Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

Humorous, Nice, Wise, Talented, or Tough? And why?

2007-01-17 16:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay...girls what are the top ten things(in reality)that you'd want your man to do(including travel)thats romantic?

2007-01-17 16:21:30 · 26 answers · asked by The Last Redneck Soxfan 2 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 21 years old. I am a junior in college. This freshman asked me out for coffee. He is really sweet and nice but is it weird for an upperclassman to date a underclassman? I don't know. What do you think?

2007-01-17 16:20:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got dumped, well it has been an onagain offagain relationship for a while....anyway, I had his baby, she is 5 months old now....but since I won't let him get his way because he doesn't seem committed, he just told me he wants nothing more to do with me and wants to date other women. I feel hurt by this, yet I know it's gotta be for the best?!! Someone give me some advice please ....

2007-01-17 16:19:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Disagreements...everyone has them. My fiance and I have some as well, and we usually do a good job of resolving them, but even after the disagreement is over, there's still some tension between us for a little while. How do you get rid of this tension quickly?

2007-01-17 16:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My husband and I are planning to divorce. He said that he wants the baby to live with me and he will give me a child support check. He said he also wants to be allowed to see him or visit him when the time is right. But he still wants to have some custody, so he'll be known as the father. What legal term is this?

2007-01-17 16:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by mommy2be031207 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many people are out there who have divorced their exe's, after a long marriage, or are aged in their fifties and single, who completely understand why many unhappy marriages are still together.
The alternatives are no fun, the loss of income, home, the children supporting one parent or the other, after being used to large get togethers at holidays, now finding yourself alone, coming home to an empty house, not comfortable accepting support offered from married friends who are busy with their own families, listening to work colleagues talk about their families, husbands when they have no idea what a struggle being a single mother can be, or a single person having to do everything themselves around the home with absolutely no-one else to help.
The worst by far is the loneliness.
I am not saying that marriages where there is abuse should still stay together, but I can understand why women in particular, stay in an unhappy marriage.
What do others feel about this?

2007-01-17 16:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy at my school have been haveing this thing where we both like each other and we're always watching each other and we flirt and always try to see what the other person is doing. one problem- we've never talked to each other. i'm way to shy and so is he so this just keeps going on and on. it's been going on since the begining of the school year. how long do you think this will go on??

2007-01-17 16:17:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 16:16:55 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 16:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by MattyG 3 in Singles & Dating

I said physical, not mental, in case you didn't catch that the first time.

2007-01-17 16:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by MattyG 3 in Friends

my boyfreinds best freinds always flirts with me and my boyfreind won't do anything about it

2007-01-17 16:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jen Bug <3 2 in Singles & Dating

i really liked that guy from the first day that i saw him . he is reallly pure i can see it . i don't know wethar he likes me or not he was looking alot on me today . i didn't give that much attention coz i don't trust any one any more i try to kill my feelings as quick as possible mabe he is just loooking at somebody else or something . what should i do

2007-01-17 16:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Singles & Dating

me went to my wifes 25 bday at her parents.. it was a good night but about 2 am my wife had to go to bed . her father was already asleep he went before 12 . everyone else was gone. so my mother inlaw and i kept drinking. we jumped in the pool laughed and joked. but then it happened yes we made love. my wife is a bit upset but understands that we were drunk at it was a spur of the thing. but he won't let me near the house.how can i explain to him im sorry i made a terrible mistake

2007-01-17 16:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by conan 4 in Singles & Dating

how can I help him through the next weeks, month? He wants to be clean, and is miserable going through it in front of me- but I just want him well. What can be done to ease this process- cause it is terrible for him even though he is weaning off the drug slowly? He doesn't sleep, is grouchy, jumpy, has leg cramps, emotional, can't stand noise, etc...

2007-01-17 16:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 16:12:25 · 1 answers · asked by anthony f 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys never ask me out because they think I'm not interested, intimidating or totally unattractive? Or am I just misreading signals? I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend! (serious answers only)

2007-01-17 16:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MORE AND MORE GROWN MEN LIVING WITH THEIR MOTHERS AND MORE AND MORE MOTHERS REFUSING TO LET GO OF THIER GROWN SONS. I HAVE BEEN IN A 9 YEAR RELATIONSHIP HOPING THAT THIS PERSON WOULD EVENTUALLY GROW UP.....THE OTHER DAY HIS MOM SAYS THAT THEY ARE MOVING INTO A SMALLER HOUSE BECAUSE IT WAS JUST THE TWO OF THEM AND THEY DIDNT NEED THAT MUCH ROOM!!!!! IM LIKE ???!!!! WTF? ME AND THIS GUY HAVE A 7 YEAR OLD CHILD! IM DONE WITH THAT MONKEY BUSINESS....I JUST WANT TO KNOW IF I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICES THIS. ALL OF HIS FRIENDS (SOME EVEN 40 YEARS OLD) STILL LIVE AT HOME......IN THE ROOM EVEN!!!!!

2007-01-17 16:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by goldie 4 in Family

As of now iam a 14 year old boy living with his mother in a small town in CA. My parents are divorced and i visit my dad in seattle ever summer and winter. I want to live with my dad in seattle (Kent WA.) but my mom doesnt want me to my dad has tried to talking to the attorny about it but he said we would most likely lose the case. My dads house is so much better than my moms house and the conditions are better for me. Currently my plan was to wait till i was 18 and soon as senior year is over i will move up with my dad and to go to college. But recently ive had thoughts of running away once i get my drivers licence. What should i do?

2007-01-17 16:11:32 · 8 answers · asked by Thelonewarrior 2 in Friends

that they would be fantastic in bed? Not that you want to marry them, date them or have any kind of 'extra' affair--you just see them and KNOW they would be awesome in bed!

2007-01-17 16:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't think i am happiness that i find my another side. do you know why i sent her back home ? the night before sent her back home. i knew the detail of that many many guys were plan to send her back too. she said she would escape .....because many guys wanna send her back home. i knew a truth :" there are many guys chased her ,including our alleged teachers , alumnis , her boyfriend , her former classmates ..... "
so i was so worried about it . if at beginning of the love to her i knew the truth ,i think i won't love her . because i don't wanna "join war" , a war caused by a woman . but it was so late .... i complain about myself. since that night ,i hard to sleep ....really !!!! well , i woke up earily every morning ,then thought of her...and the related matters ... /i want to tell you i am be mad..
at first i only knew she back home , i didn't know she would go to her boyfriend's school for her birthday. she explain it to me . her boyfriend requested her to celebrate her birthday. many people in our school saw me waiting at that morning in the rain . they said i was so stupid.... when they knew she go to her boyfriend's school ...they said " Anqi ,you're the most stupid guy !! " , you don't worth to loving her . i never mind . perhaps it's a mistake. many people stress the "contain" , but they never come it ture . i contain the everythings .
i don't know how to do . i went to bed at 7 P.M , then got up at 3 A.M / becase i was so sad ,i wanna forget the pain ,and why got up earily ,...because i hard to sleep ..... i even dream of the " dead " , i know those can't resolve evethings.
yesterday , she got sick .i went to hospital for prescribe....i ordered my female classmate deliver my drug... she was very very disappoint at me ,she sadi " Anqi ,you're so so stupid " . i trun another side ,then went back my suite . i
i even hard to eat .... i told myself ....
i sent messages to her ....she said " Anqi ,you're the best man in the world , but i hard to accept your love " . we quarreled..... i fell into sleep . i thought of my future ,my parents , my life , my mood ....i think i should give up right now . although i am so so love her . i have to .at 2 A.M , i woke up ..i saw the messages , she make apologize to me . she realize my love ....but hard to accept . ok , in my heart i really don't feel so comfortable , since i knew the truth ....
i said i would disappear in the world soon without take beckon to her ,and everone in my school . she sadi she will give me the best bless....she will remember me forever ... i cry ...hardly .... i know i always cry sadly, hardly those days .
ok , everythings is over , hey guy " game over "
i know she is very very very nive girl ,you hard to find another...... she said she won't hurt anyone ......, especial her boyfriend , although her boyfriend is not good . she is very very appreciate my ability ,my personality. i told her " can you transfer those into love " " can those be usefull ? " , oh ...no !!

what can i do ? how to do .? although she hurt me badly, i still love ...... although love is not so nice .
i want to save myself from the painfull .......
hey ,if you're my friend , i hope get your precious poinion. ....


take care
anqi wong

2007-01-17 16:10:16 · 2 answers · asked by waq741953 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got a good friend that I know online and I have totally run out of ideas on what to do for his birthday this year.

Anyone got any ideas? :)

The only catch is it needs to be something that can be emailed or photographed.

2007-01-17 16:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Your Highness 7 in Friends

Today I accepted a date, although I have came out of a long relationship...getting back together isn't an option.
My date tells me he loved me for years, personally I never realize it..till today.
I still have feelings for my last bf, I just don't want to muck this new relationship up.
i'm also nervous cause he wants me to go to his house to have a chat with his mum, last time i spoke to her..she was asking us to get married duh!!! and i was with my ex back than.
Any help would be nice, thank you

2007-01-17 16:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He makes fun of me for no reason and expects me to not do anything about it. I talk back at him and he claims I take everything up the butt. Now many other people don't like him for this same exact reason. Why does he do this? Should I just stop being his friend entirely? I'm afraid if I talk to him about it, he'll just make fun of me in front of my other friends for it. He's one of those people that turn serious subjects into something to be joked about. Like making fun of Steve Irwin for being dead. Should I just punch him and walk away, or talk to him hoping he'll understand? Should I fight fire with fire and call him fat, sweaty, dirty, ugly, etc.?(he is all those things legitimately.)

2007-01-17 16:08:19 · 3 answers · asked by J 3 in Friends

i have a good friend who only tells her story half way, i feel that i have to push for more details all the time, is that normal? she is a secretive person, quiet and sometimes shy...e.g. i say to her ''how is your day'', she said ''ok, i went somewhere its great''... is that normal?

2007-01-17 16:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Something that everyone appreciates. Either wild, righteous, lovely, generous, or whatever...

2007-01-17 16:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me went to my wifes 25 bday at her parents.. it was a good night but about 2 am my wife had to go to bed . her father was already asleep he went before 12 . everyone else was gone. so my mother inlaw and i kept drinking. we jumped in the pool laughed and joked. but then it happened yes we made love. my wife is a bit upset but understands that we were drunk at it was a spur of the thing. but he won't let me near the house.how can i explain to him im sorry i made a terrible mistake

2007-01-17 16:05:57 · 13 answers · asked by conan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl who hooked up with alot of people be able to tell if it is your first time kissing? What are some common 1st timer mistakes?

2007-01-17 16:04:37 · 19 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Singles & Dating

and we were going out for 6 weeks and 5 days then one day he called and said he didnt want to see me anymore and he didnt have feelings for me and i still havent gotten over it and he already has a new gf and stuff and i know people who like me but i dont feel the same way about them as i do as my ex what do i do?

2007-01-17 16:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by tinkerbell_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

after marriage what's inlows creat problen.why give drory gorls parents.i they will not give drory after that what will happen.

2007-01-17 16:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by leestar_1 2 in Family