Do you really need a good job, a house or apt, and a nice car.
2007-01-20 19:02:29 · 17 answers · asked by Eric O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its important to know what you want from a relationship.I would be lying if I said those things were not important but only because it helps the relationship if there is some security there.I wouldnt be happy if my daughter dated a guy with no job,no money,I would be concerned how he was going to support her if they ever got serious and married.Money IS important its just not the most important thing.However if a guy is a hard worker and really making an effort to stand on his own two feet I wouldnt have a problem.
2007-01-20 19:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those things are necessary if you want a good life. The housing/apartment is not an option. Car isn't an option either. Job? Do I even need to say it?
Note: If I were a girl, I'd have to say no.
2007-01-21 03:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend doesn't have a car and when I met him he only had a dodgy job and I had to pay rent for him a few times until he finished university. He's a nice guy though, very smart, and now he has a well-paying job and we're still just as in love.
Even if he worked washing dishes I would still love him.
So, to answer your question, yes.
2007-01-21 03:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd still interested if my bf didn't has car or much money,but i think the good job,and apt is something important to our future
2007-01-21 03:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♣ Jeany ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes why not?? some times it takes people time to get what they want but if the guy was kind and a good guy of course...do not let that get to you....I am sure in time you will have a car and some spending money hey it takes time take care but we do have to move forward and strive to have a little something we can call our own it takes time a a positive attitude
2007-01-21 03:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see you have to be careful with that ?, unfortunately now a days woman need a man that can support them. yes you need a car not a new car and a place to live to show stability and responsibility. you might get lucky and find a woman who doesn't care but that will be extremely hard. woman are so unpredictable its rediculious. 99 out of 100 woman are not going to be interested .
2007-01-21 03:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by baldwin28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the age and where he is headed, if he was concentrated on school and drove a crappy car or didn't have one because he feels tuition is more important or something, i might be impressed with his dedication. but if he's just some guy who is unmotivated and such, then yea i'd def not be interested
2007-01-21 03:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Luciya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy needs to know how to take care of himself... he doesn't have to have a car but he does need to have a job and not be living at home with his mother :) :) :)
2007-01-21 03:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not money, its about a work ethic.
As long as he does work and has the ambition to better himself, then what he makes is not important.
2007-01-21 03:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should be really nice. He should really care for me,and not cheat me in any way. Other things are immaterial.
2007-01-21 03:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋