Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

My brother was collecting a Social Security check in florida.. He ended up getting arrested and his SS checks kept going to my sisters house. She cashed them . When he got out in 3 months and went to SS office and informed them that he was out of jail they showed him the SS checks and they where cashed was on them My sisters handwriting was on the checks. I wouldnt be so angry at her because she might have needed the money but it took one hundred dollars to get him out (he got arrested for not having ID) and she has run around for years talking about hallelujah praise the lord. Telling other people they are going to hell.

2007-01-22 09:59:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they would wine and dine you. make you feel like they like you. brake you say they dont like you like that then say " uhh! um! i jus wanna b um! friends" if you wanna be friends make it noticable being a good friend is what should show my niggah not feelings!

2007-01-22 09:59:21 · 13 answers · asked by Mz. HeartBroken 1 in Singles & Dating

I dunno what it is, or why it has to be that way but it always seems to be the case.

And that makes me a sad panda.

2007-01-22 09:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 38 yr old male in Billings, Montana. I have a good paying job, own my own home and I am in shape financially and physically. I am fun and outgoing as well.

2007-01-22 09:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by yellowstone34 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with a lovely man for only 6 weeks, but would like to ask him if he would like kids one day, NOT NOW!!, but if its on his life plan. The reason is, i had a lovely bf for 3 years and never talked about this, then he asked me if i would consider having a baby and i said no. I just dont want to waste another 3 years, getting to know someone, only to realise that we dont want the same things! I already have 2 kids from a previous relationship.

2007-01-22 09:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I am bisexual and when I came out to my mother, she told me that my sexuality wasn't "valid" . she said that it wasn't sincere, and that i'm either a lesbian or straight. but that she thought i was going through a "phase". beacuse i've liked and dated alot of guys before.
and also alot of my friends are really conservative and i've heard more than one of tem say that "bisexuals are sluts" how can i convince them that my preference is valid (and not slutty)?

2007-01-22 09:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by mischa m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so yea, the dance is comming in a week. we're allowed to grind. just a question, what do you do with your hands?

2007-01-22 09:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Chelly 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering what I could do to make them stop making fun of me. This happens everyday and I don't like it.

2007-01-22 09:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by Peter D 2 in Friends

I am Catholic and I recently started dating an Israeli which is difficult not only because we are getting to know each other but because we are too different religions and cultures. He says that religious differences are not an issue for him and that we are dating exclusively but he's made no attempt to introduce me to anyone in his circle and seems disinterested in doing anything with my circle. Should I continue to pursue this?

2007-01-22 09:57:23 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

In today's times, it seems that girls are giving it up for any guy they call their boyfriend. I plan on staying abstinent until marriage, and am curious as to whether or not this puts me at a disadvantage when meeting/dating guys. Do guys just see me as marriage material and not as dating material? Guys, is it a turn-off when you meet a girl and find out that she's saving herself for marriage? Or are you more likely to get in a relationship with her if you know she'll eventually give it up?

2007-01-22 09:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Singles & Dating

i liked him, and i flirted. he figured it out, and flirted a little back. he told me he thinks im pretty..we talked on the phone for like an hour but he had to go...and i called him the next day and i asked him if he would take my friend and i home from the dance he said yea" bye" then hung up. then laughed about it to my friend the next day, thinking he was being funny. we started saying bye to eachother on the bus, he came over to my house (we live on the same road) he tried to talk to me more, but i kept calling him for stuff, and just to talk him and stuff, and i've tried to not call him so much, cuz i mean his whole life doesnt revolve around me, and i dont want my whole life to revolve around him, i mean..i dont wanna be obsessed, but i think thats whats happening, here...please help! does he like me? is he annoyed? and what should i do??

2007-01-22 09:56:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend 2yrs and we love each other he lives in birmingham i live in kidderminster. he finishes with me when i go on a night out he says he trusts me but dont trust people round me. but when i went out with him before i was all over the dj and we split for a bit i really regret it cuz he dont let me out i feel like im in prison when i do go out i have to lie to him which is a lot of touble i really dont know what to do?

2007-01-22 09:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2 in Family

2007-01-22 09:55:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine just divorced his wife. He has sole custody of their 3 children and he filed for child support. Well, when his ex-wife found out he was doing this, she called him and cussed him out. Then in the next breath, she says "Women don't pay child support". How stupid is that to say? they've been seperated for a couple years and divorced for 2 months. In that time, the kids have lived with him and she's done nothing to support them.

2007-01-22 09:55:15 · 22 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I just started going out with this guy in december, but we were talking all the way since september, so on christmas he got me a teddy bear and 2 cds, and i got him a fitted that he wanted. So he told me that his mother dies when he was 7,so do you think should get him a dog tag, saying R.I.P. to his mother???

2007-01-22 09:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by missez_b072192 1 in Friends

do you like this poem? i wrote it for my boyfriend jimmy. we're like soul-mates. tell me if you like it! thanks.

Where’d the time go??
When I’m free, you’re not there;
When You’re Free, I’m not there..
Our time flies by and we talk on
As I look down upon this platform in which I walk on
I think of you.
Where’d the time go??

Where’d the time go??
I miss you every waking second,
Until we talk again.
We try to squeeze in,
Our relationship *(so distant)
Yet though, it seems as if I am your wife in marriage.
We talk about our future (together)
We talk about our dreams (together)
We even talk about our fantasies (together)
And that is why I love you so dearly.

Where is time going?
I’ve talked to you for 24 hours straight,
As though we’ve only talked for 2 minutes.
We look at the clock, and count on down.
But I picture us married (together),
You in suit, and I in gown.
Time may be flying by, but I just want you to know,
That this time is cherished and as well bringing us closer;
Closer to *(Our) life
Closer to *(Our) family
Closer to *(my) You
Closer to *(your) Me
Closer to *(Our) precious moments
Closer to *(Our) home
Closer to *(Our) kids
Closer to *(Our) relationship
Closer to *(my) love for you
As well as Closer to *(your) love for me


Where’d the time go??
The time is sitting still until I talk to you,
We’ll let our hearts out, until we have fully matured.
Where is the time going??
Time is going toward *(Our) dreams
I Love You, Jimmy!
And that is where *(Our) time is going.

2007-01-22 09:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by tren 1 in Singles & Dating

never be able to have a long term relatioship...would you?

2007-01-22 09:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by KB 3 in Singles & Dating

hello all i have this boyfriend and he keeps telling me that he loves me over and over he says he misses me but i havent seen him since two weeks ago he totally ignore my calls tells me he is with family i think he is being unfaithful to me but i had someone tell me that he was cheating on me and he regrets it that is why he keeps saying that he loves me so much what should i do about him i still love but still cannot believe he would cheat on me

2007-01-22 09:53:20 · 6 answers · asked by karenwalkerfan2005 1 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering...im married for almost 7yrs an my husband doesnt really like anything kinky...so im just wondering if thats just him and if all other men like kinky and wild things?

2007-01-22 09:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by ღCCღ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does she like me,we have statred at each other,she asked me for candy cane,is she trying to give me a signal i like you and i know u like me, i cannot talk girl , I am sooo confused even the other day i heard her sister asking about rumors about me,i stick around with my friends often and i am shy,she has a friend who is a boy who acts like cool,so i am wondering 3 things
1.does she like me ?????
2.is she shy ?????
3.What comes next ????

2007-01-22 09:52:45 · 1 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Singles & Dating

my mum lives 3 hours away from me, she is getting less mobile since last year, if she goes to a nursing home they will take her house, then i won't have much inheritance, should i look after her long distance? train and 2 buses each way. I also have a brother but he has nothing to do with her.

2007-01-22 09:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

as far as asking out, giving gifts and stuff, and anything else.

2007-01-22 09:51:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 09:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by GJ 1 in Singles & Dating

One day my mother inlaw comes over for lunch.Before we were going to eat we wondered where her dog was.So we looked in the livingroom and saw him standing next to a pile of poop!Pretty
gross!So I need to tell her that I don't want her dog in my house anymore.I need to tell her this without hurting her feelings.What can I say?

2007-01-22 09:50:31 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel L 2 in Family

There is a woman whom I met that I hope to date. I see her almost every day on my way home from work at a local Starbucks. We get kicks flirting with eachother. When do I make my move? What do I say?

2007-01-22 09:50:19 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I just wanna know how to get him back. I love him more than anyone in this whole entire world and I would do anything for him.

2007-01-22 09:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to hs together.
She contacted me 4 yrs after we graduated. This girl acts like she's my friend 1 minute & turns against me the next. The few times we talked, she was going on about how smart she is, how popular, how big her boobs are etc. Even in hs she acted conceited towards me sometimes.
At a mutual friend's college graduation in '05, she ignored me & talked to her friends. When I was pregnant she offered to buy me stuff and said she was only doing it for the baby.
She texted me a few months ago "I'm married" after we hadn't spoken for months! Of course when she was pregnant out of wedlock or when her dad left her mom she didn't tell me!
Why would she keep contacting me, when it's obvious she doesn't like me?
I don't think she's jealous of me b/c she has a house, husband, better paying job, and more friends. In hs, she was well liked whereas I wasn't. I'm not even better looking than her or anything.
I think she's trying to make me feel bad about myself? But why?

2007-01-22 09:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by kstackney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am starting to think that he is cheating on me. This woman he works with is a lil too close to him. They have lunch together every day. He is constantly talking and joking with her about sex and she gets drunk at home and everytime she does he is the first person she calls. he ensures me that he sees her like a sister but i mean i dont know....HELP

2007-01-22 09:49:31 · 36 answers · asked by Mama Meg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(a) because 'you are nice', 'good looking' and for 'all the things you have done' and 'who you are' ....... (so they list a long list of reasons why they love you)

or would you rather

(b) they say they "i love you for no good reason at all"

2007-01-22 09:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and I have not dated seriously in about two years. I have interest in some people, and one man and I have plans to go out soon...

I am terrified of starting things because I don't want to hurt anyone. I keep thinking.. what if I change my mind? What if I find that I am not attracted to him enough-- and I'm also scared that I'll try to hang in there and make myself find him attractive and then we'll end up in an unhappy relationship. I know a lot of these fears are ridiculous, but I have them and can't deny them.

I am a blessed, free woman and I love my life... so I'm just scared of painting myself in a corner. But I also realize that it is possible for me to have a partner to compliment my life and myself...

any advice or anything would be oh so helpful.

2007-01-22 09:47:45 · 18 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Marriage & Divorce