The other day as I was entering a building, I saw at the corner of my eye that this cute guy walking pass me was staring at me. I looked at him and he didn't look away. I'm immensely shy so I looked away quickly. Now... he doesn't notice me anymore.
Another guy and I make eye contact all the time whenever we see each other, yet sometimes he acts like I'm not there. If it helps, we knew each other for a couple of months but we only talked once.
And I'm pretty sure I don't have schlop on my face or anything.
What could be the reason? Or am I just overanalyzing?
Rude comments aren't appreciated :-)
2007-01-17 16:00:08 · 28 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're overanalyzing.
As for the first guy, he probably stares at any pretty girl he sees. As for the second guy, once you've known each other for a couple of months and only talked once, it can be awkward to suddenly start up a conversation, at that point. Maybe he's as shy as you. It sounds like he's interested in you; start the conversation yourself. Just make some small talk: there must be something random you can find to comment on.
2007-01-17 16:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by crazyhorseavi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably overanalyzing. don't think that just because you make eye contact with a guy, he won't talk of look at you anymore. when it comes to guys, i'm shy too, but sometimes you just have to put yourself out there and talk to the guy. that guy who you've talked to once probably finds it weird to give a great big hello to you everytime you walk by since you have only talked once. one day when you guys are going to the same place or are in the elevator together, just make small talk. that will get his attention and if he's intrested, he'll do the rest of the work.
2007-01-17 16:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only one word for you: R E L A X.
Don't overdo it. Guys keep looking at girls all the time even if they are not pretty. There are so many things in life, don't give too much importance to eye-contacts and blah. When your time will come you will find your love and so many eye-contacts. Be friendly and enjoy life.
2007-01-17 16:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first guy could also be shy or think that you are actually disgusted at him (like he was a pervet for looking at you) because you looked away without saying anything.
the second guy might also like you but since you are shy and do not talk to him he thinks you are not interested but admires him from afar.
but then again maybe you are just over analyzing after all isn't it polite to look at someone (not ignore them) when they enter a room. there is a fine line between looking and starring.
2007-01-17 16:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably overanalyzing... don't take glances too seriously. You should just try to be assertive and make eye contact more often to test the waters, or better yet, find a reason to start a conversation with those hotties.
2007-01-17 16:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by BB Gun 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife has a single friend who does something similar...overanalyze everything. All guys look at her, and want to be with her. All single guys want her, but are intimidated.
Look, if you're interested in a guy, go talk to him. You don't have to throw yourself at him...just be down to earth, easy going, and approahable.
You don't "know" a guy for a couple months if you've only spoken once. Go talk to him.
2007-01-17 16:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I find a girl very attractive (I mean, attractive in every way, not just hot), I don't seem to be able to do anything but try to make eye contact with her...I feel really dumb every time, actually...As if this girl is suddenly going to fall in love with me once she sees that I'm looking at her...Pff! I dunno, when I'm really attracted to someone, I just feel like diving in her eyes and letting myself drown. It might take lots of time before we get to talk....Maybe I'm just waiting for her to come up to me and say "hey, I noticed you we're looking at me", wich would then give me an opportunity to tell her how attractive she is. Maybe that's all these guys need.
2007-01-17 16:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pipi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by crossland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short my friend, its time to start making a move. Slop or no slop. Next time he aproaches you throw everything at him. There is nothing to loose except pride and dignity. But there is a good chance he'll say Yes! I know I will.
2007-01-17 16:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.as i guy we look at women all the time.some times we see you,and some times we don't.some times it take years to finally notice that what we want to see in a women.is right there in front of us.like that old saying goes(love is blind).if you like this person?honesty is the best policy.make an effert to make him really see you.god bless you!
2007-01-17 16:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋