i was just wondering...im married for almost 7yrs an my husband doesnt really like anything kinky...so im just wondering if thats just him and if all other men like kinky and wild things?
2007-01-22 09:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by ღCCღ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i was wondering cause my husband likes the same old stuff all the time...like its just a job to have sx...but i like to have fun, and if i suggest new things he seems like he gets offended or laughs like its a joke.
2007-01-22 10:03:20 · update #1
It's just him, I like all kinds of things and im married
2007-01-22 10:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I miss him., your answer just says that you'll get married because your afraid of stds? I dont think thats a really good reason. And honastly lookin at stats if you've had sex with 6 ppl then you can have all the incurable stuff but aids. but who hasnt done 6?, thats everybody. I had that done by highschool and i wasnt even on the football team. And why would you tell your kids about your sex life anyway, that sounds retarded. Truth be told, as much of a loudmouth he is...he's right. Men and women fool themselves about having enough sexual partners, and women are not as strong as they'd like to think. They are very idealistic.. Just 5 weeks ago i was in a nightclub and I grinded and MADE OUT with this one chick. She was married, she told me at the end, but she really wanted it she said "you got me really worked up,its gonna be a hard ride home". I said I would work around it but she was weird."I cant i can't this is just for fun" . I was pissed,"fun?!" and shes just foolin herself, she will wear down and cheat eventually. It happens in little steps. First she just goes to clubs, then talks to guys, then grinds, then kisses, then makes out, then so on so fourth. They say they will only take it so far, but each time go further. I have had 7 married chicks before. They all have their stupid way of justifying it. Lesson to be learned is, quench your sexual curiosity while you can. I really think theres something to that.
2016-03-28 21:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol what kind of questions you people ask. Well I can tell you that my hubby like wild and kinky but he also likes the passionate stuff. I pretty much say whatever a man wants give him, wether it's wild, kinky or ect..... If you don't someone else will. Men are men they just like getting some.
2007-01-22 10:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~V~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kinky and wild are highly subjective words. One man's kink could be another man's business as usual. Try kicking up the bedroom play a notch and see what his reactions are. Don't be afraid to take control. If he loves you, he'll want to satisfy you more than anything, but it's up to you to demonstrate how this is best achieved.
2007-01-22 10:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Most of them do like that crazy stuff. Maybe he just doesn't know he likes it yet. Try some of it on him sometime as a surprise. If he hates it then he'll scream for you to stop.
Maybe what you consider wild, he considers boring. You should just ask him what he likes, and if he'd be willing to try new things. Start with tying up his hands and blindfolding him, or doing naughty things in semi public places where there's a slight chance of getting caught.
2007-01-22 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your OBGYN Dr. For a name of a professional sex councilor / therapist. It would most helpful if you both went to see he or her. They are able to open new ideas that both of you are comfortable with. As a professional these people have heard everything . Put your ideas and feelings on the table. Do not wait his present manners will only get worse. I've been married a long time and my wife sounds similar to your husband.
2007-01-22 10:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it just depends on the man my husband is like that too we have been married for 5 years and dating for 12 we also have three children together and two from his first wife so i think its just the man my friends husband loves kinky sh** and they have been married for 11 years dating for 18
2007-01-22 10:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by angela C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess what you should do is define kinky and wild in your terms....i have talked with many people...
one persons kinky might be some public sex othere might verge on S&M
2007-01-22 09:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men are no different; we all like a little variety now and then.
2007-01-22 10:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the guy.. My husband likes to try new and fun things especially sex toys and fun things like that... We have fun with it lol! to each their own.. See if he is into sex toys and fun things like that. My husband likes heels on me during sex too lol and ankle bracelets.
2007-01-22 10:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋