things down a little...I mean, he wants me to go over to his place again tonight [after I turned him down last night, when he asked me to come over].

I really want to see him, but I don't want us to rush through this "honeymoon" phase, & then get bored with eachother. At the same time I don't want him to think I don't want to spend time with him. Don't say I 'should be talking to him about this' cuz I know he would say something along the lines of 'we aren't spending too much time together'. haha.

Should I go to his, again, tonight? We spent all weekend together!!

2007-01-22 10:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17. My X boyfriend and I have known each other for about a year. We started dating once we started to know each other. We broke up in like 2 months. I was heart broken. He used so mnay excuses like us being a different religion, he seeing me as just a friend, me not giving him hugs all the time, his girl friends not liking me. So yeah, at first we were both pretty sad. While we first started to date, he would always call me. Now that we are not together, he calls me. About 2 weeks ago he told me he still felt something for me, but that he was confused because he kind of liks another girl. I told him that i felt something for him too and he never responded. He calls me like 3-4 times a week. He tells me all about other girls, parties he goes to, and all kinds of things to make me jealous. What is he trying to tell me. Why does he still call me? I guess because we are freinds, but we are also Xs. How do you think he feels about me. I was good to him and he was my 1st boyfriend.

2007-01-22 10:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 10:18:42 · 1 answers · asked by gg2392002 1 in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years has told me last night that he cannot continue this way anymore. He seems quite upset with our long-distance situation and he wants us to change it. We see each other once a month. He has been pretty upset about his job as he hasn't got promoted as he'd hoped for and since then he has been telling me he needs me to be closer to him and not far. He sent me an email today and he explained to me all the options we have and he said he'd be happy if I could be closer to him. He asked me what I think about it. I said I agree and I said I was glad he has raised the topic and I gave him my options and we both agreed to a common goal. However, one thing I dont like is that he gave us a deadline of 6 months as he said that otherwise nothing will change if we dont put some pressure on us. He said if nothing will change within the next 6 months, he wont be able to continue this way anymore. He was very logical and practical about it tonight. What do you think?

2007-01-22 10:18:40 · 6 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i write in the message in a bottle that i got for my boyfriend while i was in Hawaii

2007-01-22 10:18:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't no if he is telling the truth he says it on the phone and stuff but never to my face, i like him alot and all but he never compliments me or any thing he never tells me i am pretty but my friends and his friends say he likes me alot, well some other epeople say he is just playing me what do i do

2007-01-22 10:18:24 · 24 answers · asked by lola l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 10:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by grace g 1 in Weddings

2007-01-22 10:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by joanna j 1 in Singles & Dating

I was really good friends with a girl in work, we used to go out all the time and had so much fun! We were going to go away for a weekend too. But since she's left work, she won't even reply to my messages, I im her and she says she can't talk right now. I understand if she wants to leave her old life behind when she left work, but I don't get why she's being so ignorant. Should I say something to her or just let it go? I don't want to lose a good friendship but will it make me look pathetic asking her why she's being like it? Last time I saw her, we had a brilliant time, we didn't fall out about anything. I only IM her once a week, I'm not bombarding her with messages or anything.

2007-01-22 10:17:06 · 5 answers · asked by gemwi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy my friend like turned out to be a total jerk and a LOSER. HE is goin out with other girls besides HER!!!! What should I do.If she doesn't believe me it might hurt our friendship.?

2007-01-22 10:16:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So yeah i found out the other day that a friend of mine used to cut. she hasnt for almost a year now but shes now told me that shes tempted to alot. I'm concerned for her and maybe its just me but isnt the fact that temptation is still there still a sorta bad thing? i dunno i guess does anyone have some advice on what i can do to calm myself/get her help/or just some plain advice...

2007-01-22 10:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by scfitz5 2 in Friends

They seem like they have nothing to hold back and go for the gusto and sometimes take control!

They also seem more willing to perform oral sex and more into trying different positions in bed.

What makes a older women better in bed overall?

2007-01-22 10:16:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with a lovely girl for several months now, and shortly before things began to get steamy the first time, she made sure I understood what I had already assumed about her- that "sex" was a no-no. Here's my question- what defines "sex"?

The farthest we've gone so far during making out is breast sucking, but I'm unsure of exactly how far to go, and how far is too far. I'd like to go a little farther, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.

One one hand, she was raised a Catholic and her parents are fairly strict. On the other hand, she's definitely shown me a side of her she would NEVER let her parents, or anyone else, for that matter, see. She's also never shown anything but contentment with my advances.

How far can I go?

2007-01-22 10:16:01 · 24 answers · asked by thetoastman99 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 10:15:04 · 26 answers · asked by MARemare 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy told you that oh.. you looks so good. I'll be here for you and take care of you. I'm seeing this guy for 2 weeks now. What do you think? Is he serious or what?

2007-01-22 10:14:56 · 23 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband says it all the time ever since he met his puerto rican friend. I ask him and he doesnt even know and now the "whole family says it!" Everytime he's mad or even happy he says "Puñeta!!!!".... Even when some of them say hi to each other they say "whatsup Puñeta".....??? Plz give me all definitions. looked up it means something like "male mast-urbation" but how is that relevant when your saying it in a sentence???

2007-01-22 10:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your girlfriend call logs and text messeges have been erased more than once in less than two weeks . Does that mean something is going on? Also I asked to see her phone she let me and everything was erased again even when I called and text her earlier that day. Later on she went to bed and later on that night I looked at her her phone again and the call logs where empty and unlocked but the texts were locked . I asked her about it and she gave me the code and ther was one sent text saying that "watch what you send me because I cant have my phone on me 24/7" so I asked her who was this since it had no name she said it was her friend at work a female So I asked if this is your friend why is the name not programmed with the number . her reply she has access to another phone and that she knew it was her . and the reason she says she keeps it locked and all calls and pic and texts erased because she does want her son to see them . So yahoo land give me some answers Male & female

2007-01-22 10:14:07 · 15 answers · asked by JT 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm fourteen and pretty cool but for some reason i can't get a girlfriend and have never had one. I don't think im ugly and i've seen some of the nerdest people with girlfriends but I kinda freeze up when i get around beautiful girls or any girls pretty much, and don't have the balls to ask one out. what should i do?

2007-01-22 10:14:04 · 8 answers · asked by kornbready 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a lovely girl with very low self-esteem and self-confidence due to the fact that she has always been treated so badly by her past boyfriends - consequently she is very wary of men - and understandably so. We have a very good friendship but I would like to take it further, but think she still needs confirmation that I am not going to be like her exes - I genuinely care for her, and am therefore biding my time, treating her well and trying to make her realise that I do respect her and cherish her friendship and want to make her happy.

2007-01-22 10:12:48 · 7 answers · asked by bovie 4 in Singles & Dating

For men--what would you do if your wife hit you? A cold war had been going on for 2 days, and you change the channel on the tv, and she hits you with an open hand on the side of the head? It's the first time it's happened in 26 years of marriage.

For women? Do you feel the rules should or should not be different for spouses hitting each other? Should women be treated the same as men who hit?

This just happened to my best friend. And no, he didn't touch her after she hit him...but I'm surprised at him staying there after she hit him.

2007-01-22 10:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Lots of women nowadays seem to be proud of the fact that they can't cook at all and have to eat out or have their husbands or boyfriends cook. What's up with that?
Why would they wear their inadequacy as a badge of honor? The women's movement ended a LONG , LONG time ago.

2007-01-22 10:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by summit_of_human_intellect 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend has fallen in love with me we have known each other for about year now and do have casual sex and we were both cool with that but she says she loves me now she is such a nice person and i need her friendship but im just not sure if i love her at all in that way what should i do?

2007-01-22 10:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by michael 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 10:12:06 · 6 answers · asked by rockin_country_girl2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships