i like this guy for quite some time..we've been exchanging mails since last year..well, it was an on and off thing cause he was sooo busy in army and couldn't really reply to my mails..then i told him i went to london and so on..but he didn't reply..and i miss him..i wanna continue to chat with him and he gave me this impression that he's a guy who likes the thrill of the chase as in he likes those kinda girls who are out of reach and now that i know..i wanna be like that but first i gotta start a conversation with him again..how should i go about doing it? and will he think i'm irritating? and how do i get him interested and more curious to find out more about me?
you know, when you like someone,you tend to think of all those silly stuff,he really makes me laugh and cry at the same time.i laugh when i think about his attractive personality and how funny he was and i cry when i just can't get him and all the blunders i made in the past..
2007-01-20 18:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does everybody has to play games these days? If you like the guy, then let him know. If not, then move on. Stop being so immature.
2007-01-20 18:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's in the military and you're running all over the world to places like London - you're already hard for him to get. Find out where he's going to be and when he's on vacation or leave or somewhere in another country, say "what a coincidence, I was going to visit my friend or relative (who lives close by) - for the weekend and I'll be out that way. We should get together. See what he says - and then show up just for the weekend and when you get there say that you don't have a ton of time but really it's so cool that you're in the same place at the same time. I mean this takes alot of planning and effort on your part but it's one cool thing that you could try. On the one hand, most guys like chasing girls but you need to be in front of him sometime too and be genuine.
2007-01-20 18:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not pursue a guy in the military. I did it once before. It's so hard to have a long distance relationship. They never work. Especially if you've been hurt before, your instincts are always gonna wonder where he's at and what he's doing. It's a huge risk that really isnt worth the energy. Trust me... I dealt with it first hand.
2007-01-20 18:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was worth your while at all, you wouldn't have to MAKE yourself hard to get for him, he would like you for who you are, without you having to change yourself for him
2007-01-20 18:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get? Well, only you will end up regretting . . . that's all I have to say -
2007-01-20 18:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know the whole thing.. make a move
2007-01-20 18:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you approate him be yourself it always helps.
2007-01-20 18:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.
2007-01-20 18:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋