There is this girl who likes me in my class. She nice and all, but i dont like her. Shes really sweet, so i cannot just treat her anyway. At first I was paranoid, but i know she likes me now. I want to continue to be her friend, but im afraid she might get her hopes up. Honestly, she just needs to move on, but i cannot make her, you know?
I have a choice, i can cut her off completely and save her from making a bigger fool of herself
or
I can be her friend, and continue to dodge her "polite" advances
what would you do in this situation? Plz dont tell me to date her, she really sweet and innocent but i dont think i can fall for her
2007-01-20 19:44:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be her friend and nothing more, maybe u will like later...
2007-01-20 19:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm..I'd suggest being friends with her and then talk to her. Don't tell her straight out that you don't want to be in a relationship, but tell her that she's a great person. At the same time, tell her that you aren't really interested/not looking.
Or if you really want to get it across, ask her how she feels about you (just so you can make sure you were really right about her liking you), tell her in the sweetest, and most gentle way possible that you just can't feel that way about her. And give her a hug.
2007-01-20 19:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by kasumi_satoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she did nothing wrong but being nice to you. I think you should keep her as a friend and absolutely do not leading her on in anyway by giving her the wrong impression about that you like her more than a friend. Draw a limit to her and to yourself that there is a friendship relationship,and nothing more. So she wouldn't keep hoping she gonna has a chance with you.
2007-01-20 19:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her off completely and save her from making a bigger fool of herself.Just be her online friend rather than offline.
2007-01-20 19:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by tej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually tell her you're dating someone or you like someone. She'll get the hint that you're not interested and you're off the hook because she doesn't know that you know that she likes you. If that doesn't work, just cut off the friendship completely. If she can't take a hint, she'll just end up hurt when she tries to win you over.
2007-01-20 19:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested in her, you Have to find a way to tell her that you're not interested in being anything more than friends.
I seriously doubt that it will be the end of Her world!! Just let her know and she can move on and find someone more worthy of her!
2007-01-20 19:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend to you he is not! He is using you as his emotional pitstop and you need to let him go! He is not even taking care of his responsibilities to the son you both share. Let him know that you genuinely care about what happens to him and you wish him well but you can be his standby anymore. OH! And remind him that if he would like to do the right thing by your son he knows how to contact you!
2016-03-29 07:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and talk to her: "What would we base a friendship on? What about me do you find so attractive, and would it really be as much fun as a one-sided relationship?" She'll get the idea...and if she doesn't, she's probably too dumb to notice you have moved on anyway.
2007-01-20 19:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, ok, how old r u and where do u go, that's first. second, r u dating n e 1????
tell her she's nice, but you don't like n e 1. ask her if she likes someone. she'll say yes. you say who? she'll tell u, then ask u if u like n e 1. u say no, end of story. or be a liar and tell her u have a gf, aka, me! jk or something like that
2007-01-20 19:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by lexidoodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can introduce her to one of your friends who is single and you think would be a good boyfriend for her.
you also need to talk to her tell her how you feel and that she is such a great friend to you that you wouldnt want to have her as a girlfriend in case it didnt work out and you lost her.
2007-01-20 19:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋