I went to a party on NYE with some friends and met a nice guy, got to get to know him, etc. He tells me that I'm the kind of girl that's a filet mignon--not like a hamburger which a guy can have anytime he wants, but something special. So I'm thinking, ok, maybe he'll ask for my number. He knew that I'm a virgin and plan on staying that way. Then he asks for my friend's number instead of mine! What would posess someone to say something like that, then ask for someone else's number? (She did say that she has done it with her ex bf, would this have made a difference?) I'm just trying to understand why someone would say something like that, and then not follow up on it.
Even if he did find a way to call me now, I wouldn't go out with him. He had his chance that night.
2007-01-22 09:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL Bruce B he probably was. SO funny.
2007-01-22 10:18:36 · update #1
take it as a complement what he was trying to say to you with out saying it(a thing most guys do) is he thought you were beautiful and not like the other girls. He respected you for keeping your virginity. thinking this, he had no idea how to handle the situation he's never came across a girl with morals and class. so instead of venturing into new emotional grounds he resorted to what he knew (girls that are not up to your standards) keep up the good work it sounds to me your parents are doing/did a fine job on raising you!!.................PS he could of been a vegetarian(just kidding)
2007-01-22 09:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
filet mignon is oneof the best most expensive pieceof meats out there it is really good filet mignon is up there on the meat scale its one ofthe highest grades of meat i would not be pissed if someone called me a filet mignon its like saying that meat is so good its expensive and not everyone can have it or afford it but everyone can have and afford a hamburger anytime
2007-01-22 09:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you would make a very good catch for someone looking for a long-term, loving relationship or marriage. That's not what he's looking for right now, he's cruising for a sex or a sexual relationship that he knows he won't get from you. He's respectful of the fact that you intend to remain a virgin, so he won't even bother to try and pursue a relationship with you.
2007-01-22 09:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you on the decision to not go out with him. This is a backhanded compliment. ....that at the same time tells you that you are too good for this guy.....he obviously can't afford fillet Mignon......Trust me, although you did not get this guy take away a positive thing from it.
2007-01-22 09:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He meant that you were a top of the line girl. You were almost perfect, but if he knew you were a virgin , then he probably thought he didn't have a chance with you. He thought of you as a "nice" girl.
2007-01-22 09:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He referred to you as a piece of meat! You should be more than happy he didn't ask for your number. There is going to be aperfct guy out there that will respect you and see you as more than a fillet. Just keep your eye out.
2007-01-22 09:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm find someone new. He is not that interested in you , seems he wants hamburger after all.Don't let it bother you so, people are people find a new guy that is interested in you.
2007-01-22 09:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just interested in the hamburger - sex - so be glad he ddn't get your number and call!!
2007-01-22 09:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest he was not looking for someone special but someone for a quick fling --- best wishes
2007-01-22 09:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋