My hubby has gone abroad and he may return after 6 months only. In his absence i can not pull on days without sex. There are two options before me.- (1) to make use of vibrators till I get satisfied (2) to take the help of one or two boyfriends. My hubby will not mind either,he is very boradminded and he encurages me to do what ever I feel like doing. What shall I do? You can suggest some alternates also.
2007-01-20 18:54:59 · 5 answers · asked by tullu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is this a typical thing for you guys? to me somethings up with your marriage if he's going away so long and he doesn't mind you having sex with other people! The difference is my husband would't dream of me doing anything like that I reckon he'd leave me- may I ask where your commitment is? get some pornos and use your vibrators and ask him what he's doing for sex- i'd take a look at your marriage.
2007-01-20 19:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you're saying is you have a sex addiction. because not being able to get by without sex doesn't make too much sense otherwise.
and i can't believe that your husband will not mind, butyou certainly know him better than i do. Just keep in mind that if you call on ^#&* buddies, then your relationship might be strained later on. you have to think too, will you mind if your hubby screws around abroad because he needs to be satisfied?
finally, what about your image? is it ok if you're known as a married woman willing to get busy with others?
2007-01-20 19:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by AW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex, if you define it with love, it will make you feel complete and satisfied.
But if you do sex just for pleasure, you will always seek sex with everyone.
Why would you let your self be wasted and possibly get STD from having sex with somebody else, and you will not feel happy.
Its only six months, try to control your urge, it will be like waiting for the orange in the tree, if you pick it up too young you can eat it but you don't want to remember, but wait till it is ripe and you will savor all its flavor.
Temptation is what makes us human, faithfulness will lead you to a lasting relationship.
2007-01-20 19:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by civilestimator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, lucky woman. If he doesn't mind then go for the real thing.
2007-01-20 19:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by umm...I don't know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are lucky to have such a husband.The choice is yours.
2007-01-20 19:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋