I fonud paper work for a pay day loan in the amount of 2500 dollars this is the second time i have found such papers last time it was only for 200 dollars i confronted him and told him that i felt that he should be dicussing such decisions with me and he promiced he would never take out a loan with out talking with me i don't know how i can trust him now that i found this new loan pappers. i asked him after i found them if he had taken out any new pay day loans sence he and i had talked and he told me he hadn't so on top of braking a promuse he lied to me and now he is talking about buying a house. please help how do i confrount him about the new loan, forgive him and most of all trust him.
2007-01-20 19:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have just told him that you found the paperwork. Now it seems like you are treating him like a child, you gave him the opportunity to lie.
If the two of you live together and have joint accounts and pay bills together then he should have told you.
I would be concerned about what he needs that kind of money for. If he can't manage his money I would not be sharing accounts with him.
Unless he comes clean with you I would seriously reconsider getting married to him let alone buying a house with him.
2007-01-20 19:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm mm that's an awful big loan, maybe he has a problem you don't know about, and with $2500 being used and you don't see anything new coming into your house it maybe going up his nose or on the ponies. I would get to the bottom of it, and after looking at your spelling and grammar I wouldn't sign my name anywhere, God knows what you will be signing.
2007-01-21 03:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Off to a bad start. Pay attention to he signs that you should not marry this person, and if you do,,, you know what the future holds, so hold on and don't complain. The chance is now to make the right choice for you. Be wise.
2007-01-21 03:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me say, you try a conditional promise, I mean , on such and such condition you keep on with him ,otherwise 3 time struck out.
2007-01-21 03:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant. one time is is a mistake. 2 times is outright lies and deceptions. pull his and your credit reports and see what else he has not been tell you money wise.
2007-01-21 03:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
mm.. I'd say you don't. If hes doing this now it'll only get worse once you marry him.
2007-01-21 03:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Luthyin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a loan to go to school learn to spell
2007-01-21 03:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
he pays the loans back doesnt he ?
and who the hell are you to tell him what to do with his own money ?
2007-01-21 03:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
this is something that should not matter to you as long as he's paying it back... he is probably worried about how yous will make it, leave him alone when it comes to him financially supporting you :) :) :)
2007-01-21 03:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋