I am in need of some tips on things to do on a date, things to talk about, ect.. I've never been good at this kind of stuff and now that I have a girl that I'm close to I need some help.
2007-01-17 15:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by iowa_trooper911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will im going to send this to voting. Please dont just pick your answer vote for which one you truthfully think is the best. I wish I could extend this question tell sunday but I can't. The date is on Saturday night so we will see what happens.
2007-01-25 12:02:05 · update #1
Make sure you act interested in what she's saying... actually pay attention, cause... girls know when you're not listening. Don't ask her TOO many questions though cause she'll feel like you're interrogating her. And even though most women DO want to get married SOMEDAY, don't talk about it the first few dates unless she brings it up. Which she probably won't in fear of freaking you out, but just in case.
It's best to just be yourself otherwise, talk about things you like, compliment her but not on something that she could take offensively (ie: "I really like that shirt, it makes your rack look HUGE!" type of thing) Tell her she has beautiful eyes or something. Chicks really dig that stuff, even if they tell you they don't.
And dress nice. Nothing worse than a man showing up in a ripped pair of jeans and a band t-shirt (unless you're going to like... the batting cages or something)
Movies, music, sports (if she's into that), your family... basic stuff. You'll be fine. If she's already said yes to the date you don't really have much to worry about.
2007-01-17 16:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by sadlymistaken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will first of all how well do you know the girl? If you know each other through mutual friends than it's always easy to talk about them since you have an immediate connection with it. Other than that, talk about how you got to the city you live in and ask her the same. It's harder when you worry about what you are going to talk about rather than just let the conversation take it's course. We all worry about what to talk about that first date, but it'll work out
2007-01-18 00:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by jason.kreider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Get back to the basics, Chief! Forget about her being some Gorgeous Lady. She's a Friend. Talk about things that you have in common. Dump the nerves. It'll get worse, as you get older.
2007-01-18 00:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself....you want someone to like you for you right.
talk about your job or where you live your pets what you like to do ask when her birthday is where she's from what does her folks do ...just keep asking questions about her....that will let her know that you are interested in her and want to get to know her more
Good Luck
2007-01-18 00:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try Dr Phil,s books, they could help, just be yourself,if they accepted a date with you ,their somewhat interested,don't try to show off or be to cool, just be yourself and you'll be alright, have fun, good luck
2007-01-25 19:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about school,work,family and things you like such as what your favorite foods,cloths-brand wear.where you like to go and why.just relax breath once and be yourself.you be ok
2007-01-25 12:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl but if i were u i would try to be funny
2007-01-25 20:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by aznteen333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend youre a warlock. this usually makes for interesting conversation. tell her you can travel to different worlds and ask her if she wants to come. and then say no really, do you want to come.
2007-01-18 00:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋