Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

we have been married for 9 months but together for 4years after being separated for 2years and before that we were together for 2years we have 2 beautiful kids and i have told him how i feel and he just tries to buy my me either with jewelry or a weekend to ourselves but still i feel like I am with him because he loves me and for our kids but i don't think i can do it anymore this is why we were separated the first time and even then I felt the same way i just don't enjoy being with him i feel like we are friends with benefits it doesn't feel like a relationship or a marriage anymore what do i do?

2007-01-20 19:52:38 · 7 answers · asked by zanna143 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 19:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by nancy 1 in Friends

i really like somebody i known him for 2 years and we never really talked much but i really like him and i know he really likes me, but he had sex with my sister and my best friend (seperate times) and my sister was at my house and friend was at her house... we always been kind of friends but never really close, but we have kissed before and stuff.. i really like him and he likes me but i just cant get over that he did that i cry everytime i really want to go out with him, and nothing is going on with my sister and him or my friend and him so what should i do..

2007-01-20 19:50:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 19:49:29 · 13 answers · asked by lexidoodles 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex said she loved me so much she would die for me. I wasn't sure if she was sincere, so I pretended to trip in front of a bus while we were crossing the street. She pushed me out of the way--I could have made it myself--then was struck and killed.

Was that wrong of me?

2007-01-20 19:48:48 · 10 answers · asked by Skinny Minnie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl in person for months now, and I've seriously never felt this way before. I was all set to ask her out when I found out she had been going out with a guy at a different high school for almost a year. Is there any way for me to win her over? It's driving me crazy, because we're perfect for each other, and we hang out every day. How do I do it?

2007-01-20 19:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at a party the other night with my fwb. At first it was just us dancing around and laughing and drinking then we got closer and later that night i ended up on his lap and we were making out and things got pretty intense (not sex). After that night i felt ashamed....like i had done something wrong, is this normal?
I kinda always had something for him but now im just a little afraid of going back to school and acting like nothing happend...


am i just freaking out or what? Is this kinda normal at least? help

k?

2007-01-20 19:48:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok ive been with her for 5 years now. we are engaged, it feels right but i know its wrong. all we have in common is sex and, i really don't think shes the one for me but weve been together so long i am afraid ill never find some1 else.. especially some1 else who has her personality. I think if i do break it off then it will take me forever to get over it since we have been together for so long. what do i do and how?

2007-01-20 19:47:32 · 4 answers · asked by Raid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl who likes me in my class. She nice and all, but i dont like her. Shes really sweet, so i cannot just treat her anyway. At first I was paranoid, but i know she likes me now. I want to continue to be her friend, but im afraid she might get her hopes up. Honestly, she just needs to move on, but i cannot make her, you know?

I have a choice, i can cut her off completely and save her from making a bigger fool of herself

or

I can be her friend, and continue to dodge her "polite" advances

what would you do in this situation? Plz dont tell me to date her, she really sweet and innocent but i dont think i can fall for her

2007-01-20 19:44:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I were up late watching a show on the Spike channel. And of course, a commerical for Girls Gone Wild come on. I'm not a jealous girlfriend; I didn't really care about the commerical or give it much thought.

Once it was almost over, I glanced over at my guy - who was on the couch with his "package" noticable through his jeans in the way he was laying down, and saw that he had gotten kind of... "excited" if you catch my drift. I said something to him about it, trying to make a joke about it even though I felt kind of stunned. He reacted in a sheepish manner and seemed to be embarassed.

Now, my point is, I realize that my boyfriend is going to find other women attractive. I suppose it was just the stone-cold proof of that which left me feeling a bit upset. I was sure not to let him see how much it had bothered me. But it did. Is there any words of understanding or advice about how not to let it get to me so much? It left me feeling insecure.

2007-01-20 19:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

remember. YOU

2007-01-20 19:42:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where I'm at it's 3am and I have no one to talk to. So tell me your reason 4 being up so late.

2007-01-20 19:40:38 · 22 answers · asked by leo_s09 3 in Friends

2007-01-20 19:40:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked a similar question but am still confused! She says she loves and misses me.. But feels she cant live with me. However what should I do? I have told her recently what I would want in a new relationship with her which is what she always wanted. The break allowed me time to realise that.. She says she is seeing no one else and will ask me that each time she sees/texts me. So do I continue with the I love you, I want this to (which is the truth) or go cold and quiet and hope she misses me and makes her realise what she is losing, or not I guess? I did go quiet for about 2-3 weeks and when i texted her she was really open saying she loved me etc but can't live with me (thats cos we argued a lot in the last months due to our job stresses, which have now gone for reasons). But she says although I may have changed she has to, but needs to want to..? Strategy??.. Thanks

2007-01-20 19:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jason E 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the normal age in ur country to loose virginity?... plz state the name of ur country too...

2007-01-20 19:37:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got so many questions about guys which at times makes me feel a little bit shy to ask but i should know.
so why do they want girls to know how good they are on the bed which may or may not be true and also why do they want girls to know how big it is which also may or may not be true .in general why do they want us to know about their ....?

2007-01-20 19:37:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and I (now engaged) met 6 years ago when she moved to my hometown for school. We dated then(for a year) before she moved away and we broke up. We've recently rekindled our relationship and have been together for almost two years again. I'm having so much trouble still getting over the fact that (between our time apart) she's had other BF (slept with other people) besides me. It's really casuing a strain in our relationship. ANY suggestions how I can get over this would truly be appreciated!

2007-01-20 19:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Using proper measures and protection,contraceptives etc etc,can we get physical at 16 years?what are the consequences and follow ups of getting sex at this age?

2007-01-20 19:36:05 · 23 answers · asked by icy_cool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want to know if its possible or a fantasy, shes still single but i guess is out there looking and so am i i have had some run ins but i still have her on my mind, does she think of me, im asking you ladies. she means so much to me i honestly would lay down and die for her just to have her for 24 hours. how can i give up and yes she has givin up on me, and i would take it all back but i cant what do you think. do woman ever think about there x

2007-01-20 19:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by baldwin28 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were sitting in bed talking and I asked him how he knew he was in love wit me.. and he couldn't give me an answer, he said he jus knew? How would u feel about this???? I mean, I can give him a million and one answers on how I kno I'm in love wit him. He doesn't ever tell me his feelings and I've tried explaining 2 him that I want him 2 open up 2 me about how he's feeling and he saids he understand and will open up at that point but then we got thru the same cycle. We have a lil one so its hard 2 find time 2 spend 2gether so when we do he is always tired cuz he works long hrs. And so am I but I try 2 make time 4 him. I'm jus wanting opinions on this matter, is it a guy thing or what?

2007-01-20 19:34:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm no expert but I hear stories about people who are not happy in their marriage and then they try all these things and all of a sudden it saves their marriage.

2007-01-20 19:34:24 · 11 answers · asked by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He asked me to a dance but i really dont want to go with him. Since i am such a BAD liar, i was thinking about telling him over a text message. is that appropiate?

2007-01-20 19:32:57 · 32 answers · asked by calibeachbum87 2 in Singles & Dating

do u prefer dating girls under 25 or above?? and why?

2007-01-20 19:30:59 · 19 answers · asked by black cat 3 in Singles & Dating

I fonud paper work for a pay day loan in the amount of 2500 dollars this is the second time i have found such papers last time it was only for 200 dollars i confronted him and told him that i felt that he should be dicussing such decisions with me and he promiced he would never take out a loan with out talking with me i don't know how i can trust him now that i found this new loan pappers. i asked him after i found them if he had taken out any new pay day loans sence he and i had talked and he told me he hadn't so on top of braking a promuse he lied to me and now he is talking about buying a house. please help how do i confrount him about the new loan, forgive him and most of all trust him.

2007-01-20 19:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 19:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Singles & Dating

is be amistress a good thind,and do married man be use then

2007-01-20 19:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you feel akward if the girl is 1-2years older than the guy or doesnt it matter?

2007-01-20 19:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by missTQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 19:24:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 19:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by prettycoolchick38 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 19:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by siri 1 in Friends