been on and off w/my guy for 2 yrs. there are reasons..when were together its contentment-peaceful -happy days...im so insecure and cant shake it..when in fact he just lets everything go from the times we werent together.......HOW DO I DO THAT?
2007-01-16 01:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think you are the only one with in securities, your not.
Well this sounds stupid, but one way to deal with insecurities is by constantly reminding ourselves of those personal attributes we consider to be "good", and downplaying those we consider "bad"
Could it be that these same insecurities is what causes your relationship to be so unstable, and the fact that your relationship is so unstable is what is causing you even more insecurity thereby creating a perpetual evil cycle?
If so, then the above method will work, however you have to reinforce your believe in yourself, but be carefull so as not to appear arrogant.
I hope this will help you, it sure helped me.
PS: If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was
2007-01-16 01:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Big Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why all the on & off. If you really were both into each other... there would be no on & off. Accept it & move on. You are just using each other for comfort and security. There are millions of others out there who will help you with your insecurity. If he isn't doing it now, he never will.
You deserve better. You are worth it. What would you tell a friend to do in the same situation?
2007-01-16 01:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about why your insecure. Do you feel like your not pretty enough or do you not trust him? Or is there another reason? You need to find out why your insecure and address the issue itself instead of worrying about it.
2007-01-16 01:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have to practice a bit of self love. Insecurities.. are an internal problem. You solve it.. through self love, inner peace, and spirituality.
Good luck.
2007-01-16 01:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities come from within, just let it be and things will be a lot easier.
2007-01-16 01:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not stricken with information from them. they are annoying, however that's a lot less stressful basically to push aside and document. The grade schooler section somewhat sucks. i love this section very a lot. Trolls received't push me out!
2016-12-02 08:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive
2007-01-16 01:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its time to let go. He didnt give you of importance. Sometime, some things are not meant to be.
2007-01-16 01:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by shanekeavy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing but a little time a growing up will cure./
2007-01-16 01:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
let bird go, if comes back yours for life, if not, never was.
2007-01-16 01:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋