I was at a party the other night with my fwb. At first it was just us dancing around and laughing and drinking then we got closer and later that night i ended up on his lap and we were making out and things got pretty intense (not sex). After that night i felt ashamed....like i had done something wrong, is this normal?
I kinda always had something for him but now im just a little afraid of going back to school and acting like nothing happend...
am i just freaking out or what? Is this kinda normal at least? help
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2007-01-20 19:48:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its natural to feel ashamed, but this will pass
2007-01-20 22:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you afraid to go back to school? Someone there have a reputation of being a gossip and you're concerned about stories? Well s"!^ happens, but you didn't do anything wrong. You had a little fun, there were people around and some of them might like to squirm a bit. Guess what, next week-end there will be another party and there will be someone else to gossip about. And by the way, people who like to gossip are no better than trailer trash.
2007-01-20 19:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's fwb? Friends with benefits? In any case, more you act like there is something wrong, more it's gonna seem awkward. Just laugh about it and say it was a mistake. Good luck
2007-01-20 20:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and for guys too.
I'm older what's a fwb? former boyfriend?
Talk to him, he may feel similiar, booze interfers with judgement.The fact you even think about means you may have 10 times the potential of most couples.
Speak to him in private asap. If he keeps his hands off you except a hug or kiss, He still respects you as much or more.
2007-01-20 20:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 20:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Stupid!!!
just kidding,
Of course its gonna feel wierd, you were intoxicated at the time u did this and maybe under normal circumstances things would have gone different, or who knows? maybe it would'hv not happened,
so now your back to reality and it seems wierd to you wat u did.
just hav a couple more drinks and youll 4get about it...
its as if it never happened in the first place!!
just kidding again...
its no big deal
2007-01-20 20:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Roger C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is normal and you are at a tender age. You shouldnt be ashamed of yourself but stop drinking. Its good that nothing happened.
2007-01-20 19:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that is not what u were out for then just tell the person that well it happened but that is it n it will not happen again and its only normal if that is what u like coz normal is what u r comfortable with
2007-01-20 19:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel as ashamed from just reading the question !
2007-01-20 19:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be a good idea to try and talk before going back to school ....ring him...see where you stand.
if you feel ashamed thats your conscience telling you something
2007-01-20 19:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like alcohol was involved.
Face up to your actions.
Learn from it for next time.
2007-01-20 19:51:46 · answer #11 · answered by Goldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋