Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I'm really sweet, a family man, and love dogs.

2007-01-20 19:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by Skinny Minnie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in December in Colorado and I'm looking for somewhere beautiful and/or unique. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-01-20 19:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by dream*within*a*dream 3 in Weddings

she hasn't said a word to me and I have tried to start a conversation up with her a couple of times. So he left 2 days ago and will be back next week. Since she isn't speaking to me I just seclude myself in my room and don't say anything to her thinking she needs space. Well I she just taped this letter to my door saying that I am treating her like a desiese? I think she is flipping out how can I approach her in a grown up matter. I think she is acting like a litte kid. Plus she thinks that I am only being nice to her when I want things? I have no idea what she is talking about. Could it be because she is emotionaly unstable?

2007-01-20 19:16:47 · 3 answers · asked by Eric O 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's husband quit working for us and owes us $2500 for money he borrowed, $1000 of which was borrowed 3 days after he quit. The deal was he was to pay it back after he got his first check in full or work it off on his days off. He never called back or worked any of it off, so after 6 weeks I wrote an email and asked why hasn't he bothered calling, paying or working since he quit? His wife is my best friend and she avoided me also. In my email I reminded him of all of the good things we did for him...his job, helping out financially when needed, invitation for an all expense paid ski trip for he and his wife, paying for everything when we go out...etc and then told him the things he did wrong like not working overtime when we really needed him (1 week after he borrowed money the first time) because he was bbq for his family, missing a lot of work and lying on his timesheet about his overtime hours. His wife read the email and cursed me out and will not speak to me.

2007-01-20 19:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Someone I care for deeply, has returned to a former girlfriend in spite of the bad treatment he endured from her and despite saying many times, over and over, that he would not go back, that she is an "a--hole". She's a drama queen who took it badly when he left her, even threatened to kill herself.

2007-01-20 19:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by aeh2323 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do young people now days have a sex drive? I have a son 24 and a daughter 21. My son had a girl friend in high school, but since then he has not dated anyone. As far as I know my daughter has not ever had a boyfriend. Do other parents notice anything like this? It is certainly a contrast to the way I behaved at that age. I guess I am grateful that my children did not get involved in intense relationships at 15, but I would like to think I might be a grandfather one day.

2007-01-20 19:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

3 weeks ago I had attended the wedding of an old friend. She and I hadn't spoken in almost 3 years and one day, out of the blue she had called me and requested that I attend her wedding as a bridesmaid. I was thrilled so I agreed. Later she informed me that I was not allowed to bring a guest. She knew that I had been living with my spouse for 3 years now, and when I told her I really wanted him to join, she had me pay for his plate which was 76$. This bothered me a bit, and I felt pretty insulted but I was determined not to let it ruin the occasion.
The day of the wedding went by smoothly untill during the reception I had found out that the bridesmaids were responsible for their own transportation. I was stranded, so ended up having to leave early.
As a gift I gave the bride 100$ cash and a few decorative items. She hasnt called to say thank you, or given me a bridesmaid's gift nor has she even sent a thank you card.
Is it just me or does she seem clueless about manners?

2007-01-20 19:13:32 · 22 answers · asked by babs_bunnii 1 in Weddings

2007-01-20 19:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have been engaged for one year. He keeps telling me that he really wants to marry me and he does not ever want to break up. The thing is, I keep trying to save and he keeps wanting to spend. When I bring it up about saving he refuses to talk to me about it. I thought that we had an awsome relationship, where I could talk to him and he would understand me. Is this just a thing about men or am I wasting my time? I need to know, I don't want to leave him at all, but, I really want to be married. I keep thinking that he just doesn't want to be married. What do I do?

2007-01-20 19:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 19:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 19:10:05 · 16 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a snob?? See,, I moved to a new school about a year ago. I still hardly know people that good... & at school I usually dont talk to people unless they talk to me first. Its not b/c I dont want to talk to them its just because I dont know what to say to them. But if they talk to me first, then I know what to say b/c a conversation has already started. But yet.. some ppl at my school think Im a snob? Why do they think this && what can I do to change there opinions about me. I cant just go up and talk to them b/c I dont know what to say,, and Id wonder if theyd even want me over there to talk to them.

2007-01-20 19:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by Payton 1 in Friends

2007-01-20 19:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you like them. really skinny or with nice curves

2007-01-20 19:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by young grown man 4 in Singles & Dating

More often than not I find myself meeting girls, beng able to talk to them, making them laugh, but being stuck in the "friend zone". I'm seen as a nice, sweet, funny, guy and it never gets me anywhere. I'm tired of it, and wanna be seen as less of just a "cute friend". Any tips to help me step up my game?

2007-01-20 19:06:09 · 8 answers · asked by Jhaycen 3 in Singles & Dating

why do girls think that u like them when you talk to them? IF you are nice to them, they always think that you may like them.
There is this girl, she is sooooooooooooooooo nice, its annoying
sometimes because i cant be mean to her. She is in my class this semester and i cannot ignore her
She calls me, so of course i speak to her, DUH, i mean not trying to be a jerk. She IM me when i am online and always try to start conversation. I think she thinks i might like her the way she likes me

WHAT THE HECK AM I SUPPOSE TO DO?

Why do girls think u like them just because you talk to them when they come after you?

2007-01-20 19:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone! I've been having a really hard time trying to come up with a date to get married. My fiance and I got engaged in October 2006, and I want at least a year to plan the wedding. The problem is that, currently I'm in college (2 years to go), and I know that he and I will be paying for this wedding ourselves. I want to set enough time to save the money myself without having to go in debt. Anyway, right now there are two options I'm debating on. The first one is April 2008, where I'll only have one more year of college left to pay for after that. The other option is October 2009, where I'll be completely done with my college degree. I'm not exactly sure which one I prefer...they both seem so long away! And my fiance says it's up to me, and that he wants me to have the wedding I want and when I want it. Any advice on when I should have it...April 2008 or Oct 2009?

2007-01-20 19:05:04 · 16 answers · asked by Amy W 2 in Weddings

Seriously What Is The Thing? How Does Someone Know That The Girl Is Liking U? Is It The Same As A Best Friend? Whats The Diffrence?

2007-01-20 19:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my x split 1 month ago and she stole my heart but thats another long story. my ? is how can i get her 2 talk to me, i have tried calling and that didn't work. I havent called for a week and still no response. she told me she would call me someday, yes we broke up month ago but i tried talking to her a week ago in person well that didn't work in my favor and was very heart breakin to say the least. she means alot to me she has impacted my life like no other and i want her friendship. does anyone out there believe i will hear from her again or how i can talk to her. im not going to lie i want her back but more importantly i want her friendship we were inseperatable while we were together and i miss the fun we had. yes she left me i didn't do it. you can im me if you like if you do not want to answer here but im open to anyone that has any advice or has been thru this before.

2007-01-20 19:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by baldwin28 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you really need a good job, a house or apt, and a nice car.

2007-01-20 19:02:29 · 17 answers · asked by Eric O 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-20 19:00:36 · 2 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

I made a big mistake, It was like I walked off the side of the earth and left this woman behind hanging in the breeze. She counted on me and I counted on her for her friendship and love. It was totally uncalled for. I deeply hurt this woman and myself.I have no excuse for my stupity. Now I find my self all alone and no direction to go. Don't know how to approach her or even began to explain my actions. How to you ask for forgiveness even though I am not worthy of it. What a dumba$$ I am. Feel so empty can only imagine how she is feeling. How does a man say I AM SORRY? Please keep the smart as$ remarks to yourself. I relize what I did already so Thanks.

2007-01-20 19:00:09 · 20 answers · asked by nothere 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when my boyfriend of two years seems reluctant to talk with me about our future such as getting an apartment together and someday getting married. I mean, he will agree with me when I'M talking about it but he mostly just remains quiet and his thoughts seem to bo on something else. Does this mean what I think it means? Or is it maybe he's just shy...Sometimes I swear he thinks I'm only with him for his money, which is TOTALLY not fair because when I first met him he had NO money and I paid for a lot of things..maybe that was my mistake...

2007-01-20 19:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jlove24 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend says she is going to put my @ss in a sling? Do you think she is secretly studying to be a nurse?

2007-01-20 18:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Benji 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by Luciya 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 17. I know i'm young. I meet this girl from my church group. She's really shy, but i think she's perfect for me. She's pretty, and shes a good girl. Very smart. Were into the same things, and overall she's a beauty, a really rare find. well we had our date and she was really shy , so was i. Well,she was really into me. Now she's almost ignoring me, so i'm facing my losses. I think i Actually love this girl.I've known her for 3 months, had a crush. How do i get over her. I've had other girlsfriends in the past, and i mean i eventually got over them, but now i'm stuck, because she felt like the one. I was looking for this kind of girl all along. And here she is.I'm out of highschool, and in college. I'm Christian.

2007-01-20 18:56:00 · 3 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby has gone abroad and he may return after 6 months only. In his absence i can not pull on days without sex. There are two options before me.- (1) to make use of vibrators till I get satisfied (2) to take the help of one or two boyfriends. My hubby will not mind either,he is very boradminded and he encurages me to do what ever I feel like doing. What shall I do? You can suggest some alternates also.

2007-01-20 18:54:59 · 5 answers · asked by tullu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She sends me messages all the time. ignoring her doesnt work. and i dont really want anything to do with her. I once got really hammered and i ended up having intercourse with her. I immediately regret this decision. but now she will not leave me alone. And she kinda freaks me out. So I'm in a pickle. Help my dumbass self solve this issue. Thank you and god bless.

2007-01-20 18:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by Royce 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that i like alot.. have for a couple years. we talk and stuff but i want more. im not the most outgoing person but i want to know if he feels the same. but how?

2007-01-20 18:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by luvhim78 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:52:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating