i really like somebody i known him for 2 years and we never really talked much but i really like him and i know he really likes me, but he had sex with my sister and my best friend (seperate times) and my sister was at my house and friend was at her house... we always been kind of friends but never really close, but we have kissed before and stuff.. i really like him and he likes me but i just cant get over that he did that i cry everytime i really want to go out with him, and nothing is going on with my sister and him or my friend and him so what should i do..
2007-01-20 19:50:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn what a lucky guy. He got to bang your sister, your best friend, and about to bang you next? That's some good stuff. If you like the guy put out for him, who cares what others say. Although, I have a feeling he's just gonna bang you and leave. Maybe try for your mom next... who cares right?
2007-01-20 19:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well he sounds like a man who just goes for a good time, he would take sex if offered. I think you should raise your standards look for something greater.
How ever If you choose that you really want to pursue this man, You will have to learn to use forgiveness of his past. But don't worry there are things in each of our past that the new person must forgive us for.
Good luck
2007-01-20 19:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by xxgq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. You really like him, but you havent really talked much and you were never that close? That sort of relationship isn't worth crying over.
Do you really want to date a guy who had sex with your sister? If I were in your position I'd be to weirded out at the thought of what all he coulda done with her. What if those lips you kissed was on your sisters vagina...eew!
2007-01-20 19:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, he seems to be really casual about having sex, is that the kind of man you are interested in? Let alone one of your sister's conquests..that is usually a no no..I think he will get what he wants from you and move on...so think about it real hard..everyone thinks they will be the one he will stay for but 9 chanches out of 10, he will move right on down the road...good luck
2007-01-20 19:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care who he slept with before you were in the picture? A shower takes care of the hygiene issue, so why not stop and think what you're asking from him: "Be a virgin or I can't trust you!"
Better that he slept with people you love than strangers...at least you know where it's been!!!
2007-01-20 19:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he know that you liked him while sleeping with your sister and friend? Remember, in his eyes, you are 3 women, while to you they are a sister and a friend. If he didn't know you liked him, then why should you punish him for something that wasn't wrong for him to do at the time?
2007-01-20 19:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by freeidhere123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the sake of "delicadesa" (it means dignity) just try to ignore him bcoz it's not good for you, i mean it's not good that after knowing that facts about him having sex with your sister and your friend did you think that it will be easy for you anyway if you can take that situation go on.
2007-01-20 20:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by mariagracejoseph 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does it bother you the fact that he was with your sister and then your bestfriend already? I find it is really disturbing and disgusting to have to like someone that had already been with any of my family member.And if your sister did like kim or even loved him at one point. Do you care about her feeling at all? I'm not talking about your bestfriend here. But your sister? She is your blood.
2007-01-20 20:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if u go ahead and go out with him u r inviting urself to have a broken heart and lots of drama it will take less time to get over him that the time u will spend trying to get over him and going thru drama if u start going out with him run and do not look back
2007-01-20 19:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your sister & friend have sex with someone you like? Do they know that you like him? Anyhow, I'd say he's pretty gross and if you can't get over it, why force yourself to. That's alot to deal with and you'll probably always think about it. Why even do that to yourself? He can't have that strong of feelings for you if he slept with your sister and your friend! He knows you're related to your sister right? He sounds like a douchebag. Forget him and find someone who respects you and won't sleep with anyone you're related to.
2007-01-20 19:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋