She sends me messages all the time. ignoring her doesnt work. and i dont really want anything to do with her. I once got really hammered and i ended up having intercourse with her. I immediately regret this decision. but now she will not leave me alone. And she kinda freaks me out. So I'm in a pickle. Help my dumbass self solve this issue. Thank you and god bless.
2007-01-20 18:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by Royce 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..try to discuss with her.
1. the "cute polite " break-up: she is such an adorable girl but you are ...not ready for a relationship....tell her some melo-dramatic crap about how miserable you`ve been after the last girl...and you aren`t ready to date and to get in serious shitty dating....so, back off freak! this might be an unsuccesful method as she might think that you are such a sensitive guy and she might be the right person to help you heal.....so, i suggest you to skip this "cute polite" way to do things and..go to the next one:
2. the "cinical cold-hearted" break-up: you used her for getting laid and..she sucked by the way! now, you want to move on with her gf who is an expert in anal sex (your favorite)..hihi!anyway, tell her she is just another average girl from your loooong dating list..and you will obtain a restraining order for her *** if she doesn`t stop bugging you!aa! and ask her what does she think about your pal (name an ugly freaky guy..if you know one) that wants to... "meet her" after you told him all the details of your night together....well, i`ll guess that approach would make you a creep..bu at least you`d get rid of that annoying desperate creature!
good luck, man!
2007-01-20 19:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight out, and if that doesnt work head for the hills. just kidding. no seriously just tell her, and keep ignoring her as much as you can and hopefully she will get the message. If not you can change your phone number and email and all that and hopefully she doesnt know where you live cause then yea your in a pickle.. Good Luck
2007-01-21 02:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she probably is in love with you now. That is what happens when you sleep with a girl.
I guess you better sit her down and tell her that you are not interested in anything more. It will be uncomfortable, but otherwise you will have to keep ignoring all the messages.
Tell her that you just want to be friends...the international kiss-off.
It will end in tears but you gotta do it.
2007-01-21 03:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by bluekat0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she freak you out? Enough to make you scared? Get a restraining order if you think she's a threat. If you don't charge her with stalking. I don't know your total situation, but if you can be wherever she isn't, so much the better.
2007-01-21 02:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably bugging you because you got her pregnant. Now she wants to date you before she breaks the big news.
If she isn't pregnant, you're going to have to date her for a week. Treat her like crap and then dump her. She'll get the message then.
2007-01-21 02:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. I just went through the very same thing. An ex was bugging the hell outta me and despite the fact that I ignored the crap outta him he didn't chill out until I told him how I felt.
2007-01-21 02:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Future Mrs. Jarvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes really attached to you and to break that magnet. this may sound mean, but if you really want her to leave you alone. you should just do things that will irritate her. gradually if you keep this up, along with avoiding her, then she'll keep her distances from you and may even start to lose interest in you. you have another option. you can find yourself a girlfriend, maybe that annoying girl will leave you alone. if your even lucky, you might find a girlfriend that can fight. and when i mean fight, not pulling their hair, i mean who can punch. i think you'll like that (:
2007-01-21 03:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by marisssssssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth!!!! if she is really sensitive, she might burst into tears but if she is headstrong she might just accept it and move onto another guy and bug him!! And if she is messaging u all the time, turn your phone off, or if it is aim, just block her...... if you can't tell her the truth because you (or she) can't bear it, the that is your (and her) problem.
2007-01-21 02:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to funk off once and for all, and leave you alone. or better yet, set her up with a dude you don't really like.
2007-01-21 02:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way is to talk to her, to solve this situation. I was wondering what triggered her to be so talkative
2007-01-21 02:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋