Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

My ex spent a while trying to get back with me. I eventually wanted to after stumbling upon some things that reminded me of just exactly what I had left. I started talking to her about and she became hesitant saying that she didn't trust me and was afraid of me breaking her heart. I never stopped loving her. I just felt that it would harder on both of us if we tried a long distance college-high school relationship. What should I do?

2007-01-20 18:25:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 21 years old guy, the other day i was trying to have sex with my new girlfriend for the first time but somehow i could not get an erection.. How is this possible when i consider myself to be highly sexual.. This will be the second time it as happened to me in the last 2 years.. Is this a sign that i am slowly becoming impotent??? and it was not because i was too exicited or anything... i am very very worried.... PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-20 18:24:27 · 4 answers · asked by steppayouth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I did not think I was in love with him but now he is on a church mission. I am physically ill. my heart is aching and for the life of me I should be old enough to know but I don't. We email and snail mail he says he loves me but I don't know if it is love like love or love like friendly love. He says if I ever start dating younger men he better be the first.

2007-01-20 18:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by 33kasper 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm only curious, because sometimes, even if you like a guy, you will play hard to get, and i have to chase you around, and it makes me sad. and i'm not a dog, by any means. anyhoo, how many of you like to play games?

2007-01-20 18:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last year me and like 10 other girls whent in a limo for my freinds b-day we got plasterd drunk.
so me and my friend was just messing around we made out for like 10 seconds.
i never told no one last night i told my bf i have a big secret cause he askd me if i have any secrets that no one know.
i asked him if i could trut him he said ya.
then i told him.
so all night last night he kept mentioning every five mintues ok go kiss a girl.
or i like girls oh u do to.
then he strts carking up lafing
i know he loves me.
but does he really mean to hurt my fellings or just doing it out of fun? exsuse my spelling im in kind a hurry and nervos lol

2007-01-20 18:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where in ur house do u hide ur private things?

2007-01-20 18:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by jam2school 2 in Family

I dont want someone else to tell her and for her to get the wrong details. Should I even say anything?

2007-01-20 18:20:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing. i was going out with this girl a few months ago and one day she had feelings for me... the next they were gone. i tried everything i could to get her back but nothing worked and we eventually just stopped talking (mainly cos she stopped talking to me) and then a week or two after we broke up i found out she liked some guy but dosnt like him anymore. and well heres the thing last night we were both at my place with some friends (my little sister invited her) and we started talking and eventually apologised to each other then we started making out, then went for a swim in our pool (fully clothed) and then went upstairs and made out all night (like 5-6 hours) we didnt have sex or anything. im just confused now cos im not sure if im going to get hurt again.

2007-01-20 18:17:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know when a guy you have a crush on like you.

2007-01-20 18:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i started dateing a girl i have know for a while and we dated for a while things were going good for a while then she asked me if we could take some time a part she still likes me she said and i went to see her on the 16 should i ask her back out or should i give her a little more time

2007-01-20 18:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by rick b 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a man I wasn't ready to date after ending a long relationship. I said I liked him and asked him to come visit me when he got to town.

When he came, after flirting he asked if I used a vibrator to release sexual tension. I said no, there are other ways. Then he asked if I slept with my ex. I said no.

We talked about fwb. I told him I really wanted to but was afraid because I hadn't been with anyone for a long time. I knew he was in town only one night and asked him if he could "be patient with me and take it slow". He said yes, then said I'll call you this weekend.

Suprised I said I meant tonight. He said "I don't think it's a good idea to see each other tonight". I asked what he thought I meant and he said "being friends first".

He did call. He talks about ways we could fly to see each other but I am confused by his rejection.

2007-01-20 18:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can olny fit into one size at these really expensive stores. i can not tell them off because my mom and her mom are really good friends what should i do ???????????????

spencer

2007-01-20 18:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this guy for quite some time..we've been exchanging mails since last year..well, it was an on and off thing cause he was sooo busy in army and couldn't really reply to my mails..then i told him i went to london and so on..but he didn't reply..and i miss him..i wanna continue to chat with him and he gave me this impression that he's a guy who likes the thrill of the chase as in he likes those kinda girls who are out of reach and now that i know..i wanna be like that but first i gotta start a conversation with him again..how should i go about doing it? and will he think i'm irritating? and how do i get him interested and more curious to find out more about me?
you know, when you like someone,you tend to think of all those silly stuff,he really makes me laugh and cry at the same time.i laugh when i think about his attractive personality and how funny he was and i cry when i just can't get him and all the blunders i made in the past..

2007-01-20 18:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do they really believe that all the 'good ones' are taken?
cause we're everywhere. freakin everywhere!
yet they either go for the married guy or the total jerk, that way when it all goes to heck, they can justify everything by saying all men are crap. puh-lease. women, wake up!

2007-01-20 18:11:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 5 years, I would love some new ones?!! :)

2007-01-20 18:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to go to Japan with my sister for spring break to visit our friend and see the country. My mom said okay...but my dad said no way. I'm going to pay for it all mysel but he says it's too dangerous. Doesn't Japan have one of the lowest crime rates in the world?

Should we just buy the tickets and go? When I asked my dad what he would do if we did that...he said he would just be upset.

I need to buy the tickets now!! Help!

2007-01-20 18:10:22 · 13 answers · asked by LALADUNYA786 1 in Family

cant be just be faithful?
why does it always have to be about the macho tough guy act with the supposedly great sex that they can get from these guys?
if they've found someone they love who loves them back, and the sex is good, and things are ok, then why screw it all up by screwing some stranger they just met? what, they didnt get enough sex back in high school and college?
wake up women!

2007-01-20 18:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know, these in-laws do not know how to return what they borrowed, all they know is that their brother works overseas, they believe that they have all the right to get money from me, none of them is working but they pay household help. me, i am working because what my husband sends my family is not enough and i do my household chores by myself, i don't want to spend money for household stuff

2007-01-20 18:09:22 · 2 answers · asked by senoirbgm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfreind makes more money than I do and I have more free time than her. I do all the housework and shopping. She also makes me shop for her femine products sometimes even clothing. I often feel embarrassed about shopping for these items but she insists that I do this. Is this too much?

2007-01-20 18:08:51 · 13 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

would u date a 20 yr old girl who is intelligent, has almost the complete package...but weighs 185 lbs with a 5'5 ht? why or why not?

2007-01-20 18:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive always been the class clown kind of guy. tryin to make people laugh. i can be immature at times, like alot of highschool guys. im not a jock though. to the point, my brother is 22, im 16, and he has a girlfriend that is 17(i know, big age difference). she goes to a neighboring highschool and our proms are joined. hes pressuring me to get a date to the prom. his reasoning is it would be lame for me to not go and him to go because i actually go to the school, and he doesnt. well ive never been a dance person, never considered going this year. i think i will for him though. and partially so i dont feel like a loser for not going, knowing hell rub it in for forever afterwards. so the question isnt whether or not i should get a date, but more, is my class clown attitude gonna help me get a yes from the girl i want to ask? what should my attitude be around her in the days before i ask and how should i ask her to go with me? thanks for any help

2007-01-20 18:07:39 · 16 answers · asked by Sam16 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:07:23 · 4 answers · asked by paumil 1 in Friends

2007-01-20 18:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey girls what do you think about AXE deoderant?

2007-01-20 18:06:07 · 8 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

Would you like the guy that you are with to wear a c o c k cage? meaning that you would have control over them getting hard and having sex? either for pure sex control or just because of trust towards each other.....
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2007-01-20 18:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In great detail please

2007-01-20 18:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by Payton 1 in Friends

me and my friend Jasmine secretely decided to go on a double date with our boyfriends out to dinner on valentine's day. We planned that we were going to surprise them by going to a really nice retaurant on top of the space needle. I told my boyfriend that we're gonna surprise him and he got totally upset, telling me that it was his job as the guy to pay and telling me that he wanted to pay. I told him that i really really wanted to pay for it, and it would mean a lot to me if he let me pay. He insists on paying no matter what.
Its a really expensive retaurant and i don't want to plan where we're going and then expect him to pay, plus the fact that i WANT to pay for it.
he says he's fine with me paying for another date sometime, but he says that on valentine's day its different and the guy has to pay. I really wanna pay because it was my choice for where we go.


so what do i do?

2007-01-20 18:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not cool. if my mom was spanking me or my dad at least i would no that they werent getting any pleasure out of it. but its my stepdad some guy whos only 16 years older than me. im 15 years old i think that sounds illegal to me. my moms aware her answer is you deserve it. he is really forcing me down and taking of my clothes to make it more painful. i want 2 do somethin bout him but im not sure if this is normal. if i call the police it would suck to land in a foster home. things are sorta working out for me now. i talked to a friend and after he stopped laughing he told me to run. thats the only advice ive gotten. any ideas? ? ? ?

2007-01-20 18:04:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating