i'm 17. I know i'm young. I meet this girl from my church group. She's really shy, but i think she's perfect for me. She's pretty, and shes a good girl. Very smart. Were into the same things, and overall she's a beauty, a really rare find. well we had our date and she was really shy , so was i. Well,she was really into me. Now she's almost ignoring me, so i'm facing my losses. I think i Actually love this girl.I've known her for 3 months, had a crush. How do i get over her. I've had other girlsfriends in the past, and i mean i eventually got over them, but now i'm stuck, because she felt like the one. I was looking for this kind of girl all along. And here she is.I'm out of highschool, and in college. I'm Christian.
2007-01-20 18:56:00 · 3 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm defeated soo easly because I broke up with a G/F 6 months ago, who I shared a long term relationship. I guess i'm looking for the first sign of failure.
2007-01-20 19:08:17 · update #1
dont be so easily defeated.Maybe she is shy or had a bad relationship and needs to build up some trust.You need to ask her why she is ignoring you.If you think you love her then why are you quitting so easily.Im not saying you should stalk her but it seems as if you have more talking to do before you can scratch her off your list!
If you are Christian then you need to pray about it and ask for Gods discernment in your life and maybe speak to your pastor/minister/priest about the situation. You could also ask her friends what she enjoys doing and try for another date and make it special to show you really thought about her.
2007-01-20 19:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by jambutty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be sad, your a sweety. I dont understand why she would ignor you. hmm maybe she is really shy, i would talk to her first before getting really upset. There is plenty of fish in the sea and you have a life ahead of you. You probably here that from everyone but its true.
If she doesnt like you like a b/f then dont worry and dont put yourself down she obviously might not feel the same way.
All the best keep your chin up :)
2007-01-21 03:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her your true feelings before its too late. All the best.
2007-01-21 03:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋