Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

2007-01-16 01:24:34 · 2 answers · asked by the man on your monitor 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and his brother are 30 and 35 respectively. Yesterday when I came home from work I caught the two of them in the shower together. They were both soapy and wet and happily washing each others bodies. When I asked them what in the world they were doing, they said that they wanted to spend some time together bonding and this was the perfect way to do it. I was stunned. My husband acted as if this was not a big deal and says that he and his brother do many things together that I am not even aware of. Should I accept this behavior or should I ask them to stop? Should my husband still be showering with his brother? Help please!

2007-01-16 01:22:14 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when hes been chasing you for years, is that part of the chase game??

we have only kissed eachother on many occasions.

i havent slept with him even though he did want to sleep with me.

i must admit i have been a bit of a tease.

i really like him but hes ignoring me.

does he want me to chase him now???

what should i do???

2007-01-16 01:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this guy I work with really likes me and may try to take our friendship to a new level. He is not what I would of went out searching for and doesn't initially flip my switch but I think he's different than others I have dated and truly cares about me. Is this enough? My friend experienced something similar but ended up dumping the guy because those sparks weren't flying.

2007-01-16 01:20:43 · 14 answers · asked by bluejasmine3 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a beauty and studies with me in coaching. I get to meet her overthere and more often in the school

2007-01-16 01:20:35 · 26 answers · asked by aalok k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:19:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, My bf and I have been together for four months now. We are planning to get married in December (though we aren't officially engaged). I love him more than I have ever loved anyone in my entire life. We are both happy with our relationship but he is always doing little things to make me fall in love with him all over again. I want to do something like that for him. I want to make him feel as special as he makes me feel. Can someone help me please????????????

2007-01-16 01:18:05 · 18 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Singles & Dating

If you would meet a girl you really like , and she just can't stand one thing about you, depends on each individuall what's your habit you know yourself well enough, would you change it in a heartbeat for her???

By the way two thumbs up for all the guys outthere who are so funny, i love it when you crack me up

2007-01-16 01:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Singles & Dating

Never, ever stop smiling, no matter if you are sad or not, Because you never know when someone is falling in love with your smile.

2007-01-16 01:17:30 · 14 answers · asked by look behind you 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering if you think that I look like a good guy, and if I can improve any? My hair was messed up that day I took the pic, its usually not like that.

2007-01-16 01:17:25 · 17 answers · asked by Professor Awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

i still love this guy, and he promise that he will married me, but this other girl is always past night in his house. pls what can i do? i sincerely love this guy.

2007-01-16 01:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by kemmy 1 in Singles & Dating

we had some problems in our relationship and right now i think we should just brake up for good. because we were off and on i broke up with him then we got back together then he broke up with me then we got back together and right now i tired of doing this over and over again.

2007-01-16 01:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

That 1 week from now, anything that you type today will really matter to anyone?

2007-01-16 01:14:46 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you react towards your boyfriend/girlfriend if they send you or read you an extremly cheesy, corny and sappy love poem?!

Just curious, because a friend of mine didn't make a very nice reaction!

2007-01-16 01:14:19 · 22 answers · asked by Little Light 3 in Singles & Dating

My little sisters 8th Birthday is coming up this week. I want to take her out to eat somewhere fun! Any ideas would be great!! Thanks!

2007-01-16 01:14:15 · 12 answers · asked by Shorty06 3 in Family

friday i broke up with my boyfriend because i wanted more out of the relationship he did! me and him have been on and off for the past three years! yesterday i found out that his grandma said he had different girls over there every weekend! should i ask him about it? or should i just let it go because we are not together anymore?

2007-01-16 01:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by sarah gangsta 2 in Singles & Dating

Husband
Thought he had mono---- He claimed he didn't know what it was
Suddenly has a raw penis----- Claims its always like that
He wanted my ex to move in our house for $---- Claims it was just a dumb thought.
Has started to fake orgasms----- Claims nothing came out but he did
Has suddenly developed a cravng for candy bars at the same time every night and goes to the store(nonetheless briefly)
He called my sister baby twice---- claims it just slipped out.
He says I am just crazy and paranoid, and should just love and trust him no matter what. I don't think I'm crazy, do you?
I need to know before I file divorce papers. All this occurs while I am currently pregnant.

2007-01-16 01:13:09 · 38 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,me and my boyfriend just came back together after one month of break-up.Reasons for breaking up were undisputably serious for both of us...Somehow though we couldn't stay away from each other and now we are back together...and we know that our relationship will sometime end because it will not work out as the PERFECT MARRIAGE. But there is something that can't keep us apart. Are we doing something wrong?

2007-01-16 01:12:33 · 6 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it love or infatuation and can it last?

2007-01-16 01:11:09 · 30 answers · asked by ryan_thorne 3 in Singles & Dating

I was sitting with classmates in free period. And the girl that i like was walking with her friend and she saw where i was sitting. And she ditched her friend and went to the girls bathroom near where I was. like 12 meters far.

She went in and looked in the mirror and played with her hair.

I think this girl likes me or something( we never met though), she always looks at me with a smile 2.

I hesitated a little then she was gone butterflies were really ****** killing me. I wish i get more chances like that.
She is 1 year older then me. And super hot. ughhhh

2007-01-16 01:11:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by bootylover300 2 in Singles & Dating

I m in my mid 20's, nice looking, with a college degree and a good job. Why can't I have a decent man in my life? I've been divorced for 2 1/2 years, my ex has moved on and now lives with his new girlfriend. The few men that i meet in whom I m interested tell me that Im a wonderful, caring, beautiful (inside and out), smart young lady. If they make it sound as if I m such a good catch, then why don't they stick around? Usually after a week or two they stop answering my calls. The last guy I talked to for almost 2 years, I found out right before he disappeared that he had a serious girlfriend about 200 miles away from where l lived (the whole time he was with me they were dating.) and they're planning on getting married soon.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

2007-01-16 01:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by enjoy life, u only get one try. 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found an old friend of mine on myspace by contacting one of our mutual friends.

The issues is... about 10 years ago we had a terrible falling out. I said and did things that I'm not proud of. She wasn't exactly an angel either about the situation.

I'm afraid that if I reconnect with her that I will end up confronting an old boyfriend. She introduced me to this guy. He was abusive and toward the end of our relationship he ...........

I can't bring myself to finish that thought. While I don't blame her for his actions I'm worried I might have to deal with him again.

Any advice?

2007-01-16 01:10:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My neighbour told me a while back he had feeling for me)and before anyone asks there has NEVER been anything between us)he made out to me that him and his partner going through really rough time and i gave him what i thought good advice that i was not the answer to his problems and to sort things out with her.They had argument last night and he,s told her what he said to me!!! I cant believe it! this was ages ago and i thought as ive told him no way it was forgotten about. I didnt tell her because 1 i didnt want to hurt her and 2 hoped that was the end of it.She,s devastated and i feel sick to my stomach.I spoke to her last night and at least he had the decency to tell her it was down to him and he,s made a *** of his self she,s been ok with me i think she understands this was all one sided.But i got up this morning and i feel ill with i dont know what.I dont know what to say to her and im dreading seeing him coz i think i,ll go for him.WHY DO THIS IM SO ANGRY

2007-01-16 01:09:57 · 3 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Singles & Dating

it ws an accident so cant blame enyone
bt i slept with my frnds husband n now i am 5 weeks preg.we want to tell her bt she is preg too [8 months]
what to do...........???

2007-01-16 01:07:59 · 21 answers · asked by neha 1 in Friends

But with every change you have to go back in time and deal with a painful time in your life, would you be willing to relive the pain ?

2007-01-16 01:07:57 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by honeybun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pt.2 of my question last week:
I told my ex we arent ready for marriage & he wasnt too pleased with it. He went on a drinking binge and showed up at my doors 2 days ago "supposedly" to retrieve some of his things he left at my place. He showed me his wrist and he cut his left wrist! He said the first day he was heartbroken and he cut himself with some glass from a bottle, he says it broke during the cutting. He also mentioned that he wanted my attention. I told him to go to a mental health hosptial but he doesnt think he needs help. If someone wants to kill their self, there is other ways to do it. I think he may have did it to get my sympathy as a last ditch attempt because he knows I dont want to deal with his drinking problem. Is he trying to make me feel guilty? That has further pushed me away from him, he is making things 1000% worser than what it was!He constantly asks if I'm sleeping with someone else, & that is soo unattractive.It was temporary at first, but now its permenant!

2007-01-16 01:06:36 · 17 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I met and married very quickly. Problem is I have kids and a crazy ex. wife and she has a daughter from a failed relationship from her past and has parents that she’s had problems with (they either love each other or hate each other and I made the mistake of getting in the middle of it when we first met). When we first met, I was my wife’s savior over her family who apparently treated her like crap and never understood her (according to her). As the marriage progressed my wife was very needy. If I didn’t return her call right away, she would get extremely irritated with me. Then problems started happening with blending the family and my ex. wife and her problems with being really needy and her family. My wife kind of wigged out and it was like she didn’t know what she was getting herself into with a blended family situation. She made up with her family when we started having problems and attached to them like glue (even though in the beginning they were horrible to her according to her). Now they kiss her butt and she seems very attached to them and has distanced herself a little from our life and positioned herself with her family somewhat. Now they are always there for her when in the beginning they were crap to her. Now guess who’s crap? Me. She now talks to her mom every day and her mother I don’t think liked that she got married because she lost control and I think her mom is manipulating her to get her back in her control by just kissing her butt. Because of our problems (which seem normal when you’re first married) I feel like I’ve lost her to her family and she looks to them for comfort more than me. I’m starting to get the feeling that she thinks she made a mistake and marriage is tougher than she thought but doesn’t know how to get out of it even though she says she loves me and this and that. However she’s very critical now of me and she used to get extremely worried that I would leave her. Now it’s like she doesn’t care if she lost me. How do I get her to wake up and untie the apron strings and grow up and accept what she married into and how do I get her to realize that she needs to get her family out of the picture and be married? She claims she was a very independent single mom but I doubt that now. I feel deceived and used just because she needed someone when I first met her to get her over her crisis with her family. Now it’s like I’m not the most important thing even though I was there for her every second of the day. Now other people are and I’ve been tossed aside. Am I reading too much into this? It doesn’t seem normal. What’s going on in her head? Any ladies care to try and figure out what’s going on in her head for me? I’m stumped. I feel like she could pick up and just leave any minute when in the beginning she couldn’t stand to not be away from me for more than a few hours.

2007-01-16 01:06:19 · 10 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with her since I can remember (4 I think) I am 21 now and would like to know should I tell her how i feel about her I've cared for her as if she were my sister but with my last girlfriend leaving me I find myself obsessing over her safety and hate the guy she is with. The two are engaged but have been for about 2 years.

2007-01-16 01:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by Suravian M. Requteg 1 in Singles & Dating