Am i impotent???? HELP!!!?

Question

I am a 21 years old guy, the other day i was trying to have sex with my new girlfriend for the first time but somehow i could not get an erection.. How is this possible when i consider myself to be highly sexual.. This will be the second time it as happened to me in the last 2 years.. Is this a sign that i am slowly becoming impotent??? and it was not because i was too exicited or anything... i am very very worried.... PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

If you're not comfortable with your girl, and, more important, resent some trait in her personality, your resentment shows itself this way. If she is the "I don't mind doing it with you" type rather than the "yes, let's do it" type, that also results in dysfunction.

Increase your comfort level with this girl first, and you'll be okay. I have my own thoughts on this relationship, but I don't want to bias you.

But, be assured, you are not losing your "masculinity", if that's what you're afraid of.

Answer 2

Honey this happen to a lots of people. You might be under a lot of stress. or you could be worrying about it to the extent that it is interfering with you ability to preform. There are many reason for this occurrence. You might want to seek medical help. God be with you. Hope this doesn't last.

Answer 3

were you drinking.. because if you were that could be the reason why.. also if you are stress out about something that too could cause it .. men are not like us women all we got to do is lay there and spread em.. u men have to raise to occassion .. and that is sometime easier said than done .. no matter what the age is

Answer 4

don't worry at all
you r clearly uptight
relax
don't expect anything
play around have fun
when it gets wet n hard let her take it inside
if it gets soft tell her its a game and she sould make it stiff again
1 or 2 in 2yrs is stress, or russian, or hall sex, or...