Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

Ok. here are the details. there is this beautiful girl in my math and i kinda like her ALOT. she is a very shy girl and doesnt have that many friends. she is constantly looking in my direction. i'd try to talk to her but every time i try i get nervous and walk away. i talk to other pretty girls and i don't have a problem. can you help me out with this problem.

2007-01-17 15:44:29 · 10 answers · asked by Lord Ultimate 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 15:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by what ever ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is the meanest person. she gets mad at everything! i lost total respect for her. she lies, is two faced, shes fake, closed minded. she"ll hear something and take it the wrong way and change what i said. she is too close with her side of the family and she tells them EVERYTHING WE DO! she doesnt work, and whenever she gets mad she just LEAVES to her family for a couple days and doesnt answer her phone! shes call me every bad name u can ever think of and she acts like that with my older brother too! its a whole different story with my 7 year old brother though, shes like in love with him and tells him bad things like " u have to love your mother more than ur dad '' and she gets jealous of my dad because my older brother and i get along with so well him so well, we talk to him about everything. and my mom says that we're closer to him because he " buys our love" how Ridiculous is that!? i just cannot stand her. i got in a fight with her and now i want NOTHING TO DO WITH HER EVER!

2007-01-17 15:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by N 4 in Family

Well I hang out with her on weekdays for like a few hours just chillin and talkin but it doesnt seem like shes interested in me. We're just casual friends at the momment. Should I make my move anyways?

2007-01-17 15:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by Chris J 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it bad for a woman to have many lovers?

2007-01-17 15:43:55 · 3 answers · asked by crct2004 6 in Singles & Dating

Why is she getting away with it? I'm tired of this?
Pops passed away a few years ago and mom bought a new house.Mom, my grand mother(who is bedrideen and blind),me, my brother and my sister in law live in the same house.Mom allowed me to move in the meantime until i find myself an apartment since im new in the area.Cant wait to move out!!! My sister in law fakes alot,she prenteds to faint, be weak, be very sick.We took her to the hospital numerous times & doctors said she had nothing. But she keeps faking it. She also doesn't want to help out around the house. All we ask his that she cleans the kitchen and dishes. She rarely does it. She claims to do all the work, when in reality i am. I take care of mom, granny( wash and change her and feed her). I cook souper for mom, granny and I. I clean half of the house.The top part were we are.I take out the garbage,look after mom since she has health problem and cant do much work with her knees and back probls. Why is my sister in law getting

2007-01-17 15:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I like this guy, but he doesn't like me. He always ignores me & I really feel ashamed about me liking him...he's totally hott and I'm totally ugly.He's really popular & I'm not. I'm friends with the girl he supposedly likes, but she doesn't like him that way, & she tells me she feels bad about him liking her & him ignoring me very much of the time. I'm not mad at her at all, i don't know why though. I never really feel anything emotional except that I love that guy. My chances of ever getting with him are most likely 0%. I need to know any possible ways of getting him to like me w/ out changing myself completely. The 8th grade dance is coming up in Feb. but im not going & i don't know if he's going to it w/ anyone.
My goal is to change myself as much as i need to and hopefully get him to like me at least a little. I ned all the tips & tricks you can come of with...stuf that WORKS. serious answers only, please. I know it's pretty much hopeless, but I have a little hope

2007-01-17 15:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I went out with this guy but then I told my friend 2 tell him that it was just a joke but she didnt n so the nest morning I told him that it was just a joke n he said I know and so we broke pu but he's been starting 2 flirt with me AGAIN! But I want 2 b friends with him n I am not sure if I want 2 get back 2gether n 2day when I was walking outside he's all like sumng sumng hugz ! But I just ignored him! Now what should I do ??? Oh n yestesday this 1 grl asked him out n he said no ! but 2day my friend told me that he keeps asking her 4 the girls phone number that asked him out so r they going out r wat ? n so if he is going out wit that 1 grl then y is he flirting with me ?

2007-01-17 15:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

you want to be with them, but they dón't excise, only eats fatty crap, is it ok to divorce them later if they fall ill because they didn't care?

2007-01-17 15:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have had this huge crush on my friend since august and i have yet to tell him. I cant ever get him off my mind. Everytime we hang out, which is usually about once a month we start expressing sexual behavior towards one another. we've never done anything except kiss. We hung out a couple nights ago and we almost had sex but he stopped. He;s hesistant to do anything because he got out of a bad relationship over a year ago. He has not dated anybody since then. I asked him why he expresses sexual behavior toward me and he told me that im attractive and he knows that im a good girl and he asked me why i did it and i just told him i thought he was cool. i didnt tell him i liked him. I also asked him why he hasnt dated anyone and he said that he just hasnt met anyone that blew him away yet. oh and Im also the first girl that he has kissed since his bad relationship and that he kinda messed around with. I just dont know if i should tell him or not?

2007-01-17 15:41:28 · 3 answers · asked by ang0487 1 in Singles & Dating

what other girl thinks jacob smith is maybe a lil cute... maybe a lot i just need to know cause, i think he is and, plezz dont be a smart butt cause i just wanted to ask i know it isn't important ... i just wanted to know what other girls think jacob smith is cute and does any of you know if there is going to be a cheaper by the dozen3..........
;-).....Bye, plezz answer but dont make a stupid joke or any thing like that plezz i just want a straight answer plezz thats all im asking for................;-) bye

2007-01-17 15:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 15:40:59 · 34 answers · asked by Monique 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Pops passed away a few years ago and mom bought a new house.Mom, my grand mother(who is bedrideen and blind),me, my brother and my sister in law live in the same house.Mom allowed me to move in the meantime until i find myself an apartment since im new in the area.Cant wait to move out!!! My sister in law fakes alot,she prenteds to faint, be weak, be very sick.We took her to the hospital numerous times & doctors said she had nothing. But she keeps faking it. She also doesn't want to help out around the house. All we ask his that she cleans the kitchen and dishes. She rarely does it. She claims to do all the work, when in reality i am. I take care of mom, granny( wash and change her and feed her). I cook souper for mom, granny and I. I clean half of the house.The top part were we are.I take out the garbage,look after mom since she has health problem and cant do much work with her knees and back probls. Why is my sister in law getting away with this? what is her problem?!

2007-01-17 15:39:16 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Bad traits? If someone you knew had these traits and you wanted to help them see that it wasn't a healthy way to live and when you do try to talk to them they say, "Butt out, or I don't want to talk about it"?

Traits:
1) Impatient
2) Not appreciative of what they have, takes things for granted.
3) Complains
4) Talks mean and hateful behind peoples back.

Thanks :)

2007-01-17 15:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by LS 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm asking because my husband never wanted me to go anywhere because of his insecurity. Because he thought I would do something stupid like he once did. I never had confidence in him because he cheated on me before and yes stupid of me, I forgave him. Anyways he asked me to go visit his family in Mexico and I ended up staying 3 weeks. I had so much fun with his mom and when I came back my confidence in him was back and I knew he didn't cheat, but now it's been a month after I came back and when I went to go take him a coke to his work there was this girl who just kept looking at him and at me. I didn't say anything about her, but had this smile I just don't trust. Would you have cheated on your wife or girlfriend if you had a serious relationship if you had the opportunity? Would you tell her if she was already asking you about it? Please let me know how could I tell if he cheated on me or if he is cheating on me?

2007-01-17 15:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by shy_gal2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

biosexual is alot nowadays so i wanna knw ur opinion on making love wiz them when you are sexually straight

2007-01-17 15:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by sara e 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 8 years and have a 3 yr old. He was my first everything and I got married at 21 years old. I feel as if I never loved him the way a wife should love her husband. There is no connection, chemistry, passion. My child's future is what concerns me the most and that is why I am hesitant. We thought about getting separated...but does it really help? I am at a point where I love it when he is NOT home and I dont have to deal.

2007-01-17 15:38:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this girl for about 4 months and we seem to be becoming pretty good friends (i don't mean romanticaly, we are the same gender and we are straight; just a normal friendship). I would really like to get together w/ her outside of school, but I don't know what would be a good thing to do for our first time actually getting together OUTSIDE of school. something casual, maybe seeing a movie or something? and how do i ask her if she wants to get together w/out it being totally random? i only have 1 class w/ her and we talk a lot in there, but i don't know how to bring up getting together w/ her. suggestions on how to ask and where to go so that we won't feel uncomfortable but rather we'll get to know eachother a little better.

2007-01-17 15:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Friends

Andrew is 17 years old, should he date 16 yo Crystal who is half Indian half Mexican, gives him oral love, and has an attitude. Melina, who is a cute 15yo blonde that would give oral love, and seems to be a sweetie, or Kaitilin who is 17yo, is kind of chubby, but absolutely adores him and treats him like a king?

2007-01-17 15:36:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i work with this girl she is a beautiful women and i kinda like her but when i get around girls i act stupid and i stumble on my words. i want to ask her for her number but i'm to chicken to do it how do i ask her with out soundingodd or anything how should i go about this. please help me

2007-01-17 15:36:49 · 4 answers · asked by biker116823 1 in Singles & Dating

alright well i don't want to seem shallow or anything and i would just like other's opinions on what you would do if you were me

i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and since we started going out he's gained 25 lbs which has gone mainly to his stomach. and he doesn't last that long in bed. and he's gotten a little bit lazy when it comes to his job. i love him so i don't really want to break up, but what would you guys do? i talked to him and he said he's going to make it all better but still.........?

i don't know..just was wondering what everyone else thought.

2007-01-17 15:36:40 · 2 answers · asked by *princess* 4 in Singles & Dating

really! im not kidding. i had some people asking for my number while i was reading a cook book!!!!

2007-01-17 15:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The institution of marrage in the west is on the decline, or so it would seem to many. Less people are getting married. Those that do marry are devorcing more often. More couples are living together without the benifit of marrage. There are those who would expand the very definition of marrage to the point it losses all its meaning.

So in other words, If marrage were to cese to exist which gender would have the most to lose?

What do you think?

2007-01-17 15:36:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guess answer ,he /she is genius

2007-01-17 15:36:06 · 4 answers · asked by HeartBeats 1 in Family

my friend is hard of hearing and she always had trouble finding a boyfriend. she's pretty, honet and a great girl but guys didn;t want her when they noticed she doesn't hear very well and talks a little funny. well she met this guy who is good looking and they're together for 2 years. the only problem is that he drinks everyday, he tells her she's stupid, that he's embaressed to go in public with her and sometimes is violent. she always goes back to him though 'cause she thinks she won't find anyone better because she's hard of hearing. it's her first boyfriend. i makes me sad seeing all this but is there anything i can do? i feel as if i talk to her about it she won't listen to me and i might losea friend

2007-01-17 15:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out with this guy for almost 3 weeks and hes SOOOO SWEET most of the time but then theres just times when hes so mean it scares me hell yell and stuff over the stupidest things. I THINK hes bipolar but idk, what sould i do ? i really dont want to leave him cause i like him alot...

2007-01-17 15:35:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy are good friends who (I think) have been "flirting" recently. Our recent convo consists of him tellin me he turned down a girl he was "interested" in because of some excuse, he'd say things to purposely make me jealous (cute), have little hints in there saying "ohh yeah since i'm your boyfriend..." or "it's cute when girls call in the morning..just so you'd know." of course, i would give him some playful, "mean" attitude - keep givin him more mind games. Today, i texted him early morning to tell him some news concerning campus schedule and told me someone else "told him before me" - i answered back saying, "he wasn't the only one i notified" then he responded saying, "oh at least i got a phone call early this morning". Soooo is he doing this because
he :
1.might me interested in me
2. likes the other girl but playing out his game and flirting on me
3. is "threatening" me so i can make a move on him?

2007-01-17 15:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend is 19 and recently started university and i am 36 and in full time work.
She split up with me on 3rd January this year.
Reason we split is i said something hurtful she cant get over and others.
I have been off work Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday this week and I met her on Sunday at 6pm and - apart from going to uni - we have been with each other solidly since (she in my bed now as i type this).
We have had enjoyable days doing not much (although I have suggested things, shes been happy chillin).
We have slept together each night also.
Because I still find her sexy (and also because shes been sleeping topless because she says shes been warm) and she me, we have had sex a few times initiated by me over the last few days.
Tonight, she said she couldnt sleep at mine ever again cos she felt strange after the last time we had sex.
I asked her to stay here which shes agreed to do (she doesnt do anything less she wants to) as long as we dont have sex.
Whats going on?

2007-01-17 15:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or should she wear an off white or beige.

2007-01-17 15:31:34 · 22 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think its ok to have sex with someone and to feel like a woman and passionate? or do you think that you should wait?

2007-01-17 15:31:33 · 1 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Singles & Dating