Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I asked my husband what his type was and he said he didn't have one. I do not think it is me, obviously. His favorite actress is Sandra Bullock, I have blonde hair and blue eyes. It is not like I think he is not attracted to me. Then we have had problems in the past and we were split and he slept with this girl and she has Brown hair and is completely oppisite from me. I just wonder why it is a big deal to tell me.

2007-01-22 09:47:30 · 41 answers · asked by cherristee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ie: meaning you left your spouse and ended up happily married to that "other" person

2007-01-22 09:47:24 · 6 answers · asked by sweetbabykitty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the ground rules to new relationships? If you are seeing more then 1 guy-is kissing allowed?

2007-01-22 09:47:23 · 26 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Singles & Dating

is there such a thing as playing too hard to get? this guy has been after me for the longest and im the playing the game but he wont seem to stop.... does he think that im playing hard to get? or does he not get that i just dont like him??

2007-01-22 09:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy that i am intrested in. he is everything i would ever want in a guy.. we have talked non stop for a while now. i think i may even love him. hes not my boyfriend. last night we hung out with some friends and we came back to my apartment.(we are both 24 years old) and talked and cuddled. and it was 6 am before we knew it. and i asked him to come lay with me in my bed. i thought we would go to sleep and i would take him home the next moring we laid there it was soo nice..(before this we have not kissed) threw out the night he kept telling me "you dont want me" i would ask him why and he wouldnt tell me.. until the kissing got a little intense and he just stopped and said you dont want me... and i said why dont i want you. and i waited for an answer.. and he said after a long time Genital Herpes. i asked questions how he got it who from what happend he told me. i like him a lot. and i'm clean i was just checked i dont know what to do i want to stay with him but scared.

2007-01-22 09:46:17 · 3 answers · asked by ktd919 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

it is time to get married. I am having way too much fun right now. I just got out of law school and am finally making money and going out with a couple chicks. How do other guys my age feel? What about the girls, do you think its wierd? I think i have at least 2 more good single years in me. Your thoughts?

2007-01-22 09:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i was wonderin has any1 got any ideas 4 a good prezzy???
my boy f is goin to be turnin 29 and i have no idea???? it has to be really especial as he is takin me to paris.

2007-01-22 09:45:28 · 2 answers · asked by ANNAHITA r 1 in Family

not being up to your ideal or expectation. Does that imply she's not good enough? change how you feel about her? is it okay to say something like that about someone you love? what would you do if someone you loved said it to you? would you still feel loved by them??

2007-01-22 09:45:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:45:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should you take to anull the 2nd marrage?

2007-01-22 09:43:59 · 18 answers · asked by mineownenemy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and it curves down ... i was wondering if anyone has been in this situation we have a sex once but was missionary and didnt last long bc we had to leave.... im gettin ready to go see him in a few weeks hes stationed somewhere else and i jsut dont see how things are going to work in that department bc its so curved that he had sent me a picture on the net awhile back ( and no hes not some guy i met on the net hes was a highschool friend) and i couldnt tell if he was limp or hard ..... any tips on postions etc cuz i m afraid im going to make an *** of myself ....

2007-01-22 09:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a party on NYE with some friends and met a nice guy, got to get to know him, etc. He tells me that I'm the kind of girl that's a filet mignon--not like a hamburger which a guy can have anytime he wants, but something special. So I'm thinking, ok, maybe he'll ask for my number. He knew that I'm a virgin and plan on staying that way. Then he asks for my friend's number instead of mine! What would posess someone to say something like that, then ask for someone else's number? (She did say that she has done it with her ex bf, would this have made a difference?) I'm just trying to understand why someone would say something like that, and then not follow up on it.

Even if he did find a way to call me now, I wouldn't go out with him. He had his chance that night.

2007-01-22 09:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Singles & Dating

I mean all of the people in the military that go over seas for 8-12 months at a time. I've been away from my gf for 7 months and i don't think i can take it any longer... If i have to I'll walk over to her place...(which is over 1000 miles away) any advice for me?

2007-01-22 09:42:47 · 12 answers · asked by Rikku 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and I love him so much. The problem is , his boyfriend still lives with him and has been interfering with our relationship. He has suicidal tendencies and my boy feels responsible if anything bad happens to him.
The ex lost his job because he tried to kill himself at work and now he is totally relying on my boyfriend- financially.
The ex is abusing and using my BF just because he CAN. I am hurt (not jealous) that he let th EX do this type thing to him. Helping a friend from time to time is acceptable but abusing ? I dont approve.
I am not a jealous boyfriend, I am just bothered by the whole situation.

Please advise.

2007-01-22 09:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by Vegan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a few guys now but i dot know who to take seriously because they both offer different qualities. One is real attentive and i like him for that but he can at times overwhelm me. the other is awsome a nd i feel real comfortable with him but there are times when he seems not to care like he doesn't call for days but when we are together i am his number one priority. Yet even though he does this i am drawn to him and still call on te other hand with the other guy i like his way of being but i think that he is "bothers me " too much but i think he on the other hand is ready for a relationship what should i do????

2007-01-22 09:41:12 · 2 answers · asked by chiquis_mata 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:39:59 · 59 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Singles & Dating

May seem stupid I know, but Saturday a female bartender I talked to very briefly, sent a drink to the table I was eating at for me on her dime. When I went to thank her, she had left her number with the other bartender. That was 2 days ago, should I call now? What do I talk about? Help!

2007-01-22 09:39:51 · 23 answers · asked by Jay P 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls always talk about how guys only think about sex but when they meet a guy that they like and he doesn't bring up sex then they start to think his gay and they'll probably stop seeing him. If a guy is bad in the bedroom and this is the only problem in the relationship, the girl will usually leave. So why do girls say sex is not a deal breaker when it is to most of them?

2007-01-22 09:39:04 · 36 answers · asked by jason j 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so yesterday i went up to my mom and told her i think i have depression and she didn't even want to think that. she started making up all these excuses that is to why i think that. and that is exactly the reason i didn't want to tell her about it cause i knew she wouldn't beleive me. so i like sat in my room for an hr crying cause i knew my mom would do that. wat am i supposed to now, cause my mom dosn't believe me. im like so sad and stuff rite now.

2007-01-22 09:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bff lets call her- gaby
my crush lets call him- frank

okay, my friend gaby just told me that she likes my crush frank (gaby told me that she thought frank was flirting with me, so thats confusing) and then, today, she just up and tells me that our other friend, rebecca, told gaby that frank likes gaby... then, to top it off she says to me, "don't worry, you'll find the right guy, franks just not for you" - i really like frank, and gaby and other people have told me he likes me too, but im so confused, and then gaby asked franks friend ryan if frank liked me, and he said "i know frank, and he wouldn't like her" so basically, im confused... if you can help, that would be a-w-e-s-o-m-e

2007-01-22 09:38:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend and i got drunk and had sex and now shes pregnat and i think its eather late in the eight month or early in the 9th.
she thinks she should eat alot of vestable.
and i say she should eat alot of soup with meat.
but shes been craving alot of nachos. even though shes pregnat she still eats less than me and before she was pregnat she was about 123 or somthin.
i eat alot of soup infact i think thats all i pretty much eat.
and she eats alot of vestables.
but what would be best ?
i want my baby to be healthy and big.
but not fat.

2007-01-22 09:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex were going out for 2 years, (both 19 now) we both cheated on each other and finished the relationship. we got back together about 6 months later but he had started going out with the girl he cheated on me with and they went out for about 4 months.

anyway, so we got back together, but it was sort of on and off, and then finished it again and i left it that i couldnt trust him because he see's that girl every day.

but i've just realised today that i think i can trust him again, if he can trust me after what i done.

i keep thinking about him but i dont know if its because i actually want him, or because i just want someone who i cant find.

he is interested in going out with me again but he has changed quite a bit now.

im so confused, should we get back together?

2007-01-22 09:38:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am doing a school project! hope you can help me.

2007-01-22 09:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 09:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 09:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by krissyrizza 1 in Friends

i lost my information ccan anyone help me....

2007-01-22 09:37:53 · 3 answers · asked by belinda a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have known brian for five years now

we are BEST FRIENDS
its wierd to most people cuz im a girl he's a dude.. but its totally amazing for the two of us

im mean we both have our separate friends but we love eachother ya know?
well i think i might just love him a little more than i lead on..

the problem is, he has a girlfriend. but she is all wrong for him and it is so obvious!

what do i do?

2007-01-22 09:37:38 · 24 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating