what should i do?

Question

okay well me and my boyfriend are having a baby. both really excited but 2 weeks ago we got in a huge fight and he left me. moved all of his stuff out and just left. i cried and told him i want him back and im sorry and its just my hormones


well he wouldn't take it he said we'll never get back together again it just wouldn't work. we have been together for 2 years and now this.
what do i do to get him to understand that i need him and i want him and i love him. we got in a fight because he works all the time and i wanted more time w/ him

i know this may sound highschoolish and childish but i've been playing hard to get. ignoring his calls acting like i don't care and its working . he calls me now non stop and wants to hang out. but when i cried to him, and apoligized he didn't want anything to do with me

what should i do..what can i do
i don't want our child to grow up in a broken home
plus i love him w/ all my heart despite the games

he has 3 kids already

Answer 1

Okay just a few pointers from the outside view...

1. You are having a baby with a BOYFRIEND. Shouldn't you at least gotten engaged or planned to.... lol!

2. You are playing high school game with a mature subject of having a child.

USE CONDOMS DUMB DUMB!!!

ha ha ha ha

Answer 2

Well, you're going to have to weigh the options here. There are SO many issues to contemplate.

First of all, if he knows you're pregnant with his baby and is willing to break it off ... that doesn't say much for his future prospects of being a good dad anyway.

Second of all, if you two have been together for two years and all of a sudden THIS is what makes him break it off with you, then you might want to consider the fact that he may be looking for a way out now that you're pregnant.

OKAY, this is the important one. You have to consider whether your child will be better off in a single-parent home that loves and supports it, or would the child be better off in a home where the relationship between it's parents is forced because of it.

It sounds to me like neither of you were quite ready for this pregnancy, but there's not much you can do for it now. My advice is to get through the pregnancy on your own. When that baby is born, and you're holding it in your arms ... you'll know what TRUE LOVE is. Then you can decide if that is how you feel about your boyfriend.

I don't think it's meant to be though. I'll put it this way ... when I found out my wife was pregnant, it was the happiest day in my life. I wouldn't have left her side for ANYTHING. I went to every appointment that I could, read every book I could and took care of her in every way I knew how.

You two may not be married, but if you're thinking of being parents together, he should feel that way about you. The fact that he was able to leave so easily does not bode well.

Answer 3

Well, it sounds kinda final, hon.
Sounds like not such a good start...
I'd never take my son back, or give him up now...
but I think my kid might have been better off had I given him up. His dad never signed for him (for five years), so it would have been easy to say I didn't know who the dad was and turn the boy over.
Of course I didn't. And it's a long story, but he's got it hard already. At 12 years old, he's half child, half old man.
So, just think about adoption, OK?

Answer 4

you need to ask your self the question if he was so happy with
this then why would he leave you after a arugument, something
is up, and the fact that you have try to talk to him about this
and he want nothing to do with you, something is not quite righrt
after 2 years together. i would let take this slow and try to work
something out for the child sake but it sound like he may be look
ing for a way out despite what he saying . his actions is
speakiing loud you just may not want to hear what he saying.