I'm 17. My X boyfriend and I have known each other for about a year. We started dating once we started to know each other. We broke up in like 2 months. I was heart broken. He used so mnay excuses like us being a different religion, he seeing me as just a friend, me not giving him hugs all the time, his girl friends not liking me. So yeah, at first we were both pretty sad. While we first started to date, he would always call me. Now that we are not together, he calls me. About 2 weeks ago he told me he still felt something for me, but that he was confused because he kind of liks another girl. I told him that i felt something for him too and he never responded. He calls me like 3-4 times a week. He tells me all about other girls, parties he goes to, and all kinds of things to make me jealous. What is he trying to tell me. Why does he still call me? I guess because we are freinds, but we are also Xs. How do you think he feels about me. I was good to him and he was my 1st boyfriend.
2007-01-22 10:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what this means....
He is F***ing with you. You are totally falling into his trap!
He likes the ego strokes you give him when you tell him you have feelings for him. So he keeps you hanging on a little string of hope, by calling you all the time... but He always has something else going on, and its not you.
Stop returning his calls and feeding his ego. That is what he wants from you, and that is all he wants. Move on girl, you have other guys to meet.
One more thing... he is only 17.. what do you want from him. he has only been on the earth for 17 years, what the hell does he know about relationships and love, anyway??
Dont expect so much from a child. If you are 17, too, you are too young, to put all your eggs into his basket.. Now is the time to meet other people and to learn about people and relationships, not "boo hoo", over 1 measly guy.
2007-01-22 10:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jesus, he was your first boyfriend.
I know this is not what you want to hear... but there will be others boyfriends and chances are this guy is not the love of your life. While your sitting here obsessing over "Why does he do this?" and "Why doesn't he do that", you could be missing out on an opportunity to date a really great guy. A guy that respects you enough to define your relationship so that both of you get something from it.
If he really did feel something for you, he wouldn't call you to make you jealous and he wouldn't make it seems he's torn between dating you or another girl. Give me a break.
2007-01-22 18:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by kevinhardytigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the best thing my ex will ever have, but that doesn't mean I want to contact him or talk to him. He's jerking you around. He made some lame excuses not to be with you. Sounds like he still is. Move on darlin, College is way better. :)
2007-01-22 18:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes using you. Tell him to make you his priority or he gets nothin!
2007-01-22 18:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋