i have feelings for this boy and i wish i was with him becuz he always made me happy. But the 2nd time he asked me out turned out kinda weird cuz it was only for one day.when we talked on the phone it was weird becuz it wasnt the same anymore.But I really love him. I dont know what to do. Please Help ME!!!
2007-01-20 18:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by tiffycrazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest you forget it. I'm guessing that you are young. Focus on school or college. Make sure you can care for yourself before caring for someone else.
2007-01-20 18:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel the same infatuation for you? That's the key, mutual attraction. Sounds like something about the 2nd date caused the relationship to turn a corner instead of go strightforward. See if he's ready to be frank with you, if he isn't, move on. If he's ready to open up and respect your line of questioning by allowing you to understand where he is mentally about your relationship, he may be a keeper. Best of luck!
2007-01-20 18:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by justacarguy.blogspot.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
owh... you really love him.. if it's true love then there shouldn't be any awkwardness between you guys... how is it weird? as in there wasnt the spark like the first time? if there's no spark, you should try moving on.. no matter how hard it is, you'l pull through... maybe it wasnt meant to be that's why.. but dont take my word fr it.. if you think this relationship was meant to be and it is worth saving then go all out fr it.. i'm sure it'll be all worth while.. the choice is really up to you... only you can choose the right path.. good luck :)
2007-01-20 18:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is to forget abut him if he dosent want you 'full time'. your worth more than that.......live your life...work on your purpose in life.....discover YOU..and your true love will be their when its time...they will love you for who you really are because you are not living your life to win him..your living you life to form you.(not in a conceited way but perpose driven way)....your true love will find that attractive....confidence is attractive..to good people anyways..trust God and it will all fall into place...ps.I loved my first love for years but he didnt give me all of himself and now he has gotten a girl pregnant that he is not even married to and im sad..but i dount want him back. im glad though because now i feel like I finally have hope for a more fufilling future..i know what i want and what i do'nt want and im focused on self development and most important God........I hope that helped you...good luck.....
2007-01-28 16:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by panda303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of experience, I encourage you to toughen up and think with your head and not your heart. When we think with our emotions, we really hurt ourselves. This is not rationalized thinking., and can lead you to trouble.
Good luck!
2007-01-20 18:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by easygoingfemale44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fate.
2007-01-28 15:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Let him go!
2007-01-28 18:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either start something full time with him or drop it and find someone else :) :) :)
2007-01-20 18:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,and forget
2007-01-20 18:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋