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After 5 years, I would love some new ones?!! :)

2007-01-20 18:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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The complaint most men have about the hum drum of an older relationship is this...it all boils down to desire. The wife doesn't come on to him anymore-it's always the man that has to take the initiative. There's no spontanaeity anymore.
Surprise him at the door in something barely there, or nothing.
After a bath, instead of putting on pjs, walk nonchalantly through the house, directly in his line of vision-totally naked.
Make a shocking, but discreet, pda-when you go out to dinner, touch him inappropriately under the table. Whisper dirty things in his ear at a stuffy function.
Call or text him out of the blue, in the middle of the day-and give a very detailed description of what you want to do to him, or what you want him to do to you. He'll have to think about it for the rest of the day, and the anticipation can only build.
Give him a ******** for no reason. You're watching tv, and without saying a word-whip it out and do your thing. Or on a long drive. Or sneak into a "forbidden" place.
If you are normally timid-be aggressive and pounce on him. Maybe tie him up.
If you are normally aggressive, be gentle, shy, and coy.
The element of surprise is not just exciting. It shows him that you DO want him, you're a fun, driven woman, and that you're so into sex-and sex with HIM- that it can't wait for the "preplanned" date night or after Leno.

Be active in making sure he wants you. Men want to have "the chase" by nature. Give it to him. When my hubby and I go out to a bar or a club, I dress seductivelyand turn on the charm. I never try to make him jealous or anger him by openly flirting-but I make sure he sees other eyes on me. Or I will "accidentally" show a little more than necessary cleavage while doing housework, or have him "catch" me in the middle of changing-and act innocent when he gets turned on. Knowing that other men would want me means the chase is still on-and that makes him want me even more.

2007-01-20 18:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by dragonlady 4 · 0 0

There is a book by Darcey A. Cole titled "Seduce Me: How to Ignite Your Partner's Passion". It may help you. Good Luck.

2007-01-21 02:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by fieldpot 1 · 0 0

Go out on dates like you used to do before you got married. Wear something very sexy and wear either very sexy underwear or none at all. Don't let him know what's under the dress -- keep him guessing. Give him a few very vague hints that he'll never guess what you're wearing under the dress of if you are wearing anything under your dress at all. I guarantee he won't be able to get you home fast enough to check out just what's awaiting him under that very sexy dress you're wearing. Good Luck!

2007-01-21 02:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dozyjozy 2 · 2 0

Look around this site and see if you can find any ideas... it has tons of articles about a lot of stuff having to do with sex... and it's not porn or anything, it's actually cosmo's website...

http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/topics/0,,4tgp,00.html

2007-01-21 02:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0 0

Years ago I dated a woman who had a great sex drive and was also very creative. One night I was working late when she came to my work, dressed to the nines. She simply walked up to me kissed me, and said, "I just wanted you to see what would be waiting for you when you came home." Then she smiled at me, turned, and left.

I practically beat her home!

2007-01-21 02:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 4 1

Just flash him. Marti Gras style. He'll love it. Works every time for me.

2007-01-21 02:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lois J 2 · 2 0

Open his beer for him and don't talk except during commercials.

Sorry, the other answers were good enough, nothing serious to add.

2007-01-21 02:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Fitz 1 · 3 0

surprise him with the past like what you two done intimately, before you two got married and relive it or try something similar to one of your best times together thats always fun...but make it a surprise and see if he remembers it as well.

2007-01-21 02:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 2 1

play doctors and nurses, or cops and robbers, cowboys and indians, ...ahh u know what i mean. The guns in the holster can be a big turn on.

2007-01-21 02:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sporadic 4 · 0 2

read the articles in playboy and hustler or google

2007-01-21 02:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1 0

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