Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

i have been dating my bf now for about 4 months or so..and we love each other alot.hes so nice to me,and compliments me all the time..btu then there are days that he humiluates me,cusses me out,punches me,and belittles me. i jus love him so much..and i have always promised i would never be with an abussive guy. i tried talking to my mom..but she wont listen..its so complicated.idk what to do...

2007-01-16 01:38:15 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda T 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband says that any time someone dies, the funeral home puts a wreath on the front door of the deceased person's house. I have lost several people in my immediate family, and there was never a wreath on any of those front doors. Can someone please clarify this for me?

2007-01-16 01:38:13 · 18 answers · asked by expertloghomegal 2 in Family

i in collge nw it beta for me cous
i not at home. i moved on now
i need to do wat rite 4 me
my parents will hv leave me
to do wat i want
i dnt wan thm interfyring
i cn't go bk to
my hm town agen. thr
2much history.
thnk i shuld go away
a break like..in nxt hols?

2007-01-16 01:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by Kerri M 1 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy in my class likes me one day he held my backpack open for me so i could put my books in my bag and then i accidental droped something and he wanted to help me pick it up and he always looks at me he has a g/f but he doest do anything for the other girls in my class. and he said he likes helping people to so i dont know?

2007-01-16 01:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Can Chocolate make you feel tired and weak and run down if you eat a lot of it as my boyfriend keeps telling me that it can make me feel that way is this true ?

2007-01-16 01:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what are you unable to resist...even if every nerve in your body screams at you that you must......;0)

2007-01-16 01:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been on and off w/my guy for 2 yrs. there are reasons..when were together its contentment-peaceful -happy days...im so insecure and cant shake it..when in fact he just lets everything go from the times we werent together.......HOW DO I DO THAT?

2007-01-16 01:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to chruch and there was 3 girls siting so i go sit near the girls. and when is time to shake eveyone hands i go shake the girls hands and for one of the girl right after i shake her hand she Blushes & stares at the floor and then i go shake her sister hand she looks at my hand and me. then after i go shake more peoples hands. and when i go back to sit i hear a wispering to her firend hes cute then her firend looks at me for like 10 secs. then the girl who says it look at me when i look back shel looks somewhere else fast?

2007-01-16 01:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my husband very much but just recently i caught him snogging sombody else. he says because our marriage isn't exciting enough. i thought we were fine its him who never shows any interest. we've only been married less than a year and have a 6 month baby. please help!!!!

2007-01-16 01:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by xblue-printx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of a couple of months seems to be hung up on his ex who is his daughters mother. The relationship ended over 10 years ago but he still talks about her as if she were a real goddess and says he wishes things had been different between them. Obviously it seems like I'm stupid to be staying with him but it's allready too late, and there is real chemistry between us. We are not teenagers, but I don't know what to do. What do you think, is it worth pursuing it and risking being dumped for the ex if she clicks her fingers, or am I worrying about nothing. Any sensible advice apreciated.

2007-01-16 01:34:45 · 21 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

just for fun...;0)

2007-01-16 01:33:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wth sm1 and thn move on to the nxt guy
thy all the same some how and the different boyfriends
i've had it starts ok thr spice n thn further into the relationshp
thgs strat to go sour, its shrt n nevr lasts

2007-01-16 01:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by Kerri M 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has just asked me to marry him. He has told me the sky is the limit and I have started planning the wedding of my dreams.
I have always waited a princess themed wedding kind of like cinderella.
My boyfriend has assured me that him and I will be paying for most of the wedding so what I want goes.
The problem is my mother. She doesn't like any of my ideas. She says no to every single one of them. She has taken all the fun out of planning this wedding.
Caleb and I are considering just running off to get married cause of her interference.
She just wants things to be her way and no questions asked.
She has told me that if she doesn't get her way she will not attend the ceremony.
Sure I value my mother's opinion but she has taken over. How do I get her to see that my ideas are worth something. And that since Caleb and I are paying for this wedding we should have what we want--not what she wants.
Is there any easy way to get her to back off without offending her.

2007-01-16 01:33:12 · 21 answers · asked by RoiLynn T 1 in Weddings

i really like this guy who i've been having an affair with, he makes me laugh, he is so genuine and he really likes me. We are both engaged to other people and have children with these people. We understand a lot of people can get hurt if the affair is exposed but the way we feel for each other is so unreal. i think i may be falling for him. i feel so good when im around him and he totally understands me. The person i am with at the moment doesnt make me feel the way my 'lover' does. I really dont know what to do.. i know having an affair is wrong and most of you will probably think i am stupid.

2007-01-16 01:32:51 · 22 answers · asked by sxe_gal_y2k3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hmm for me, the whole passage of the vow can be summarized that i will love her as long as i live in all circumstances, even if she fail me (in terms of being unfaithful). easy say than done but marriage to me is always something worth longing for and making it a reality.

i know it hurts terribly if she fail me, but the bottomline is that the vow contains my solemn pledge to love her unconditionally and it doesn't matter if she doesn't keep it. else it isn't a true love from me.

peace to all its just my personal view.

2007-01-16 01:32:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-16 01:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Because his girlfriend is really jealous of me and argues with him everyday over me. I never have done anything to her or him and we're only friends. We used to be together but she thinks we're more than friends now. Both of us know we like each other still, but he loves her so he's with her. What can I do to calm this crazed jealous woman down? I love him dearly and want to keep his friendship if I can't have his affections. She doesn't trust him at all so I don't know if there is a way for us to stay friends without him losing her... >_>

2007-01-16 01:31:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does a man say he loves you but cheats on you.And then when he gets caught cheating he cries and begs for your forgiveness cuz "he just cant live without you".But then after thats done and you forgive him.......he does it again?What goes through mens mind and why do they hurt the people they love?

2007-01-16 01:31:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 01:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by tina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

everybody takes exception to my normal conversation and gets angry....whereas they react diffently if someone else says something stupid.....actually i have lost the art of speaking/dealing with people ....... nobody wants to loose from me......I considered the weakest guy coz of my introvert nature and weak physique.......i dont know how to survive ?

2007-01-16 01:29:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been going thru a really messy breakup with my bf. We actually broke off 2 months ago, since we didnt have a future together (we are both guys and were living in) and he recently dumped for a girl. It was really tough on me since I had helped him with money, which I needed for my new home. He said he was leaving town for a month in Dec and I kept in touch with him thru txt messages. He came back on 2nd Jan and spent a night with me (everything but sex since he was committed to someone else) and left with a promise to be friends forever. After he left, he has been promising the money. I recd his phone bills and bank statements which showed he didnt leave town and was lying to everyone including his family, friends and me. When I asked him, he said he had problems to deal with and all he owed was money which he will return soon. I got so pissed off that he was treating me like a money lender and didnt respect my feelings. So, I asked him to return everything that I ever gave him..

2007-01-16 01:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

realistic answers please and thank you

2007-01-16 01:28:38 · 23 answers · asked by se-se 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my ex boyfriend and I was talking and he told me he just wants to be friends should I be happy that we are friends or upset cause that is all we ever will be cause I still love him and would die for him and his friends say he still likes me a little so do I tell him I like him or show him I like him by being "friends"?????????

2007-01-16 01:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is too busy to get out there and meet people the old fashioned way, so I wondered if internet dating is still considered a bit desperate and sad, or is it the modern way to do these things?

2007-01-16 01:27:12 · 25 answers · asked by Princess Paradox 6 in Singles & Dating

I am in my mid-40s and am just feeling rather low. Husband's issues are annoying me, as well as my son's. Feel like I want to be alone, but know it is not a good thing in the way that I feel. I am definitely not suicidal, and know that my feelings can be turned into something good. I am overweight by over 20kg and am very unfit. My skin is a mess, and yet I have medication which should help me. I don't feel beautiful, not even on the inside. I know lots of ways that I can possibly make myself feel better, but my main problems are that I have no willpower and I tend to run myself down. I need anyone who can say things to set my mindframe right. Please advise me, and thank you very much.

2007-01-16 01:26:25 · 19 answers · asked by Fay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 59 and I'm seeing this girl who is 19 and we are thinking about having sex. We've been together for 3 months. What do you think?

2007-01-16 01:26:04 · 34 answers · asked by sadoldgit 2 in Singles & Dating

you know when someone crosses that personal space line...for me...unless its a man or woman i know very well or that has an open invitation to... its touching my hair or my face...i remember a friend of mines husband once coming up behind me at a dinner party taking a handful of my hair and sniffing it very close to my neck...i couldnt stand him anyway but at this i had to restrain myself from decking him....no need she did it for me...;0)

2007-01-16 01:25:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:25:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:25:24 · 19 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend officially broke up last night and i was too afraid to tell him when we were together that i think im pregnant but i dont want to tell him now and make him think im only saying this to keep him with me cuz we were talking last weekend about what we would do if i got pregnant and he told me he would stay with me. but how can i really believe this if he left me because of a rumor that i screwed another guy

2007-01-16 01:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating