Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I have sole legal and physical custody of my son can i change his last name to mine even if the mother says no

2007-01-17 16:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

The other day as I was entering a building, I saw at the corner of my eye that this cute guy walking pass me was staring at me. I looked at him and he didn't look away. I'm immensely shy so I looked away quickly. Now... he doesn't notice me anymore.

Another guy and I make eye contact all the time whenever we see each other, yet sometimes he acts like I'm not there. If it helps, we knew each other for a couple of months but we only talked once.

And I'm pretty sure I don't have schlop on my face or anything.

What could be the reason? Or am I just overanalyzing?

Rude comments aren't appreciated :-)

2007-01-17 16:00:08 · 28 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

what is a good test or signs that you are in love and not just "puppy love"? Is it too early to say i am in love even if i feel as if i am? Do i keep a lond distance relationship for 1.5 years and wait for the girl that i love? i need help and any personal experience or thought on what i should do will help!

2007-01-17 15:59:37 · 13 answers · asked by funkywhiteshirt 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my children very much .sometimes they say also that i 'm a good mother but still i feel they dont understand me well. at times , they r very rude also .i treat them like my freinds help them out of thier problems but many times in the process i found they misunderstand me .it hurts to see that u r trying ur best to do ur duties and still ur own ppl dont understand u !tell me why?

2007-01-17 15:58:47 · 30 answers · asked by sudha p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some people feel that when a younger female dates a older man, she's looking for a father figure and when a older man dates a younger girl, he wants someone to control or he can't handle a woman his age. I totally disagree, why can't a younger female just be that mature to carry her own. I always dated older and I was never controlled. I was 16 dating a man that was 26, he took my virginity, I was always mature mentally and physically and to this day at 21 I never felt he took advantage of me. Yes in this world today, I dont think its safe to date like that now, with all the perverts and mentally deranged men out there, but sometimes it's so REAL, but at the same time, As a hypocrite, I would never let my younger sibling date like that, I knew how strong I was emotionally and mentally so I knew how to handle myself as a teenager playing the role of a woman. How do you feel about situations like this. I would especially like to hear from the Men who likes younger females.

2007-01-17 15:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by JamaicanVixen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in need of some tips on things to do on a date, things to talk about, ect.. I've never been good at this kind of stuff and now that I have a girl that I'm close to I need some help.

2007-01-17 15:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by iowa_trooper911 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy named will and well we only talk on the internet but we got o the same school and he likes me but i am afraid to tell him who i am cuse well i am not pretty but he like my personality what should i do?and no it ain't any one you know it is a cute will

2007-01-17 15:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

and i am lonley for the rest of my life? i worry about this all the time i want to get married and have kids someday and just have a family of my own but im afraid that it won't happen for me b/c i happen to be really shy and nervous...does anyone else have this problem?...help!!

2007-01-17 15:55:41 · 20 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-01-17 15:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by island girl 808 1 in Friends

So many men say they want a "good" woman who will be their partner in a relationship. Not a woman who is just looking for a man w/money to take care of her. A woman who is honest, faithful, loving & trust worthy. But then when a man actually finds a woman like this, it's like all of a sudden he's commitment phobic???

2007-01-17 15:55:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, honestly, what do you expect for valenitine's day from your b/friend, or someone you just started dating? And guys, if you have a crush on a girl what would you do for her on valentine's day?

2007-01-17 15:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by sharon 2 in Singles & Dating

I turned 26 at the end of November and realized that I am four years to 30 and havent had a boyfriend since April of 2001 (I also haven't had intercourse although I have had oral sex with that boyfriend who dumped me in April of 2001; neither of us were ready for actual sex back then)


I'm on a few dating sites and I am trying to tell myself to just go out with these guys and have a good time but it seems like I'm just so delayed .... I am not waiting until marriage (because who knows, I could get married at age 45) but just for a sweet and funny guy who will respect me and wait a few months to get to know me before we jump into bed.

Any advice/feedback would be appreciated.

2007-01-17 15:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by Rebecca M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay well me and my boyfriend are having a baby. both really excited but 2 weeks ago we got in a huge fight and he left me. moved all of his stuff out and just left. i cried and told him i want him back and im sorry and its just my hormones


well he wouldn't take it he said we'll never get back together again it just wouldn't work. we have been together for 2 years and now this.
what do i do to get him to understand that i need him and i want him and i love him. we got in a fight because he works all the time and i wanted more time w/ him

i know this may sound highschoolish and childish but i've been playing hard to get. ignoring his calls acting like i don't care and its working . he calls me now non stop and wants to hang out. but when i cried to him, and apoligized he didn't want anything to do with me

what should i do..what can i do
i don't want our child to grow up in a broken home
plus i love him w/ all my heart despite the games

2007-01-17 15:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by PuertoRicanLover 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone says this girl wants to hookup with me and were goen to be at the same party this weekend. I just dont know when its right to go for it and other stuff like that. I also never kissed a girl before and I know she has kissed many boys before will my inexperiance show. Where you confused your first time or what.

2007-01-17 15:52:08 · 2 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Singles & Dating

okay well me and my boyfriend are having a baby. both really excited but 2 weeks ago we got in a huge fight and he left me. moved all of his stuff out and just left. i cried and told him i want him back and im sorry and its just my hormones


well he wouldn't take it he said we'll never get back together again it just wouldn't work. we have been together for 2 years and now this.
what do i do to get him to understand that i need him and i want him and i love him. we got in a fight because he works all the time and i wanted more time w/ him

i know this may sound highschoolish and childish but i've been playing hard to get. ignoring his calls acting like i don't care and its working . he calls me now non stop and wants to hang out. but when i cried to him, and apoligized he didn't want anything to do with me

what should i do..what can i do
i don't want our child to grow up in a broken home
plus i love him w/ all my heart despite the games

2007-01-17 15:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by PuertoRicanLover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel guilty all the time when I am with her, should I divorce her and miss her the rest of my life, or I just go on living with her hoping time will mend our relationship. Could anyone give me advice ?

2007-01-17 15:50:18 · 15 answers · asked by yesiree 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this person named brice he's nice, quite, funny,and he is not a trouble maker
i like him alot but i can't tell him and i don't know if he likes me so what do i do
and he isn't in my class
p.s we use to be friends but he has been acting weared so we never talk to eacher outher any more

2007-01-17 15:50:07 · 1 answers · asked by lunar 2 in Friends

okay so ive been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks now.... weve never discussed if we were just "us" or if we are able to see other ppl.... how do i ask him without him thinking im a retard

2007-01-17 15:49:29 · 14 answers · asked by bilinda_82 3 in Singles & Dating

I have to move out from where I live. The initial plan was that I was going to move in with a very good and close friend that also has to move in the same time I have to. The thing is, this friend went back to his country during the period when everyone moves, and thus, the good places are just disappearing. When he will be back, I'll have a lot of stress due to school (final tests) but he will be free, except that the chances of finding a good place will be less (in ~2.5weeks). I found many places and sent him pictures through the internet but he wasn't able to decide, and so I couldn't take any place I found. Then I started looking for places just for me, and I found one I really liked. I told him that maybe I will move there instead of moving with him. Besides, in that building there are many people I know and that are good friends too. The problem is that there is only one room available and I should add that it's rather expensive. Now, I don't know what to do, I'm really confused

2007-01-17 15:48:48 · 3 answers · asked by confuxed 1 in Friends

2007-01-17 15:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Pipi 1 in Singles & Dating

bf of three years broke up with me about a week ago. asked him today how he felt and said he doesn't miss me or love me anymore. tried to convince and argue about going back out again. do you think if i stop calling and convincing him he will want me back? everytime we have fights i'm always the one who would apologize and chase him.

2007-01-17 15:48:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-17 15:48:00 · 4 answers · asked by bllwnkle 2 in Singles & Dating

I have to get mad or cry to have him hug me even at that it is a lazy hug and we never have sex. we sleep in separate bedrooms and he never takes me on dates. he even stopped kissing me before work and i confronted him and he said i am acting like a kid! i cried ofcourse i was hurt by that. we have two babies and we both work. still i am lonely for him and we haven't cuddled in what seems to be over a year.

2007-01-17 15:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 5'4 and 17 years old is that too small? i think im almost done growing too but idk.

2007-01-17 15:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a 40 min Great Make out sesion with my boyfriend. I dont know what happend! When I make out with him I just dont know what happend but its not the same and it was a couple days ago. I need someone to Refreash my Memory.

What do I do:
Like With my Lips?
Tounge?

2007-01-17 15:46:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 15:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay im sure many guys will agree that women play games. I know they do this only to test on a subconcious level weather you are "husband material." So my question is do women take advantage of it and would a way a guy talks or displays himself cause you to ask more? One more thing does it ever stop lol?

2007-01-17 15:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by huh? 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have dated in the past. We were a couple for about 8 months and then we had a falling out. After three months of seperation, she and I began hanging out again. We ingaged in intimate actions right away. However, she said she does not want a boy friend. In fact, she said she wanted to be friends first and see how things go. We have been seeing each other for about 2 weeks now. Some days she says she loves me and is all over me. On the other hand, other days she seems like she is not inteested in me in a boy friend type of way. I love her deeply. I understand and agree that we should become better friends before we date. However, this back and forth emotions really confuse and at times depress me. When ever i talk to her abot this, she gets upset. Am I missing some thing. I feel like a fool because most men would just be happy they are getting "laid". She says she loves me, but does she? I want to think she does, but I do not know.

2007-01-17 15:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by tomuchthinking 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-17 15:44:41 · 8 answers · asked by Lets Play Doctor 1 in Singles & Dating

my mum was a nasty person all her life, now she is in her late fifties, she told me if i behave i 'might' get inheritance, but i ''might not'', everytime i see her i feel stress, she is such a toxic person.

2007-01-17 15:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family