I like this guy, but he doesn't like me. He always ignores me & I really feel ashamed about me liking him...he's totally hott and I'm totally ugly.He's really popular & I'm not. I'm friends with the girl he supposedly likes, but she doesn't like him that way, & she tells me she feels bad about him liking her & him ignoring me very much of the time. I'm not mad at her at all, i don't know why though. I never really feel anything emotional except that I love that guy. My chances of ever getting with him are most likely 0%. I need to know any possible ways of getting him to like me w/ out changing myself completely. The 8th grade dance is coming up in Feb. but im not going & i don't know if he's going to it w/ anyone.
My goal is to change myself as much as i need to and hopefully get him to like me at least a little. I ned all the tips & tricks you can come of with...stuf that WORKS. serious answers only, please. I know it's pretty much hopeless, but I have a little hope
2007-01-17 15:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I think it might be do-able.
Please, don't tell me anything along the lines of "he's not worth the trouble! if he doesn't like you- he doesn't like you!" I already understand that, & I want to at least give it a try.
Serious answers only please.
Thank you...
2007-01-17 15:45:09 · update #1
OK...Lets gown down to it.... It sounds like this boy likes what he cant have.... So act like he doesnt exist, go to the dance with your hair done looking drop dead gorgeous, you say your not pretty but you must have something good looking about you.. everyone does, so look in the mirror and find what it is, eg - it may be your ekes or your hair, why dont you get all dressed up and also make out your having the time of your life - smile, alaugh talk to everyone and dont look at him the whole night.....
Remember you have to be thinking in your head " if he doesnt want me, thats HIS bad luck not mine", make it look as though your fun and that hes missing out.... stop the lingering and the desperateness... tell everyone you dont like him you like someone else.. and then go have a good tim.. remembering that he likes what he cant have..GOOD LUCK
2007-01-17 16:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you think you're ugly? Let's start by having a little more self-confidence.
Most people aren't beautiful or gorgeous. It's
"something" in their personality that makes them attractive. People who are fun to be around are always attractive to others. Are you fun to hang out with? Do you smile and laugh a lot? It doesn't mean you have to do stupid things; you just have make others feel good about themselves and feel easy around you.
The rest will fall into place naturally. May I suggest you invite another guy to the dance?
You might have a better time! Good luck.
2007-01-17 23:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Hen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well we all know you don't want to hear the obvious so i'm going to tell you what most wouldn't want to hear. The only chance you have of getting him to like you if your going to change yourself is to make it seem like you are doing it for you give him no attention then when others start talking to you maybe he will become jealous and want what he feels everyone else wants. It's really stupid but it's how guys minds work. NEVER say that you are ugly and never let anyone make you feel like that...if you don't feel like your the prettiest that's fine but you don't deserve to feel like your ugly. You need to gain confidence in yourself before you can make any of this work.
2007-01-17 23:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_girl_allure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see you wanting him to like you... but your young ang still in 8th grade im assuming...( sorry if i missunderstood)... to start off guys are stupid and do stupid things.... give it time your mature and become more emotionally and physically atractive and he will notice what he could of had... Never change your self.... espically for a guy.. its not worth it, and the okwardness of nto being yourself would be a burden in your head at all times... change your self for you... and no one else...
~Quin.
2007-01-17 23:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Quin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What doNt You have that This other does?? Think about that fi You really wanna try then change for him, But i doubt it will work sweetie theres plenty Of fish in The sea........ And I know You dont wanna Hear it but hes probably not worth it....
2007-01-17 23:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you think middle school is rough...wait til high school. the best advice is to wait it out if you really want this guy. you have a long time still left in school so get to know him and become one of his best friends...they do make for the best lovers. but don't think that waiting for this guy to come around is the best idea. most fishermen throw out more than one line to catch a fish. be his friend...talk to him about it he what he has to say. and respect what he has to say
2007-01-18 00:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by caydizzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have confindence in yourself that itself is true beauty. a guy likes a girl who thinks there beautifull and have respent forthemselfs and have confidence. beauty is more than skin deep
2007-01-17 23:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋