i am curious because imma be doin this girl and it looks as if she mess around a lot so i wanted to ask her if she has any disease like HIV herpes etc etc. but i dont want her to get mad....cuz it sounds rude....u know what i mean??? so if ur a girl please be honest, do you get mad when he ask you if u got any diseases???
2007-01-20 18:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
UHH.. YEAH THAT SOUNDS LIKE AN INSULT DON'T BE A JERK ABOUT IT ASK HER SERIOUSLY,SEX IS SOMETHING SERIOUS ...ISN'T IT THIS IS YOUR BODY YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT AND HOPEFULLY SHE'LL ANSWER HONESTLY JUST BE SURE TO USE PROTECTION ALL OF THE TIME
2007-01-20 18:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe suggest that you both get tested together? I would personally laugh if a guy asked me if I had any STDs and reply with, "I hope not!" Many people who are infected with whatever don't know they have a disease afterall. If she has HIV and knows about it it's illegal to have unprotected sex with someone without her telling them (I think anyway, from memory, ie. an episode of Law & Order SVU). So, yes, what makes you so sure you're clean? It only takes having unprotected sex with one infected person to catch a sexually transmitted infection yourself! Get tested together.
2007-01-20 19:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being responsible. Go get tested! Then when you meet up with this girl you can ask her if she's been tested for any STD's since her last partner. Maybe you'll be able to convince her to get tested. It's just the right thing to do. It's super responsible.
2007-01-20 18:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might get mad.She also might lie to you.She also might have something and not even know about it.If this is youre way of preventing youreself from getting STDs, Then mabey she should be asking you the same question.
2007-01-20 19:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't. it's something that both people should be willing to do before getting intimate, and if need be, periodically throughout the relationship. If she wants the goods she should be more than happy to do it, but the same should go for you too.
2007-01-20 18:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very very smart to ask that question. If she gets mad, explain why you ask, and if she is still annoyed, move on
2007-01-20 18:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i won't get mad but i'll tell u the truth about me,why i have to get mad?that's just a question not a fact,ok
2007-01-20 19:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♣ Jeany ♠ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound rude, but it's something you need to know...
2007-01-20 18:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rude and if she has nothing to hide then she wont care if you ask her :) :) :)
2007-01-20 18:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most would...if your so concerned don't sleep with her and make sure you don't sleep with anyone til you both agree to get tested.
2007-01-20 18:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by elyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋