okay well me and my boyfriend are having a baby. both really excited but 2 weeks ago we got in a huge fight and he left me. moved all of his stuff out and just left. i cried and told him i want him back and im sorry and its just my hormones
well he wouldn't take it he said we'll never get back together again it just wouldn't work. we have been together for 2 years and now this.
what do i do to get him to understand that i need him and i want him and i love him. we got in a fight because he works all the time and i wanted more time w/ him
i know this may sound highschoolish and childish but i've been playing hard to get. ignoring his calls acting like i don't care and its working . he calls me now non stop and wants to hang out. but when i cried to him, and apoligized he didn't want anything to do with me
what should i do..what can i do
i don't want our child to grow up in a broken home
plus i love him w/ all my heart despite the games
2007-01-17 15:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by PuertoRicanLover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first off you don't know who i am or how mature i am. you're judging me on one question i asked. so why don't YOU grow up and then learn to answer my question not just put me down and said i would be a bad mother. get to know me before judging m e
2007-01-17 16:23:34 · update #1
Don't beg him !! Please! It only makes it worse ! And some men run over you when your pregnant thinking you can't get anybody else ! And there wrong and you can ! You can show him and he will change his mind i bet !! He shouldn't have left over the arguing he has to understand and if he loved you he would try and work it out and he would talk to you about your feelings and try to make it work and help you feel better ! Stress is not good for you and he shouoldn't make you stress like that cause it can stress the baby !!!! If he loves you he will be back if not it's better now before the baby knows him and would miss him !! just don't beg and you shouldn't have to play games either !! just be honest and see if he wants to talk and work it out or not, but he can't keep leaving everytime he gets mad, so make sure he knows that too ! Put your foot down and don't beg him!
2007-01-17 16:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You & him are adults, quit playing all the games. You both need to raise a baby soon.
Start with yourself first & stop crying & being emotional. Your boyfriend doesn't deserve to be treated like that, no matter what. The baby gets to do that when he/she is born.
Your guy does not like you acting like a baby.
2007-01-17 23:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world do all of you think this person can grow up? Her whole relationship is about playing grown up. If she really didn't want a child growing up with out two parents she would have used bc correctly and married before shacking up with the guy.
2007-01-18 00:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Give him the space and time he needs and he may come back to you and he probably will want to see and be there for the baby. Stop playing and get serious about your relationship or you may lose him forever.
2007-01-18 00:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you playing games? Grow Up You are about to bring a baby in the world
2007-01-17 23:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋