Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

My mother has somewhat opened up to the fact that Amy and I are getting back together. However she is demanding that Amy sign papers that will mean she gives up 100% rights to our son in the event this reconcilation doesn't work out. I am totally against this.
I feel it is wrong to keep Amy out of our son's life totally. He loves his mother. He needs her to be part of his life.
I have told my mother this is wrong. I have even refused to give Amy the paper. My mother says this is the only way she will accept Amy back into the family.
All I want to know is can my mother legally do this. Can she make Amy sign that paper. Or do we have the right to stand our ground and tell my mother to basically bug off.
It is getting to the point where I am ready to tell my mother to have a nice life and never have anything to do with her again. My sister who adores Amy has recently taken over as child care provider for our son.
As far as I know my mother didn't bad mouth him in front of him.

2007-01-16 02:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Jerrie's Daddy 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been together off and on for 4 years now. I really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but how can I be so sure? How do I know that there is not something else out there? I can't tell him I want to explore, that would make him think I don't love him but that's not the case at all but how can you ever be sure you've found "the one"?

2007-01-16 02:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Kerston 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had this friend since high school. She is a nice person, but also a real blonde bimbo. We haven't had much contact in the last couple of years but we are still friends and know eachothers families etc. She usually contacts me when she needs my help for something or wants my advice on her messy personal life. I have always tried to be there for her through break-ups with boyfriends, her uncle's death last year and so on. I have had some disturbing things happen to me too during the years we have known eachother but never called on her for help, partly because I can normally deal with my problems myself, but also because I don't feel she cares. She hardly ever asks how I am if she calls me, and even if she does, she never listens to my answer. One day she wants to leave her bf, the next day she wants to marry him and have his child (she is 39). It tires me out just listening to her problems, let alone dealing with them. Am I in my good right to focus on my own life, family, work?

2007-01-16 02:08:26 · 11 answers · asked by Great Dane 4 in Friends

im 20. & i get a lot of 17 year old girls like..literally, falling in love with me all the time, haha...why is this?

2007-01-16 02:08:01 · 33 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl in a English salon(I am Chinese).I know I were charmed by her. I have joked her that i am good at handwriting and i would write you a love letter.she just smiled..but after finished my letter,and call her to ask her detail address for mail.she reject to tell me .I try to give her when we met,she didn't accept yet.We always have dinner and do the shopping after English salon everyweek.we leave together,it seems a partner(others said).so I feel that she don't dislike me at least.what is my next steps.how can my letter work?what will work for love?

2007-01-16 02:07:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 'ex' has just admitted that he has met somebody else but he would rather get back with me - I don't think a relationship with him will work but I still don't like the idea of being with someone else so soon - I wish he had never told me. We were together for 2 years and have only just split up - what should I do? I hate feeling like this :o(

2007-01-16 02:07:50 · 21 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay my mother seriously drives me CRAZZZYY! and i cant stand it. shes thinks im a dog and she can just yell whenever she feels and she cant! ive had enough...i wish there was something i could say with out hurting her but geting the point across...im ready to leave..shes a psycho and i cannot live with her anymore!! HELP!

2007-01-16 02:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've not confided in you lot before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs. The phone rings, but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says,
"Just some friends from work. You don't know them."

I sometimes stay awake to look out for her cab coming home, but she always comes walking up the drive as I hear the sound of a car leaving around the corner, as if she has gotten out and walked the rest of the way to the house.

Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi at all?

I once picked up her mobile phone, just to see what time it was. This caused her to go completely berserk. She quickly
snatched the phone out of my hand and cursed me hysterically, screaming that I should never touch her personal property. She then accused me of trying to spy on her.

Anyway, I have never broached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

I decided I was going to park my car next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the street around the corner when she came home. It was at that moment, that’s when I saw a man walking off behind her as she came up the street.

I rushed back into the house through the back and ran into bed. She even asked why I had thrown down my slippers, like she knows I was in a rush back into the house?

HELP what should I do??

Chris

2007-01-16 02:06:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Growing up as a Christian, we'll follow the steps of the bible, it has been 2 years since i have been living on my own and i met this guy whom i been romacing with but i try not to commit fornification with him by being intimate. He telling me that it is really hard being lead on so far and then stop. I will like to know if it has any side effect on him, and how serious is it. I do not want to hurt him more, can you please advice me on this, He say his head hurts and he get angry sometimes although he try really hard to abstain.

2007-01-16 02:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Singles & Dating

someone used me for over a year
How do I get them back? I wanna hurt him real bad. Any ideas?

2007-01-16 02:05:37 · 34 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 months in recovery. I don't think he will ever forgive me for leaving him 10 years ago. I know he does'nt have to, but he is in pain. He thinks I did'nt want him, but I was very, very sick. Please, no mean thoughtless answers

2007-01-16 02:05:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am interested to know peoples feelings on this.

2007-01-16 02:04:58 · 38 answers · asked by sid 1 in Singles & Dating

If I wanted to get rid of this guy sho seems to be still hung up on his daughters mothers relationship that ended over 10 years ago, how would I go about it sensitively as I do like him and do not want to be tempted to sleep with him but would still like to be his friend, although a cliche, I mean it, he is a good friend, but I really don't need to chance the heartache, and feel I deserve better. Any of youhad a similar experience, I'd like some sensible advice. See my last question for more clarity. Thanks.

2007-01-16 02:04:40 · 3 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

What characteristics does your dream guy have to possess?Thanks a lot

2007-01-16 02:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by spiritualism0 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 02:03:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a gf and want her to do what i told her to do ( like donot talk to this guy , don't go for that party ) i want her fell happy but i am jealous for her

2007-01-16 02:02:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been flirting (innocently!) with a guy at work even though I have a boyfriend. We have joked around and teased each other like little kids. He gave me a hug once. Well, the other day, he called me out in front of another guy I work with and in a half-way joking kinda way said, "What does your boyfriend think of you flirting with me?" It kinda made me feel awkward. I didn't know how to respond. I've never crossed the line in my behavior towards him, yet I couldn't help but feel like a piece of **** when he said that. Do you think he's interested in me and was trying to get me to say something negative about my boyfriend or do you think he thinks I'm out of line in my behavior. How do I handle this?

2007-01-16 02:02:12 · 16 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Singles & Dating

I've started wearing my girlfriends underwear. Thing is, she like wearing mine. But that was only the start. She started wearing my trousers so I started wearing her skirts and that. Then one day she turns up in all my clothes and tells me she's going down the snooker club. I had no choice but to stay in wearing all her clothes and waiting for her to phone. When she got in she was badly drunk and kept going on about how she got a 38 break on the snooker and that she had got into a fight with a bloke over some bird. I was livid, so I went shopping with her mum. We had a great time and she said she thought i'd lost weight. cheered me up. Seems like everythings worked out for the best. No complaints here.

2007-01-16 02:01:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Broke up with my gf a month ago. We rented an apartment together, even after the break up we still live together as friends. But recently, she came home and started to move some of her things out, when i asked her whether she was moving out, she said she's just giving the stuff away. But after thinking for awhile i was still unconvinced with her answers so i asked her again, but this time she raised her voice and said that shes just giving it away not moving out. Ok fine i decided not to ask anymore. She didnt return home for a few days and i thought it was really weird so i called her, but she didnt pick up any of my calls. I have not received her mobile phone bills for quite awhile, so i called the company to see whether is the bill still being sent to my place. (bill under my name so i can access the account) And as i expected the address is no longer my address. Heres the prob, she still owes me a few thousand dollars in rent and she also has my digital camera & removable harddisk.

2007-01-16 02:01:17 · 8 answers · asked by omgwtfice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there was this girl at chruch she call me i was cute befor. and then nextweek she saw i was looking at her so she looks back. then after she keep on looking so i want to go shake her firend hand and everyone hand then i saw she looking then i look then she looks somewhere else so fast then i loko somewhere else to then she wears her jacket pull her hair and move her hard on the side and when i go talk to somepeoples she keeps on looking at me why then afer she want to go look at some book whit her firend then after her mom say lets go home. then i was near the door she looks at me then go alway why by the way i am 17 she is 15?

2007-01-16 02:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 02:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by yungblud00 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey...I've known a guy for quite a while. I met him though his mum who is a friend of mine. We both became quite good friends and used to have a real laugh. We shared a few cuddles and kisses and everything seemed to be going great until he said we should carry on being friends, nothing more. I told him I did like him but I'm fine with just friends. However, whenever I suggest we go out or meet up, as friends obviously, he says its not a good idea! We spoke on the phone the other day and he was flirty but then the next day he was distant again. I'm just trying to work out why he's so distant with me after everything thats happened between us? We both talked about it and decided to carry on being friends but things haven't been the same since. Thanks for your answers, any help appreciated x x x

2007-01-16 02:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by smiley_babyxox 1 in Singles & Dating

Any improvments? I know I need to work my abs a bit more, what do you women think?

Please no flaming, I know im being vain but I just thought id get some opinons anyway.

Thanks.

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not sure if that link will work but if not you can see at my 360 page to get a better view.

2007-01-16 01:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf been away on holiday 4 2 weeks and im not sure if he has cheeted on me .wat should i do?

2007-01-16 01:59:16 · 17 answers · asked by u'd tap this! 2 in Singles & Dating

AND IF YOU DID-WERE YOU REMARRIED AT THE TIME OR WERE YOU BOTH STILL SINGLE?

2007-01-16 01:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by sweetbabykitty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked for advice yesterday. My lack of patience is bringing me mad and I'm determined to do something just today. The problem is. I haven't tried to call my boyfriend since Sunday. He got pissed off Saturday night because I was out with my friends and called him on his entry phone... he was sick, got really mad at me and hung up. Everyone has told me to give him a couple of days... He would't answer the phone on Sunday. Yesterday I didn't call him but wrote him an email saying I'm so sorry. Today I've done nothing yet but: Should I call him in the evening? Or should I pay him a visit... considering what happened Saturday night? Please help!

2007-01-16 01:58:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that my friend has been seeing, seems like a great guy but we still worry about her getting her heart broken by him. She is one of those girls that really fall hard...fast. She has been seeing him for about three weeks now and they seem happy enough...which everyone is in the beginning. The other day they were laying in bed and he told her twice that he was becoming very attached to her. From an objective viewpoint what would you make of that?

2007-01-16 01:58:14 · 1 answers · asked by heaven o 4 in Singles & Dating

Someone i love very dear, is addicted to crack. and i need to help. the person asks me for help to understand that he doesnt want to do it. its like a itch that u shouldnt scratch but when you start u cant stop till your done.. u kno wat im saying.

he wants to get help. but he doesnt want to talk to someone. he wants to get anyonmous help i guess, i've sugguested phone lines and shyt..

but now i just tell him that whatever it is he wants to do HE needs to want to do it.. i cant do anything for him. i wont do anything for him. becuz as much as i want this problem to go away its not my problem to get rid of. he is the only one taht has ccontrol over it.

i dont understand wat its like to be hooked on that shyt i never smoked it. he says when he drinks its just sets him off.. but its clear even when he isnt drinking he wants it, becuz he says he gets urges.

can someone give me some insight on this drug

2007-01-16 01:57:13 · 13 answers · asked by phatguyanesegurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she still accept my wooing. hmm..

2007-01-16 01:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother think he owns me he raped me a few times and im soo embarssed to tell and then he keeps doing it how do i tell

2007-01-16 01:56:40 · 15 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Family