my friend has fallen in love with me we have known each other for about year now and do have casual sex and we were both cool with that but she says she loves me now she is such a nice person and i need her friendship but im just not sure if i love her at all in that way what should i do?
2007-01-22 10:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by michael 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're obviously attracted to her and you say she's a nice person and it's obviously on your mind enough to post the question. Only you know how you feel about her. How would y ou feel if she were with someone else?? why do you need her friendship specifically? are you scared to let her too close?? imagine her not in your life and loving someone else - if you're not bothered then you have your answer - but if you are - there maybe something deeper there, maybe you been too scare to realise it because you didn't want the complication of liking her that much. If you don't like her that way you have to let her know in the kindest way and not lead her on - stop sleeping with her because she'll end up getting incredibly hurt, if she's not already
2007-01-22 10:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people that are just friends dont have sex,..do they? not even casual sex??? anyways if she really loves you, and you also like her than give it a go. but please be sure not to break her heart after a couple of days that 'im sorry but i wasnt sure if i love you or not'. think about it, do you really have feelings for? do you care for that friend? do you think that you will be able to keep up a relationship with her? think abou tthese questions before making the next step. good luck my friend! ;)
2007-01-22 18:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casual sex is something you do on one night stands.
because you have done this more than once and you still are friends with her she has gotten feelings for you. she already trusted you so she found it easy to fall for you.
next time you want casual sex. dont do it with a friend as this is how friendships end.
2007-01-22 18:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with your friends! Full stop!!
Women cannot sustain a casual sex senario, no matter what they say!!
You have now lost a friend! Dufus!!
2007-01-22 18:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why have "casual sex" with her and expect her not to get involved with you? Do you know anything about the female species?(obviously not!)
2007-01-26 17:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you are.....My best friend is a male and he wants to be with me and we have been friends for many many years.......Sorry I can't help you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-22 18:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by PiF 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is a thoughy......try it. try being with her and see if it'll work out, maybe you'll feel different once youre with her.
2007-01-22 18:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋