Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

How do u do it? without saying it of course

2007-01-20 18:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No i'm not one of the "evil" ones.I have been married for 23yrs,neither one of us has ever cheated,but i do know that if it was too happen,either I would be gone or he would.I don't believe these other women are "evil" (unless they are the type who deliberately and without conscience go out searching down married men) If a wife who is supposed to know her husband better than anyone can be looked in the face and dupped into believing the "I love you,i would NEVER! cheat on you,your the only one" speach then why not the other woman.And as for the "They took their vows in the eyes of god" thing ,most people wouldnt know God if he jumped up and bit them in the ***.(No offence to those of a religious nature,I did say most) I personally have no religious belief and was married in a civil ceremony, my marriage contract means too me to be faithful too each other,show deep respect,companionship,Trust,love,honesty and show tolerance and acceptance within those boundaries.I simply wanted to know.

2007-01-20 18:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by jennybuttins 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am curious because imma be doin this girl and it looks as if she mess around a lot so i wanted to ask her if she has any disease like HIV herpes etc etc. but i dont want her to get mad....cuz it sounds rude....u know what i mean??? so if ur a girl please be honest, do you get mad when he ask you if u got any diseases???

2007-01-20 18:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:50:25 · 9 answers · asked by Dr.Ezzat N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a few things i have prblms w/ is that 6 or 7 of those were in a 2 yr period most of them she barely knew and didnt use a condom. She wasnt in a relationship with any of them (the 6 or 7). She is clean, however i thnk its pretty messed up (and kind of whoresh) to let just any guy come (not ***) inside of you with out a condom. "SHE" says it takes away the feeling. What is that, i have never in my life herd a female say that, maybe a ton of guys but never a female. Is this true? Something else to know, she initially told me 5, but later told me 8 possilbly 9 (because she wanted to do him, but he didn't want her) Now honestly i was about ready to break up with her for lying but wasn't sure what to do, my out look on her has changed dramatically she seems "unclean/like a whore" 8 guys is a lot,(or is it?) she does seem to be very sincere about her feelings for me. I ofcourse always wanted a virgin, but as i got older it seemed a bit unrealistic. how much should the past mater? Any advice?

2007-01-20 18:50:06 · 27 answers · asked by cory d 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey I have thig problem. I work at a bookstore and there is this girl who I'm really into and she seems into me. I always catch her looking at me when she come into the store. I don't even know her name, everytime I try to talk to her she is with her parents or one of my other stupid co-workers ring her up or help her out. what should I do?

2007-01-20 18:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by kenneth h 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother has been abusing me along time and sexually harrassing me. everytime he does i want to call for help but i'm too afraid, to. i was straightening my hair in the bathroom just now he told me to get out so he could cut his hair, i said no.. then like 6 min later i get out, he pushes me against the wall and punches me now i have a huge bump on my arm. i want to call the cops, but i dont know what will happen, i'm 13 and home alone with my brother. they might take him away, but also take me away because they don't want to leave me home alone. my mom is at work she works graveyard shift. i don't know what to do, how do i get the guts to ask for help,whenever i do, i always think about the bad stuff, like what if this happens or that. what should i do?

2007-01-20 18:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family

i like this girl from school. we've never spoke. i want to get her email....but i want to be upfront about it so...
i was thinking about doing it this way.........
"hey....are u buzy this weekend?"
if she answers "i dont know" ill just say "oh ..why dont u give me ur email so i can contact u on msn"


any other options?

2007-01-20 18:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is virginity an issue in a marriage??

2007-01-20 18:47:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do young people now days have a sex drive? I have a son 24 and a daughter 21. My son had a girl friend in high school, but since then he has not dated anyone. As far as I know my daughter has not ever had a boyfriend. Do other parents notice anything like this? It is certainly a contrast to the way I behaved at that age. I guess I am grateful that my children did not get involved in intense relationships at 15, but I would like to think I might be a grandfather one day.

2007-01-20 18:46:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was the other woman to John*-- he had a live in girlfriend and at the time I like had major trust issues. Not an excuse but it was my reason. After John* and I broke up I hooked up with David* who is a friend of John*'s. At no point did I or David* go behind anyone's back, and nothing was done out of spite. With that said, here are the two points of View.

DAVID*: feels that he's wrong because they were friends. He still wants to be in a relationship but can't see himself married to me because of my former "relationship" with John*. He is still planning to move into the house that we recently found.

ME: I don't feel bad because when David* and I started conversing over the phone, it was long after John* and I ended. I'm happier with David* than I've ever been with anyone. Problem: I want a marriage. I don't want to just live with someone for the rest of my life. I've had my friends hook up with exes of mine. As long as there's an actual breakup, even if I get mad I'll be fine.

2007-01-20 18:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

them look less foolish? I don't know why it is, but it seems like most of the women I get around have to talk...about gossip, stupid things in the media, the people they supposedly don't like or even nothing at all! Just downright noise pollution...what do you think? Why can't they just be cool!?

2007-01-20 18:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing. i just got here from another country,i dont know anyone,my everyday routine is to wake up,eat,sleep,eat some more and sleep again.im new to the place,the only person that i talk to are my parents.im sooo bored! its been 7 months since i got here and still dont know anyone.my friends(from where i use to live) tells me that everything would be better when i stert to go to school..but i cant go to school till next fall!! i cant wait that long! im getting crazy and depress. i miss my old friends alot and im trying so hard to adjust...so could anyone give me any advice

2007-01-20 18:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by ........ 4 in Friends

how did it feel when you fell into love for the first time, and how did it feel to lose it.
do you still love that person and miss them?

2007-01-20 18:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by honeycluster 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if they havent gained any significant weight, but obviously, the boobs are well,....different, and maybe a little extra around the hips. also, what about stretch marks?

2007-01-20 18:37:57 · 24 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

would you think it was cheezey or thoughtful or stupid or romantic in only a way that would work at a bar??

2007-01-20 18:37:50 · 7 answers · asked by Eric O 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think about being friends with benefits with your ex.
does that scream 'slut'

2007-01-20 18:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by honeycluster 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been trying to get pregnant for the last year. However, I get the impression that my husband may have been thinking about leaving me. I feel really sad and lonely. I have tried to ask him about how he feels and he just keeps "blowing me off"

2007-01-20 18:37:01 · 17 answers · asked by sally-ann s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandmother has threatened to "disown" me if I don't change the name that I've chosen for my little girl, who will be here in a few weeks? She says its not appropriate! I know that ultimately its my decision, but I don't want this added stress right now! How can I convince her not to be personally offended?

2007-01-20 18:35:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm a chinese and chinese people are very conservative insofar there's still a lot of them not preferring sex before marriage. seems to me that people from western countries are more open-minded. but do girls there also cares about vaginity very much? i mean is it just very usual in western countries that dating a guy nearly means you'll have sex with him even he's not the one you are going to marry?

i'm being chased by a foreign guy and i'm kind of hesitating. that's why i want to know.

2007-01-20 18:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Lorraine YE 2 in Singles & Dating

i need some advice ok so basically i have been messing around with one of my good friends he was had a girlfriend this whole time and they have been together for 3 years we've only been messing around for 5 months. i really like her shes nice and does not deserve to have this done to her. he talks bad about her to make me think he doesn't care for her though i know he does but why does he mess with me when he has her? i want to tell her but should i? if it was me i'd want to know. she had a child from another person and things are serious between them i dont want her to end up with him if hes gonna do this to her AND her son. she should build something as strong with someone that respects her a little. HE cheats on her all the time ALL THE TIME he thinks that she wont beleive me if i tell but should i tell her? is it any of my buisness? i really want t o tell her because she deserves better. what should i do?

2007-01-20 18:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by izzy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:32:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 18:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by roxy 1 in Friends

She told me she wasn't ready to date. If I catch her going out with a guy...

What should I do to her?

Nothing pyschotic, but just to let her know that I know that she is the biggest piece of s**t that in the world.

2007-01-20 18:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1 in Singles & Dating

IF U THNK U HAVE A GOOD IDEA IM ME

2007-01-20 18:30:35 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

known him to have genuine compassion for me. I say this because there have been recent times when it shocks me to know he would rather not hear or see me hurt when I am sick, he has allowed his family to put me down without it really bothering him and has basically told me, he feels like he should have never gotten married (15 years ago) - which is something I have always wondered about. I feel he doesnt have compassion for me and was basically told I was right. I can give many examples but the most hurtful is that he knows how I feel and doesnt care... We have two children, acquired very nice things, have a great big house and a very nasty marriage. Our children are 11 and l5 and have heard it all. Its been saddening for me to know for all these years he'd rather be single and more sad to know what we are doing to our children. I believe compassion is VERY important and must be present in a successful marriage if not, there is no marriage... HELP?

2007-01-20 18:30:21 · 17 answers · asked by littlecindy.lu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have feelings for this boy and i wish i was with him becuz he always made me happy. But the 2nd time he asked me out turned out kinda weird cuz it was only for one day.when we talked on the phone it was weird becuz it wasnt the same anymore.But I really love him. I dont know what to do. Please Help ME!!!

2007-01-20 18:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by tiffycrazy 2 in Singles & Dating

would girls find tightie whities attractive on me? and should i keep on wearing them?

here is a pic of me;

http://360.yahoo.com/profile-6Ba05kY1dKKclqwK6EF47geHHg2eRgrc

2007-01-20 18:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by dodgecharger6901 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 18:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce