I just wanna know how to get him back. I love him more than anyone in this whole entire world and I would do anything for him.
2007-01-22 09:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he still really wanted to be in a relationship with you he'd be fighting tooth and nail to make that happen. Guess it would help if we had more info to go on, but I'm assuming he broke up with you, and if that is the case, girl you can't make someone be in a relationship with you no matter how much you love them. Number one its not fair to you to be in a one sided relationship because don't you even realize that you deserve much better than that??? If you've tried talking to him about this and he is showing no interest in getting back with you, then it's time to move on. And if he has showed some interest then make sure it's real and not "let me call you when its convenient" kinda thing because the only one who will be hurt in the end is you, and you don't wanna be even more hurt than you already are do you??
2007-01-22 10:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by ~Sabie~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to here someone tell you to forget about him or let him go, because you don't want to give up on that hope you've provided yourself to thrive off on while he's gone. You tell yourself, "he'll come back," and that saves you from realizing that he's really gone in the first place. Although at times it feels like it can, love can't do everything, it can't magically fix your life and make it be what you want it to. Chances are, if it ended, it ended for a reason, and whether or not you know what that is, you really can't intend to get someone back until you do. The best thing I can tell you to do right now at this moment is get involved in your life. Get back to the basics of you and who you are and what made you happy before he came into your life. It's better to improve yourself while he's gone, that way, if he does come back, he'll have this amazing happy person to come back to, and if not, you'll be ready for the next guy who might just surprise you. Don't call him, don't plead, don't send him the letters and the e-mails you write, that will only drive him away. Instead, wrap yourself around you, and if it's meant to be, he'll slowly but surely see he lost a good thing, and you can move on from there.
2007-01-22 09:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. I am in your EXACT same position so i think this is what WE should do (lol).. don't appear to be desperate (never a good thing) but tell him, calmly, how you feel and explain in a meaningful way why you want him back and how much he means to you.. I love my ex boyfriend more than anything too, and the only reason why we broke up was because he left for school across the country.. but i will tell you one thing, it will happen if it's meant to be, but that doesn't mean you can't fight for him! Show him that you love him, don't whine about it because that will definitely turn him off to anything he's held on to with you.. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-22 10:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she thinks you're a strong man or woman and could keep her son on the instantly and narrow, she would also experience that her son will learn about his ex and would haven't any one at the same time as he receives out so shes attempting to fix him up so as that hes no longer on my own or down. the component is he feels like undesirable information and has brought about you a great deal of grief contained in the previous and that i wouldnt imagine he will change a lot, in case you went with the help of plenty earlier then you surely will lower back. i might want to wish her properly and keep transferring on, shes attempting to play cupid and its no longer really her agency.
2016-12-02 22:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to become his friend , do activities where you are not alone and show him the fun girl he wanted to hook up with in the first place. Get to know him as a person and let him see the qualities you have. However, dont seem desparate, men like to chase , not be chased. Good luck!
2007-01-22 09:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by BrownBagFormal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want u then theres prob not much u can do im afraid, i was in ur position not too long ago and me trying to get him back just pushed him further away and he wont even speak to me now so i suggest u just give him time and look after yourself so he can c what hes really missing.
2007-01-22 09:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, like some people say "everything happens for a reason", spend some times for yourself and focus. ask yourself why you still want to be with him. you know, there are still a lot of good guys out there like myself. it isn't the end of the world because you're not with him anymore. you still have yourself and your family. my mom used to say "think five steps ahead before you do anything". only you can answer your own question. good luck!
2007-01-22 10:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you let him go in the first place? Why didn't it work out? Does he feel the same way? If not, then you have to move on, because he's not gonna change his mind.
2007-01-22 09:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need the circumstances of why you split in the first place before I can answer properly.
2007-01-22 09:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by buggaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋