Girlfriends cell phone?

Question

If your girlfriend call logs and text messeges have been erased more than once in less than two weeks . Does that mean something is going on? Also I asked to see her phone she let me and everything was erased again even when I called and text her earlier that day. Later on she went to bed and later on that night I looked at her her phone again and the call logs where empty and unlocked but the texts were locked . I asked her about it and she gave me the code and ther was one sent text saying that "watch what you send me because I cant have my phone on me 24/7" so I asked her who was this since it had no name she said it was her friend at work a female So I asked if this is your friend why is the name not programmed with the number . her reply she has access to another phone and that she knew it was her . and the reason she says she keeps it locked and all calls and pic and texts erased because she does want her son to see them . So yahoo land give me some answers Male & female

Answer 1

She is definately hiding something! Nobody erses messages that fast and to say because she doen't want her son to see them? How old is her son? If he's truly young he is not going to care about what's on her phone and who called her. And if that phone was in her purse where it should be then her son wouldn't have access to it.

She is definately lying to you and just making up crap to hide something from you.

MJ

Answer 2

You're snooping in her phone? True, you have her permission, but you're sending a clear signal that you don't trust her. That's not a sign of a healthy relationship.
Maybe she just likes to have a clear call logs and not get weighted down with old messages. Maybe she has a dirty sense of humor, and doesn't want her son to read the randy messages she sends between friends. Or maybe she's cheating on you six ways from Sunday. Who knows.
The point is, do you trust her? Are you willing to put faith in her? You know her better than we do. If you can't bring yourself to trust her, then you should end the relationship. If you can, then you need to put that trust into practice and stop suspecting everything she does.

Answer 3

I am familiar with unfaitful people. She is hiding something. Ask her point blank some questions like if she is happy with your relationship, if she is faitful etc (you decide which ones exactly). Study the essay below (link) and use it to see if she is lying to you. TRUST me lying is visble. Especially when they turn and not look at you or look away. Take her out to a good restaurant -a calm one with few people and lightly over dinner with calm jesting and quiet talk watch her reactions as you playfully ask her your questions. For crying out loud if she is lying to you --dump her ***. Life is to short to waste on cheaters. good luck.

Answer 4

I cleaned up my box all the time ... I kept those I really think important or cute ... so don't get too worked up just yet!

I don't see why you're so suspicious ... maybe you should just ask her openly what's going on. Seems to me you have major trust issue with your GF... work on it before it blows the relationship apart. Good luck!

Answer 5

There is def. something going on. Trust me, I know when some one is hiding something. If I were you, I'd ask to hold her phone for a day, and see what she says. She is hiding something, and you have every right to find out what it is. Good Luck

Answer 6

shrug... maybe you are just being a bit paranoid? this situation has occured (not similar but about her going places secretly) and it all ended up being something it totally wasnt. Trust is an important part in a relationship so either you need to trust her or you both need to talk about the way you are feeling, as awkward as it may be you'll feel better to get it out of the way.

Answer 7

Hmm... something is probably wrong. Nobody usually erases their phone history/ text history that often.. [at least i dont]. Maybe it does it automatically. i dont know though. you might want to talk to her about it, and ask her if something's up.

Good luck

Answer 8

I really don't care for jealous boyfriends. however if the jealousy is valid, which it seems that yours is, then it is understandable.

What is being sent to her that her son wouldn't be able/allowed to see?
sounds like something is up.
if she cares about how you feel on this subject, she wouldn't mind letting you in on the conversation, just to make sure.
but you, in return, would never be able to question her again.
Just what I would do, if it were me.
good luck and I hope for your sake that she is telling you the truth.

Answer 9

She obviously has something to hide. Maybe she's not cheating...but it doesnt sound good to me. I would keep a closer eye on her to see if you notice any other differences aside from the cell phone.

Answer 10

Somethings going on. Sit this girl down and tell her to quite playing games. Either she wants a relationship with you or she doesn't. I think she wants her cake and eat it too.