I've known this girl in person for months now, and I've seriously never felt this way before. I was all set to ask her out when I found out she had been going out with a guy at a different high school for almost a year. Is there any way for me to win her over? It's driving me crazy, because we're perfect for each other, and we hang out every day. How do I do it?
2007-01-20 19:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally know how hard it is to be in love with someone you can't have.In your case unfortunately the only thing you can possibly do is wait,although a one year relationship is pretty hard thing to be ruined.You should as close as a friend you can to her, make her feel comfortable around you and the most important don't let her know your feelings at least not for now.As for how to win her ver it's kind of tough if she's in love with her bf but you should always be nice to her and most of all be the perfect friend and you'll see she'll really appreciate that.Hope I helped!Good luck!
2007-01-20 20:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's with another guy so it's not fair to try and break them up. But small things can really make a difference. Smile at her always, offer to carry her books, just little things that make you seem kind. Also, never be seen criticising other people or being rude, or unpleasant. Every time she sees you she must see that you are a nice, friendly, pleasant guy with not a bad word to say about anyone. Sounds boring, but this image will be fixed in her brain, particularly if/when she and her guy ever have some bad times. She'll think of you as a good friend and someone she can turn to .... and one day she may.
Be patient. It's the small - but consistent - things that may win her over. Good luck
2007-01-21 05:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I am well into my middle years, and it was my experience that if you don't talk to this young lady you are going rapidly nowhere, you are going to have to talk to her, Valentines day is just a coupla weeks away, write it all down in a very warm card, not a rude one. Tell her who you are and hand the card to her so she can read it while you are stood or sat next to her, if you write the card right, she will snog your face and mouth off you before she has counted the kisses at the end of your writings...after that, the world and all its secret moments are there for you to love her with, don't besurprised if you get a card from her first, then you could find that she will kiss you before you have counted her kisses on her card, all this is just the way it is, you just have to try it, but do take it slow and easy, anyone can move fast enough to get it wrong, remember where you keep your brain, it's in the top of your head, not the top of your legs, Oh and one more thing a nice clean minty mouth would be really handy for when the kissing begins, xXx have fun
2007-01-21 10:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do: be a TOTAL SWEETHEART! make her laugh, and happy all the time. You never know when her and the boyfriend are having a fight and he makes her upset... you'll be right there to put a smile on her face. She'll remember you being there for her and making her happy again. If i were you dont tell her how you feel yet... you dont want her to start to feel weird around you since she has a boyfriend and it could cause trouble.
2007-01-21 04:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Learn the Guitar and serenade her, outside her bedroom window.
A nice love song will do the trick. NOT Punk or Rap though!
2007-01-21 03:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend so if they have a frigth she has some one to cry on.if they break up then jump in but not break them up coz she mite fall out with you and you will los a friend.so jjust wait for her and show her that you care
2007-01-21 04:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by leanne w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quess there is nothing you can do except hope she begons to feel something for you, maybe show just a little interest in someone else, see if it affects her........
2007-01-21 04:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by freckle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and she will appreciate it. you never know. one day you may get your chance!
2007-01-21 06:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋