2007-01-16 01:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by tina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The moment a child is born EGO has also come to stay with it.
EGO is like a grateful dog and one has to handle it with care.So long as it is under your control, your life is fine with out much of a problem.The moment you allow your EGO to over take you, you land in troubles.
EGO problems you come across through your life but not peculiar to only your married life.
Among the marriage partners, both are EQUAL and one can not expect the other to shed off the EGO completely. It must be mutual understanding for the married life to prosper.
Try to co-operate with your partner and follow the dictum"Give and take"
That means, " GIVE way to your EGO and TAKE her EGO" with a pinch of salt and give a red carpet welcome to her EGO for the married life to prosper till the logical end.
2007-01-16 01:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love and only love can drive out ego, when our relationship pass the stage of physical attraction the ego slowly starts . Just think from your viewpoint and that of your husband's you will find that if u want him to take care of you beyond the realms of ego make yourself worthy, upgrade yourself ,make yourself a better wife as well as a better human being . Your husband will always try to catch you in this race and one day you will find he is giving you lots of attention. Because he is rediscovering you and then you will find ego has slowly but surely left the scene.
2007-01-16 03:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by bengalhulo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ego in marriage ... don't think so .....It has nothing to do w/it. When a decision needs to be made it needs to be made 4 everyone concerned in the best interest of all partys... Only control frieks do it w/ ego... Marriage requires mature thought ,mature decisions and the willingness to look past the pride of it all because you like your spouse & trust in the decisions u make together
2007-01-16 02:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is overflowing with the competitive attitude,and especially since the so called women's lib kicked in when it did life has changed.Women needed those rights for many reasons however as usual discretion didn't kick in.And to add to that young women compete to the point of rough dress ,breaking wind and belching etc.in public as much as possible to make some of kind of point.
2007-01-16 01:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because too many people wanting to take charge... marriage is supposed to be an equal partnership...
2007-01-16 01:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because one what to be the Alpha.......but if you look past beony your ego, thing will work out just right..........
2007-01-16 01:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that' b coz husband wants wife to be in his control and wife want he to be in her control .so both doesnt cooperate each other.
2007-01-16 01:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you lack humility?
2007-01-16 01:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, all you have to stop it. Its simple, turn him or her off and it will stop.
2007-01-16 01:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause we are idiots
2007-01-16 01:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by bad b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋