Do young people now days have a sex drive? I have a son 24 and a daughter 21. My son had a girl friend in high school, but since then he has not dated anyone. As far as I know my daughter has not ever had a boyfriend. Do other parents notice anything like this? It is certainly a contrast to the way I behaved at that age. I guess I am grateful that my children did not get involved in intense relationships at 15, but I would like to think I might be a grandfather one day.
2007-01-20 18:46:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank god your kids are different!
I too, have two kids (grown) one is 28 now, didn't marry till she was 25. My son is now 25 and has no serious relationships.
I like to think the way I raised them had something to do with their
dating choices.
I always encouraged them to have a career well astablished before they got seriously involved with anyone.
I have always believed that a young adult should strive to becoming self sufficient, because you 'never' know what will happen tomorrow.
Guys appreciate girls more, those who are well adjusted and have a career, and they get a lot more respect than girls who don't.
Girls also appreciate and admire young guys who have their feet on solid ground, and can take care fo themselves finacially.
Girls really respect this in a guy these days..
Like I said, be grateful and proud of your kids.
They 'WILL' make you a grandpa some day, but all in due time!!
If they aren't too concerned about it, then you shouldn't be either.
2007-01-20 19:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my kids are 28, 24, and 21.
The 28 year old is married no kids.
the 24 one kid no husband.
..she met a guy, had sex the first week, got pregnuat, moved the guy in because he did not have a place to live, he left the week the baby was born got put in jail in another state she sent him money to get back on. OH but the month before he left one day he had to spend at the hospital...while his ex girlfriend had his baby...Dramma be glad you do not have it.
My grandson does not have a father, has not recived one gift from him he is 2. does not give her money and did not give the child his name.
OK the 21 year old no husband one baby, one ex husband. she got married after she had the baby and after the drama I am about to tell. he is not the father of her baby or was she dating him. Here her story...
her friend had a brother that was in jail. He got out and was staying with his sister...
.and she was at her friends house and they started talking, had sex she got pregnuat...
welll she did not want to tell that looser she was pregnuat so she told another boy it was his baby..
.then one day the 24 year olds boyfriend told the boy who was
not the father
that YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER...
Drama we had pleany.
I will stop there because it just gets to intensed from here.
So to answer your question...
I am sure they have sex drive...it is just been put in nuteral from all the drama they have seen or heard their friends or most of the girls in the world go through.
Now i am sure there are men out there that are nice...My oldest has one of them. I am not saying all men are jurks, but it seems t be a lot of them.
Boys now days are not like the boys of our day.
Remember the saying..
.Love 'em and leave 'em.
..well now it is
You are on your own...you knew I was a snake when you picked me up.
2007-01-21 03:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋