I am dating a few guys now but i dot know who to take seriously because they both offer different qualities. One is real attentive and i like him for that but he can at times overwhelm me. the other is awsome a nd i feel real comfortable with him but there are times when he seems not to care like he doesn't call for days but when we are together i am his number one priority. Yet even though he does this i am drawn to him and still call on te other hand with the other guy i like his way of being but i think that he is "bothers me " too much but i think he on the other hand is ready for a relationship what should i do????
2007-01-22 09:41:12 · 2 answers · asked by chiquis_mata 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are having 2nd thoughts about either guy, it may be time to step back and take a breather, you may not be ready to be dating or at least trying to find a serious relationship. It takes a varying amount of time for people to recover from relationships, I myself got out of a 2 yr relationship recently, but found I was ready to date almost immediately, where as my relationship before that was a live in, I had a child and it took me almost 2 yrs to get over that particular relationship, so it really depends on you and your needs.
2007-01-22 09:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule it takes up to 1/2 of the time that we have been in a relationship to get over it. So say you were in this past relationship for 1-year, you would then have to be out of the relationship for up to 6 months to be over it. Same applies to the boy(s) you are dating. Good luck.
2007-01-22 17:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋