Ive been going out with this guy for almost 3 weeks and hes SOOOO SWEET most of the time but then theres just times when hes so mean it scares me hell yell and stuff over the stupidest things. I THINK hes bipolar but idk, what sould i do ? i really dont want to leave him cause i like him alot...
2007-01-17 15:35:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful. If you think he is bi-polar you never know when things could go bad. I would advise you to break up with him. Of course he is SWEET because he was soooooooooooooooo NASTY. Ugh. Be careful if you don't break up!! Either way is tough!!
2007-01-21 09:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by winslow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for some tough love, honey. So here goes:
1. IT'S ONLY BEEN THREE WEEKS AND IF HE'S ACTING BIPOLAR NOW, HE'LL ACT THAT WAY 3 YEARS FROM NOW.
2. YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THE GUY TO LIKE HIM EVEN A LITTLE. 3 WEEKS IS A WALK IN THE PARK IN THE REAL WORLD.
3. LEAVE HIM ALONE BEFORE THE YELLING TURNS INTO REAL VIOLENCE AND YOU'LL BE ASKING US IF YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE JUST BLACKED BOTH YOUR EYES AND BROKE YOUR NOSE.
I weep for the youth...honestly. I don't say that as an insult,
because I have a young daughter and if she ever came to me and told me her boyfriend is yelling at her, he'd be one dead bf
because my daughter would be the one to do the killing, not me,
because I would've raised her with a backbone, like I was. If he's
displaying abusive behavior now, he'll keep on doing it.
2007-01-17 15:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly if u love him then no count number what absolutely everyone says you will stay. element is while you're actually not chuffed now you may desire to leave now earlier issues get gradually worse down the line ( and that i'm not speaking few months, think of years.. 10 years for say) once you recognize that he hasn't replaced, verbally abused you and you spend the time questioning if it is all you deserve, yet you do not leave because of the fact you have been with him for thus long.. Youre dropping time you could desire to be chuffed and enjoyed by somebody else.
2016-10-07 08:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by armiso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes already being mean after only three weeks YOU NEED TO RUN, not walk away from this guy. if you stay with him he wont learn how to treat you any better. if after you leave him and he understands why you left you could give him another chance, but the second he acts wrong, leave again. either he'll like you enough to change or he isnt worth it. at all. good luck.
2007-01-17 15:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who's more important - you or him? Anytime you feel scared or in danger of any threat in your life, do yourself the favor and LEAVE...what's gonna happen if you don't? If you don't like the way he treats you, then stop complaining and leave - if you like him alot, then stay - just don't complain because this is your choice - just know that there are plenty of other boys that are worthy of you and will treat you like a princess - don't settle for less.
2007-01-17 15:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say hit the ground running - listen to small signs like this, because they will become bigger and bigger and you'll see them more and more often as time goes by. I sooooo wish I was wrong here, but I wish someone had told me this before. I am now separated because I didn't pay attention to this signs.
Take care.
2007-01-17 15:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by paula c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's only been three weeks and he's already showing the scarey side of him. I would run so fast. HOney, it's only a fling. there are better guys out there for you without the bipolar. =) Trust me.
2007-01-17 15:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's mean after only 3 weeks, just imagine what it'll be like in a few more weeks. Leave him before you get hurt.
2007-01-17 15:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE WILL ONLY TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU LET THEM. IF HE SCARES YOU.....I THINK YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. THERE SHOULD BE NO FEAR IN A RELATIONSHIP.....SWEET OR NOT.
2007-01-17 15:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him see if you guys can work it out...
if you can't work it out and he scares you now then he will always scarer you dnd that is not good for you or him and its no way to live!!!
lol
2007-01-17 15:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by redstar_net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋