A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I were up late watching a show on the Spike channel. And of course, a commerical for Girls Gone Wild come on. I'm not a jealous girlfriend; I didn't really care about the commerical or give it much thought.
Once it was almost over, I glanced over at my guy - who was on the couch with his "package" noticable through his jeans in the way he was laying down, and saw that he had gotten kind of... "excited" if you catch my drift. I said something to him about it, trying to make a joke about it even though I felt kind of stunned. He reacted in a sheepish manner and seemed to be embarassed.
Now, my point is, I realize that my boyfriend is going to find other women attractive. I suppose it was just the stone-cold proof of that which left me feeling a bit upset. I was sure not to let him see how much it had bothered me. But it did. Is there any words of understanding or advice about how not to let it get to me so much? It left me feeling insecure.
2007-01-20 19:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I pour hot water on my hand it burns, if I poke a fork in my arm it stings and if I smell a chocolate cake in the oven it makes me hungry. Same thing with those damned commercials! From a guys perspective it's nothing more than that. We ARE just that dumb! See how he reacts if you put on food tv for 10 minutes and when he's done raiding the pantry looking for something to eat you'll feel alot better!
Sorry, we are just dogs...
2007-01-20 19:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Clrinsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to inform you, but guys are visually stimulated. Why fault him for what is a natural response that at most times in this situation is uncontrollable. This is the very response that he gets when you are together in a romantic way. He does not know those girls personally, therefore you are much more special to him. He did not even try to make you jealous by whooping and making remarks. That is the response that should stun you. No, you want to be forward and shame him for what is natural by pointing it out and embarrassing him. Is nothing beyond your notice. YOU are a jealous girl looking for a slight! Get over yourself before he does.
2007-01-20 19:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing against you. The little devils have a mind of their own. Some things are just naturally stimulating to men. Especially since men are much more visual than women. Believe me, he was just as embarrassed as you were insecure. Boobs and vaginas WILL give a man a *****. Hands down. Or up if you want them away from that area...
2007-01-20 19:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think how you are already thinking he's gonna look at other girls of course ............. as long as he dosent touch you shoudn't get mad
ps:i hate those commercial to now they can atleast mix up and dont show the same one every commercial brake ........... when there in the race car and on it that's the best part though
2007-01-20 19:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don;t let it bother you---they run those ads to get a mans attention---seems like they work///// for your boy friend anyway/////--surely you;ll not be jealous of a tv ad----ps---show r boy friend a little more attention and it will be you he;s watching instead of the tv----then his package as you called it will be your package---instead of girls gone wilds package.
2007-01-20 20:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got nothing to worry about. When he stops looking at good looking girls, start to worry! lol He's just a healthy young man, don't sweat it!
2007-01-20 19:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by rick m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just women... he's a man, he's gonna get like this.... why let women on a screen bother you and what happens when you see hot men on the t.v... think about it :) :) :)
2007-01-20 19:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as I see all those ladies going wild. i think of do they love themselves. Why might they embarrass their dad and mom and kinfolk as nicely as their cultures. I purely see white ladies.
2016-10-31 21:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was "excited" you should have jumped his bones and then told him ain't nothing like the real thing baby.
2007-01-20 19:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak (yourself or him) out about it, guys can get horny talking about wet burritos. Jealously is just as normal
2007-01-20 19:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋