Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

2007-01-16 03:23:23 · 19 answers · asked by kate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and for how long? is it worth it?

2007-01-16 03:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by bad b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I tactfully end the sex part but keep the friendship bit, as he is a good friend, but not really a good boyfriend. I don't want to make him hate me and I still want to see him sometimes, is this possible? Do you have a similar experience, and if so, how did it turn out.

2007-01-16 03:21:37 · 19 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 03:20:41 · 27 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

one indian guy i met on internet 8 years ago residing in dubai,i have visited him numerous times.which was long journeys from here in uk.he tells me he loves me all the time and wants to marry me my last visit in dec 06 he got his first 6 month visit visa to come see me.I even bought hes flight tickets to come to uk.he keeps promising me he will divorce his wife has he no longer loves her,but he keeps stalling saying he doesnt know how to divorce hes wife and get it done legally so he is free to marry me in uk,he is muslim can anyone help or his he a born liar xx

2007-01-16 03:20:11 · 33 answers · asked by guestxxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or are you fed up with the whole commercial thing?
I personally get caught up in it all and enjoy it.
Just wondered what other people think.

2007-01-16 03:20:02 · 20 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been chatting with this guy now for 5 months,
we really enjoy each others company.
We only have a noramal sweet conversation.
But theres this one thing, that he wants to meet me badly,
he lives in the same country i do.
But he said his gone out with 60 girls and maybe more he said!!
Not sure if he even slept with each one of them!
So i told him ''am i ur 61'',he said ''u said it''!!
So when he asked me that he wants to meet me,
i said no coz of that reason,he found it stupid and
pathetic.
He said that he's a guy and i cant blame him!!!
im a pure innocent girl dont know if i can handle a guy like that!
I wont meet him.But just want ur advice in that!

2007-01-16 03:18:49 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I separated for awhile about 4 months ago because we were arguing a lot and she moved in with her brother and his wife at the spur of the moment. We went to marriage counseling and got a lot of issues out in the open. Since then though I have this nagging feeling that she gave up and that she will leave again. I’m having a hard time trusting her when she says she won’t leave again. I also don’t trust her family since while apart she bad mouthed me to everyone (she’s no angel either). Now every time she wants to go to her brother’s or her parents want to come down, she expects me to be like “hey great”. But I’m thinking to myself “I don’t like these people. They judge me now like I’m no good for their daughter or sister”. However they don’t know the crap I had to put up with from my wife either (actually they know how she is but everyone is afraid of her outbursts so they cater to her). My wife plays the poor me role very well and because of my step daughter, she uses her as a shield to say “well it’s not good for her” even though she’s the one that starts the yelling usually! My wife’s mother even told me that my step daughter is used to the yelling from my wife but now because we’re fighting it’s not good for her daughter….so what the heck changed if she was used to her mother yelling? Now’s she’s just yelling at me. I feel like I’m getting railroaded and I don’t trust my wife’s family anymore to give her the right advice. As a matter of fact, I don’t want any part of them now since they just didn’t say to her “shut up. You’re married. Deal with it and you’re not running to us”. Now everytime I see them, I feel inferior because of the bad mouthing I got and I hate that my wife got them involved in the first place. Thing is no amount of marriage counseling is going to get rid of this feeling I have. How do I get over this and how can I trust my wife isn’t going to do something stupid like this again (even though she says she’s not)? And how do I trust that her family is giving her the right advice and not just trying to drive us apart? Also, I don’t like them so how can I politely say to my wife “I don’t like your family, you can go but I don’t want anything to do with them?” They are one of these families that put on this super family act in public then look down on you when in fact they are very abusive to each other in private. Funny thing is her family is made up of teachers, counselors, and such and it drives me nuts. They seem to be the last people who should be in these careers!

2007-01-16 03:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I decided not to go because I didn't feel like it. Of course, my friends all are at home too.

Can't go to the mall because the roads are bad and icy and there is a lot of snow outside.

2007-01-16 03:17:06 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa s 1 in Friends

2007-01-16 03:17:06 · 3 answers · asked by hottguy2011 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How was it and how old were you?

2007-01-16 03:16:06 · 22 answers · asked by retooser 4 in Singles & Dating

Someone told me "You are whole by yourself, even if you don't know it yet . You are already whole, you are complete . You were formed, created that way . You are strong and whole and have love inside you . You are loved and you are BELOVED simply because you are . Love is not only a breath away, but it is the breath inside you ." How do I learn to feel wholw by myself ? How do I learn to feel the love inside me ?

2007-01-16 03:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Sad and Single 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 03:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by Nigi-magic 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of a year and a half has recently told me that he wants to try other things( have sex with other people) and put our long term thing on hold until later on when he is ready..... i love him and he says he loves me and my heart says wait for him but my mind says leave....i dont know what to do.....this was the person that promised me forever and now im so lost and lonely.....please give me your input....should i leave or wait till he realizes that im the best thing thats ever happened to him?.......i have given this man my all and i still want to i just need to know if im being stupid if i do

2007-01-16 03:15:18 · 22 answers · asked by sexy love 3 in Singles & Dating

I really enjoy being passionate, engage in a conversation, share a few laughs together, try and be romantic before making love. Kissing to me, creates a special bonding and arousal between two. To take the time, to not rush, to mix in a variety each time, to be a bit spontaneous, a little unpredictable as well from time to time, and contstantly making eye-contact is valuable. To create a mood, arouse her, and do everything that'll put a satisfying smile on her face is orgasmic for me. For me, foreplay and afterplay is as important as the love making itself. I've been told I'm too old-fashioned or crazy. I'd like to know if some of you would agree with my idea of intimacy?

2007-01-16 03:15:12 · 26 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 03:15:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you get past the image of your wife with another guy

2007-01-16 03:14:58 · 11 answers · asked by demorider2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 03:14:36 · 10 answers · asked by jc 2 in Family

2007-01-16 03:14:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been wondering how to make my own hearts,it has to be fat,so that i can put something inside and just nice in size,not too small nor too big..coz i wanted to make it for my guy for his birthday..like,it's my heart that i'm giving it to him so it has to be special,i've surf website on the instructions of doing hearts but i can't seem to follow.

2007-01-16 03:14:14 · 2 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it ok to still be a virgin in high school ?

2007-01-16 03:14:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl has dropped some hints regarding how she likes women and would like to have an expierence with one including me. If we both agree is it cheating? And if or when this occurs will she be jealous or will I be jealous? Can a long term relationship exist under these circumstances or is it domed to fail? I care about her greatly and I don't want to lose her over satisfing some fantasies.

2007-01-16 03:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lilbear 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering and want the perspective of guys and experience from girls lol =D

2007-01-16 03:12:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl that you kinda knu likes you as more then a friend and they fell over on to their **** in front of you would you take the piss the day afta?????????

2007-01-16 03:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son will be 3 feb.11 and his father doesn't have anything to do with him and my husband now wants to adopt him im curious has anyone done this if so how long it takes and the process and about how much money.. thanks

2007-01-16 03:12:29 · 3 answers · asked by hb2008 3 in Family

Is it normal to fancy lots of other men, even when I have a lovely boyfriend?

2007-01-16 03:11:48 · 2 answers · asked by frankybavinski 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 03:11:26 · 28 answers · asked by Tai 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 03:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by mumtaz 6 in Singles & Dating

And I am 27. I am Chinese and he is British. He is married and have kids. I am single but attached. He is leaving in a few days' time and I dont know when I will see him again. Most probably, wont see him again. Not sure if he is interested in me. I am feeling upset now. What should I do?

2007-01-16 03:09:49 · 24 answers · asked by just a girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my husbands physical appearence seems to be the main hindrence of our unstable relation ship.he is very short ,divorcee,and 17 years older than me.he is now 47.we have no children.i avoided to have children because iam confusedof my relationship and not sure whether i could be able to adjust in it of i will divorce him.
we always remain apart for 1 to 2 years after severe quarrels.
now also iam living away from him since 2 years.
what should i do .iam afraid to take any decision .marriage mean every thing to me but the circumstances made me to take such steps.
he is also very nervous that he dont have any children,some times i also feel that if we had children the situation might be better than this .
can i go there but iam afraid that at this age my husband is not interested in children he says its seems awakward.
what shuold i do plz advice me guininely.
eagerly waiting for u r reply.

2007-01-16 03:09:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce