I'm asking because my husband never wanted me to go anywhere because of his insecurity. Because he thought I would do something stupid like he once did. I never had confidence in him because he cheated on me before and yes stupid of me, I forgave him. Anyways he asked me to go visit his family in Mexico and I ended up staying 3 weeks. I had so much fun with his mom and when I came back my confidence in him was back and I knew he didn't cheat, but now it's been a month after I came back and when I went to go take him a coke to his work there was this girl who just kept looking at him and at me. I didn't say anything about her, but had this smile I just don't trust. Would you have cheated on your wife or girlfriend if you had a serious relationship if you had the opportunity? Would you tell her if she was already asking you about it? Please let me know how could I tell if he cheated on me or if he is cheating on me?
2007-01-17 15:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by shy_gal2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really wanna know how to tell? If you think he did, he did. Go with your gut feeling on this one.
2007-01-17 15:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/GDCSv
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 17:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is another level of cheating called EMOTIONAL infidelity. Even if he did not sleep with her, if he was intimate with her in other ways, that could stilll be considered cheating to some (me).
If you think that he cheated with this co worker, or whomever, look for proof.
Check his cellphone.
Send him flowers at work tell the florist to release NO DETAILS of the sender (but dont sign the card...this will piss the chick off...and when your boyfriend asks you did you send them deny it at first and see how he acts)
look for other signs...is he home later than usual etc.
All that is done it he dark will come to the light
2007-01-17 15:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-24 23:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i definetly would not cheat. it is only 3 weeks. i am married and i do not believe in cheating at all, no matter what, who, or how long. i am in iraq right now. i have been over here 6 months already and i have not cheated once, not has my wife.
2007-01-17 18:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how young are both of you?
let me see
if he once cheated..
and you forgave him.... ( bad mistake )
and then you leave him alone for 3 weeks
3 w e e k s....
a lot can happen in 3 w e e ks
yup he cheated
and is probaly still cheating
2007-01-17 15:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
when i went on a vacation once, came home, husband acted so different, didn't act happy to see me, found out while i was gone, the other woman was in my home, in my bed, and eventually stole my husband. he had the opportunity, and decided to do it.
2007-01-17 15:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband would most certainly cheat on you again because you have taught him that he can get away with it & you will always take him back.
2007-01-17 15:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are asking for confirmation on human Nature not being fickle ,history will prove you wrong
all depends on the level of integrety of the people concerned and how much they love and respect their wives
and then taking into consideration opertunity and hormones
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your guess is as good as any
2007-01-17 15:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can't really tell you how to tell if he is cheating on you, if you think he is then chances are he is
i would never cheat
2007-01-17 16:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋