me and this guy at my school have been haveing this thing where we both like each other and we're always watching each other and we flirt and always try to see what the other person is doing. one problem- we've never talked to each other. i'm way to shy and so is he so this just keeps going on and on. it's been going on since the begining of the school year. how long do you think this will go on??
2007-01-17 16:17:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If one of you doesn't make a move, the other may eventually think the other isn't REALLY interested and get discouraged and move on. The sooner you start seeing each other the sooner you will know whether or not you will be compatible.
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2007-01-17 16:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school I was in the same situation, as I got older it got a lot easier :P because being with guys has become a common thing. The only way to fix your problem is to be brave and tell him, most people will probably say tell him to his face and be honest but I never saw any harm in a note ;) it involves less confrontation .. good luck!
2007-01-18 00:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya never know, maybe he is waiting a response from you. You can always do the ole note thing...and see what happens. Apparently you both like each other, so someone has to break the ice so go for it!! What's the worst that can happen??? Good Luck!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!
2007-01-18 00:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by ?only?me? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh i'm going through the same thing. just talk to him. you guys flirt and like each other. so what if you're shy! if all the scary stuff is out of the way, what's stopping you. you don't need to ask him out but just give him the hint that you really like him and it's okay if he asks you out. its okay to put yourself out there and go for it as hard as that sounds.
if you can't talk to him yourself, you can always tell one of your friends to pass it on to one of his to pass it on to him. its not as direct or reliable but at least it get the point across.
2007-01-18 00:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot say anything, you can have a friend speak for you. Just make sure that he knows that it is you that is interested.
Long ago I had the same problem and he had a friend ask me if I liked him. I thought that his friend was making a bad joke on me and walked away.
I still regret not saying anything to him myself. Who knows were it would of lead.
2007-01-18 00:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go on until one of you gets the courage up to talk to the other or one or both of you gets a crush on someone else.
2007-01-18 00:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for as long as you both waste time trying to build up some confidence
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2007-01-18 00:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction like this will continue until someone cuter comes along
2007-01-18 00:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
untill you get the guts to talk to him..guys like when a girl makes the 1st move
2007-01-18 00:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it takes you and friend have a whole life time to get involved only time and God will provide the right one for you
2007-01-18 00:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by cdd407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋