if they havent gained any significant weight, but obviously, the boobs are well,....different, and maybe a little extra around the hips. also, what about stretch marks?
2007-01-20 18:37:57 · 24 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. Also men are attracted to women who are comfortable and confident about their bodies -- it is a real turn on. So, be confident and strut your stuff!
2007-01-20 18:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If your "love" was for how the person looks then there's a likelihood that some body changes resulting from having babies would change how you at her.
But, yes! there are many men who think that you become less hot after having children. There are two may reason for that - in some cases is because women start making their children a priority, so men wouldn't feel that loving feel of yesterday. Their minds then start going down the route of "children makes women less attractive" while the truth is that they feel that children have taken their place. The other reason is because some women really become less attentive to their bodies after having children In that case, they create and confirm the statement.
But one other thing that most men (I'm a man) keep on denying is that there's a time (more often) that we see young women - mostly without children - more sexy than our wives. In some instances that feeling becomes so destructive in the relationship that the marriage ends up in a divorce.
2007-01-21 02:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they love you, they will still think you are hot, of course. As long as you don't "let yourself go" Make sure you eat right, exercise, and try some good creams to prevent stretch marks. I didn't use anything in my first pregnancy and I got them. This time around I use "Tummy Butter" from Motherhood Maternity everyday and I am due in 4 weeks and haven't gotten any new ones. Try to eat whole grain foods and lots of fresh fruits and veggies, sugar free stuff and you won't gain a lot of weight. This advice works as well after the baby also, for losing the weight and minimising stretch marks? Take care of yourself and you'll be fine. If you were hot before, you'll be hot after!
2007-01-21 09:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Martin N. Men still think that their wives are hot, as is plainly evident when more children are born to the couple. If you are concerned about changes in your body since giving birth, the first thing is to avoid comparing yourself with women who haven't.
Becoming a mother changes women in other important ways: It makes them more observant, more intuitive, and--best of all--more caring, not only for their babies but for everyone in their lives. Becoming a mother is truly a life-changing event to celebrate!
2007-01-21 03:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by ragged 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes so almost every womans body changes after having kids. So what. i'd like to see a man gain all that weight for nine months and stretch like a rubber band. I don't want to sound mean or anything but us woman have it hard enough raising kids and attending to their husbands to be critizied about how they look now.
2007-01-21 02:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gigi D 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
let us talk open minded:
First: with the nature of being married, are you doing the same
being nice, not arrguing, wear sexy clothes, be calm, ...etc.
second: Body is important not be a model, but r u near from that u are before.
well those two issues are important to take notes about.
he can tell u that u r most sexiest lady in his eyes for at least one of both conditions. if u do both then u will buy him again.
try to keep good histories of your hapites, and good luck
Rain
2007-01-21 03:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by sherif_mattar2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its about the appearance of your body, it's more like you go from being something sexy and sexual, to more motherly that turns some guys off. i.e. they watched something come out of your snapper and there is now a baby is latched onto your boob. Some guys dig it, some guys are completely turned off. Figure out which guy your man is and either play it up or tone it down.
2007-01-21 02:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman and my ex found me less attractive not because I had extra weight but because I lost TOO MUCH WEIGHT and got too skinny after our kids were born. I was 132lbs when we met, 115 after both kids were born. he wanted some cushion.
I'm now even thinner, but with a man who is also very thin so he doesn't mind.
2007-01-21 02:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have friends whose wives still look great after a couple of kids, but they took care of themselves; and shallow or not, they got their azzes in the gym after giving birth and kept the fat off. Age will define which way the boobs and everything else goes, but you can fend off the grim reaper for a while.
Yeah, some guys DO think their spouses are hot after kids. Then, there are the other 90%!!!
2007-01-21 03:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
my hubby does, hell the man can't keep away from me hahaha
not all women get stretch marks and saggy boobs, our 3rd and a couple weeks...... i'm back in my jeans and toning the tummy with speed walking and lifting. luckily i have the type of tummy that just snaps back to normal :-)
not everyone lets themselves go to pot.
2007-01-21 03:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, men aren't that shallow. If they love their wife/girlfriend then none of that matters. Would you stop being attracted to your man if his boobs got a little saggier and he got a beer belly?
2007-01-21 02:52:32 · answer #11 · answered by Tasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋