Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

One person told me I should use the name "Single and Free" . Someone else told me I should use the name "Single and Loving It" . What's so attractive about being single and free or someone who likes being single ? Why would someone who likes being single ever get married ? What's to stop someone who liked being single from going for a divorce the minute things get difficult ? Being single is the WORST ! Nobody even gives you a hug when you need it ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . A single person can't have a decent Thanksgiving or a decent Christmas . I hate being single . (I feel insulted because in forty -- five years, no woman has ever wanted me for a husband . Being single is a curse .

2007-01-16 02:40:13 · 23 answers · asked by Sad and Single 1 in Singles & Dating

And I was just wondering if anyone can tell me where i should start. We live in the ottwa area and any suggestions would be great.

2007-01-16 02:39:45 · 4 answers · asked by mullen s 1 in Family

just start treating you like you don't matter to him anymore? I left to the islands for the funeral of my grandmother...during that time this guy i've been seeing for 5 months was also on a job related assignment in another state. during that time he had a birthday. I called and spoke to him as often as I could while abroad even on his b'day.... now that I'm back he has made no effort to come see me and when I called him 3 times in 24 hours he had the nerve to say "didn't we speak 8 times for the day already..what do you want? are you bored?" and he sound really disgusted as if I was bothering him...truth is I'm in love with him. he and I would laugh and joke and just have so much fun together and all of a sudden here comes the dramatic changes. he's leaving for another assignment out of the country this week and he still hasn't made any effort to come see me. it hurt a lot...any advice?

2007-01-16 02:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Singles & Dating

we dated for 2 yrs but argued a lot.he mentioned marriage.i dumped him out of nowhere.5 months later,we tried to make it work again but break up.i force myself to see other guys,but can't stop thinking of my x.he moves on and starts a new relationship.after a month,he gets in a huge fight with her/tells me he's going to dump her/uses me for sex/next day changes his mind.this shook me bc he's not the type to cheat.she dumps him for other reasons.i later find out from the girl that they never had sex.during this,i meet a guy that's ok,but still not as great as my x.my x sees a new girl but spends way more time with me than her.she ended up going for her x anyway.2 weeks later,my x puts my pics on his dorm wall/wants to hold hands.we makeout.i still love him but am afraid.i tell him i only want 2 b friensd with benefits.he confesses that he wants a relationship/says that he won't have sex with me otherwise.i hesitate/he is hurt/ignores me.later,i agree to give him another chance.
ADVICE?

2007-01-16 02:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently had sex with a married woman who is going through a divorce...I think. That's what she told me, anyway. She wears the ring still, and she hasn't told her friends about the divorce. So, she pretends she's still married. But, I don't know if maybe he was gone for awhile and lied to me about getting a divorce or if she's telling the truth. Why would you hide something from your own friends? They'll know when it's all done with, right? Do you thinkk she's full of crap?
Is it wrong to continue sleeping with her? I don't know...I really like her.

2007-01-16 02:38:03 · 20 answers · asked by Shane M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

that thinks they are so intellectually superior to everyone, kinda like Steff? But, in fact they are really your inferior?

2007-01-16 02:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

there is dis boi im talkin 2 dat i neva saw b4 and he said he is 6'2 and 172. Is he fat or he medium size?

2007-01-16 02:36:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you come to meet your s.o and what did you have to go through(or what are you going through) to be together? Looking for love stories. :D

2007-01-16 02:36:55 · 4 answers · asked by tuxgal3 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has a control problem. We dont have sex but maybe once a month and its only when she wants it. I have not cheated but I did look online and flirted a little. When she found out, she tried to fight me. SHe has tried to fight me several times before and threatened me if I hit her back that she would call the cops. She apologized every time.

Is this marriage saveable? She claims she doesnt trust me. I dont trust her; nor do I like her attitude.

2007-01-16 02:36:52 · 17 answers · asked by Mister Tee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 02:36:49 · 30 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

okay i was going out with this guy Chris his in the Marines and my sister told him stuff and he told me that he didnt want anything to do with me and then he left and now my ex boyfriend wants to go back out with me what do i do

2007-01-16 02:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by BRAT09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 02:35:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been knowing this guy for about 4 months. We started off dating, then I eventually started a relationship with him 2 months aftter knowing him. We only were a couple for two weeks when he told me that he can't do the relationship thing. So I agreed to be his friend. We ended up still messing around and flirting occasionally. And he still acts like he likes me. But his ex of 3 years and him are back close and what he calls FRIENDS! But he admitts that he's tryna make it work with her. I'm like what! So now he talks to me about her, and says he wants to leave her it's just he needs something out of the relationship since he put so much into it. But I still like him and want to be with him. I want to be his friend but i don't think I can while I still have these feelings. Because I feel like I have to compete with her. Can I be his friend. I really don't want to just leave him alone, but I must find out whats best for me! HELP ME!

2007-01-16 02:33:54 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

In case anyone's interested, I sleep on my back and Mr. GorgeousFluffpot sleeps on his side with his back to me! Hmmmm,. now I think about it, is he trying to tell me something?
Anyway, what position do you and your partner sleep in?

2007-01-16 02:33:39 · 25 answers · asked by gorgeousfluffpot 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to put up a post and I was wondering if it is permanent or not?

2007-01-16 02:33:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is impossible. But I met a guy on a site called "habbo hotel" and he seemed in love with me. I was never. Weeks went by, he deleted me. So I requested back and started to talk to him. He seemed happy , but then I started to talk in a way like I wasnt interested in him. He never signed in again, cuz of me right ? I really want to contact him again and tell how I feel ! He must have misunderstand everything. A least I dont want him to feel sad. What can I do ? I have no information about him :S He catch me so wrong ! We were two lonely souls too shy too much in love to do something. He made me wake up and I just want him to know how much he have done for me !! I wish all my tears could be kisses righ now. I wish time could go back, what can I do ? PLZ PLZ PLZ for help !!! <3

2007-01-16 02:32:54 · 11 answers · asked by x•°meadow°•-|- 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up because he moved back home and other stuff to but n/e ways i really want to email him the lyrics to "I melt"(rascal flatts) and tell him that that was how i felt and then send him the lyrics to "I feel bad"(also rascal flatts) I Melt was the song we first nevermind you don't need to know that maybe its our ages to I'm 16 and he's 18 what do you think??? answer this seriously I'm tired of those smart a** comments I mean come on i have enough to deal with

2007-01-16 02:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by LOVE YOU 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are having problems because of his ex. shes still living with him at his house. which is awkward. i really love him too. now since shes screwing up her life on drugs. he said he might have to pick between both of us. its either me or her and i cant take it anymore. please give me some advice ill love yall forever thanx
*~Snuffy~*

2007-01-16 02:31:11 · 18 answers · asked by Snuffy 1 in Singles & Dating

Last Friday after a big arguement about my family he packed his stuff and left our two lil boys and I. The fight was both of our faults and he had warned me it was coming; I didn't understand what the problem was. I do now and I have tried to explain that I will not let it happen again. I want him to come back, but he claims he doesn't know if he can because he doesn't want to continue to be treated the way he was being treated. I suggested we go and talk to someone, but he doesn't think it will help. He has been here a few times to watch the boys so I could go to work and has even tried to have sex with me. I'm just afraid of what he is doing when he is not around us or at work. Does he have a girlfriend? Does he want to be with us? He won't talk to me much about the whole situation.
I have tried to stay strong, but it hurts like crazy. What do I do; I just want him to come home? How can I show him this?

2007-01-16 02:31:02 · 8 answers · asked by turtlegirl247 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok its like this...i split up with my long term boyfriend over a year ago - his choice not mine, we still live together, in the sense that i share a house with a mate and he sleeps on the sofa cos he has no money/no job. I still love him and he knows this only too well. I found out a couple of weeks back that he has been seeing someone else for quite a while - unfortunatly me and him had still been "more than friends" when he started seeing her and for several months into his new relationship...now ive just been told that he is planning to move in with her in a couple of weeks - he has not had the guts to tell me this himself and ive not confronted him yet..i feel a bit used since ive let him stay with me so long and feel he has taken advantage of the fact im in love with him and knows i will do anything for him. Ive got to confront him about it but how? - he took it really badly that i found out about his other women cos some else told me behind his back.

2007-01-16 02:30:59 · 29 answers · asked by sarah s 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks a lot and hopefully you get what you want when the day actually comes

2007-01-16 02:30:51 · 23 answers · asked by spiritualism0 3 in Singles & Dating

Did he break the hymen?
ok... so i was trying to give my boyfriend Mario my virginity. Well he tryed again and again putting it in and when he started going deeper it hurt 2 much. So he would pull out but at 1 point I got this really really sharp pain and I said ow and he said he felt that too. When I asked him about it today he said it felt like something ripped. Did he really "pop my cherry" or was it just my imagination? and yes i know that it is called a hymen :P anyways... yes we used a condom AND im on birth control AND i was on my period, so that i was less likely to get pregnant. So, Im not sure if I bled from my period or from the hymen... so help please :(:(:( ???? and I gave it to him for a good reason...... and i dont need any pep talks, Im just a 16 year old girl who needs advice NOT a lecture ok? Anyways thanks :) Bye

2007-01-16 02:30:30 · 4 answers · asked by And Our Souls Met 1 in Singles & Dating

can't an indian gay live as he wants?

2007-01-16 02:30:13 · 8 answers · asked by Francés 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 02:29:41 · 11 answers · asked by rockthewolrdstar 1 in Weddings

I mean nice to look at, but to date........... theres mileage there people

2007-01-16 02:29:39 · 26 answers · asked by Cyrill sneer 2 in Singles & Dating

does it really turn guys on when a woman squirts?

2007-01-16 02:29:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what she wrote:
Tonight the clipped moon reminds me of your
toe nails in the carpet. A splinter finding my foot
on the edge of leaving. Autumn has given us
these dry left overs collecting against the walls.
How I try so hard to not find you
camouflaged in these dark masses, instead
mulishly keep walking away as you stand.
Further your squinting eyes to reach me.

what is she trying to say in this ?
and also this chick hurt, part of me will like to chat with her
part will like to tell her to go to hell
what do u think?
thanks

2007-01-16 02:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love is in the air, and it is strong. The choice must be made,
and soon. Who will win my heart ? A host of female friends,
with open arms, ready to make the move. Do you know,
can you predict my love future ?

2007-01-16 02:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking with my ex for about 3 months He has always loved me very much and has thought consistanly about me throughout the 13 years that we have been apart we has called me every three years since we split. Well i was a stubborn, self centered person before when we were together and he felt i didnt love him so he broke up with me. Well we both moved on he had three children and so did I well I just broke up 9 months ago with my husband of 8 years, and he has been with his girlfriend for 13 years they are still together and he says he is not happy. i think that he wants to be with me but he doesnt want to hurt his girl or his family. I want to be with him he told me that he loves me and that he wants to come home to me but in the same time he fells bad about what to do about her, What should i do back off or continue to see him. I dont want to be a friend with benefits i am looking for love. But I have had the time of my life with him and have enjoyed all the attention.

2007-01-16 02:26:05 · 9 answers · asked by littlereddragon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i live together. his ex wife is trying to put a order in that he cant stay the night with me unless we are married. I am widdowed and it in my best finalical interest not to remarry, but i also dont want to lose him over this. I do know that she has another child by a different man who has lived with a another woman for years and she has never said anyting about it. I know this is just to get back at him for whatever. But can she do it to one dad and not the other?

2007-01-16 02:25:50 · 23 answers · asked by mess 2 in Marriage & Divorce