Disagreements...everyone has them. My fiance and I have some as well, and we usually do a good job of resolving them, but even after the disagreement is over, there's still some tension between us for a little while. How do you get rid of this tension quickly?
2007-01-17 16:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that the longer you guys are together, the easier it gets. I've been married for 9+ years, and we've had our share of disagreements. We just try to move one. Sometimes one of us uses a bit of humor to move on...that really helps.
Good luck
2007-01-17 16:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people that "get rid of it quickly" are awesome actors. Trust me. My acting skills have become awesome since I have gotten married. Yes, I do genuinely forgive him. However, I definitely appear OK a lot sooner than I really am. You might think this is being dishonest. However, can you imagine how long a recovery period from a fight could last if we don't? I feel it helps me move on faster too.
2007-01-18 00:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may not be a quick way. Just maybe go outside or part from him for just a little while and then try to carry own as usual if you've reached a resolution. No need to start the subject up again.
2007-01-18 00:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree you disagree on the issue.
Get out your opinions on the issue (harbouring them will lead to resentment) and listen to the other perspective.
If you agree to disagree, and respect your differences, the tension will soon pass.
If you have having frequent arguments or they are about the same (big) issues, perhaps you need to make sure there is not something deeper or more complicated going on.
2007-01-18 00:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you! I don't know? I just asked a similar question about the "silent treament" I'm getting right now. I hate this feeling don't you? Some say make up sex is best.
2007-01-18 00:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and, if possible, discussion after the height of anger and emotion subsides. I'd say time is the biggest factor though.
2007-01-18 00:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just agree to disagree and move on.It takes time to settel anything in our minds,so just allow that time.Things will fall into place again.But give each other time.than it"ll be fine.
2007-01-18 00:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by cynsshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss and make up or do something fun together to help get your mind off of it.... Forgiveness is key too!
2007-01-18 00:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be accountable for your actions & learn to let go.
2007-01-18 00:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on boxing gloves and duke it out, or take a hot shower together.
2007-01-18 00:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋